Originally Published in KinkEMag.com
As with anything there are pitfalls in cuckolding and I want to share with you a story of a client of mine who was taken down a road he wasn’t ready for. This is a true story but the names have been changed.
Paul is a sweet soul in his fifties who called me one day to tell me about his fantasy of being cuckolded by his wife Amanda who is also in her fifties. You see Paul’s wife had an affair several years ago and it almost broke up the relationship. Ever since then Amanda was very faithful but sexually unfulfilled and Paul couldn’t figure out why he kept fantasizing about what went on during her affair. So I discussed his fantasy with him and we both came to the conclusion that she just might go for a cuckold relationship based on this affair that she had.
Paul did everything right. When we both felt she was ready he proposed the idea of a cuckold relationship. They sat and discussed at length what their boundaries were and she was really open to the idea and to following some common sense rules.
Paul knew that Amanda still thought about the guy she had the affair with and since the idea of her hooking up with the guy turned him on he figured that giving her the green light to start up the affair again would work really well. He couldn’t have been more wrong. Unfortunately he went ahead and said it was okay for her to get in touch with this guy again before he talked to me. I told him that Amanda going to a man that she had feelings for before was in fact the worst thing he could do. It’s never a good idea to go back to former lovers in cuckolding because the point of a cuckold relationship is that the alpha/bull/stud is just used for sex and that’s it. He’s not there to replace the husband and by introducing someone she had feelings for you run too big a risk of her falling for him all over again. When a bull male gets too close to me and starts to profess his love I kick him to the curb. That may sound harsh but I’m not looking to complicate my life and my relationship. Paul was sure it would all be fine because they were communicating openly.
Everything started out really well. Amanda hooked up with Jeremy the mid-thirties, black, stud muffin she had the affair with again and Paul at first got to hear about it but in no time was watching her have sex with this guy in their home, in their bed. He couldn’t be happier. Amanda was thrilled and in Paul’s words seemed to come alive again. Jeremy had her wearing provocative outfits that she never would have worn for Paul and she seemed to thrive on Jeremy’s attention. For me all of this was throwing up red flags because Jeremy was starting to take over Amanda. But Paul was happy and was still positive that everything was perfect.
Paul started funding trips for Amanda and Jeremy. It’s important for me to note here that Paul is a somewhat affluent man who was not hurting for money. Not rich but extremely comfortable. He and Amanda lived in a big beautiful home. Paul ran his own company and Amanda also had her career which was how she met Jeremy. So he had the means to fund trips and pay for fine dining. Soon he was also funding tattoos that Jeremy wanted on Amanda.
The sexual component seemed to be progressing as well. Paul felt his submission reaching new heights as they explored even more kinky ideas in the bedroom. Paul began sucking Jeremy to prepare him to fuck Amanda and eventually allowed Jeremy to fuck him as well. Jeremy was very good at giving orders and had Paul exploring his feminine side by wearing panties in the bedroom on their nights together, and he was no longer allowed to touch Amanda at all as she was now owned by Jeremy. And Paul was eating it up.
Now I’m a big believer that although I wasn’t happy about what was going on it was their relationship to do with what they wanted. I continued to counsel Paul and show him my concerns but in the end they are all adults and are perfectly within their rights to do whatever they wanted. Whether I liked it or not was irrelevant. This was Paul’s life and I was there to support him.
In one of our sessions Paul confided in me that all his wife had always wanted to have a baby but they were never able to conceive and now the theme of Amanda getting pregnant by another man had started to infiltrate his cuckold fantasies.
I cautioned him that this is something that can be integrated in to their relationship but that it cannot be something you just consider one day and then implement the next. There had to be an enormous amount of thought in a decision that huge but fantasizing about it was completely normal.
It didn’t take long before fantasy became reality and Paul decided he wanted Amanda to get pregnant by Jeremy. Once again I told him my concerns. A woman having a child with a man she had feelings for in a scenario like this probably won’t end well. I told him to get legal counsel and to have a contract drawn up clearly delineating the rights and responsibilities of all parties. This he did…thank god. Jeremy signed the contract removing his parental rights to the possible child.
Now understand that all of this was going down in the time span of less than three months. It’s not like this new relationship dynamic was seasoned and marinating slowly. No, it was going at lightning speed and all I’m seeing are the red flashing lights of impending doom.
Paul’s weakness was Amanda’s breasts and she and Jeremy used this to drive his submission even deeper, which in a more stable situation would be fantastic. At Jeremy’s command she would use her breasts to mesmerize him. Promising small sessions of touching and if he was really lucky he might be able to suckle at them but even this started to become less frequent. Paul didn’t care. He was in the process of watching his wife become impregnated by another man. What could be better? She gets the child she always wanted and he gets to be the guy who made it happen for her.
It wasn’t long before Amanda was finally pregnant with the child she always wanted. Amanda was in heaven and Paul was completely enraptured by the whole situation. Then came the day that Jeremy decided Paul was to be put in chastity and Jeremy was to be the key-holder. Paul called me and told me he had been caged by Jeremy but when I asked him if he liked it he wasn’t thrilled. They had put a large padlock on the device and I told him that if he didn’t want to be caged that he was well within his rights to say no. He had been in chastity at this point approximately three weeks and although he loved the chastity the fact that Jeremy had the key made him nervous. So I got him to go in the garage and get the bolt cutters and remove the device which he promptly did.
This didn’t sit well with Jeremy so he resorted to more breast tease and denial to capture his attention and servitude. Once again the chastity device was put back on and Paul went in to a state of very deep submission to both Jeremy and Amanda. This is common when a submissive is placed in chastity and as I said before if this was a better situation it would be a wonderful thing.
It became apparent to me that Jeremy had started to do some serious research on mind control. When Paul would call and catch me up on what was going on I noticed some serious changes to his mental state but by now Amanda had become pregnant with Jeremy’s child and Paul was knee deep in what I can only call a form of Stockholm Syndrome, as was Amanda. Both of them had become almost robotic in their servitude of Jeremy.
At this point Jeremy had moved in to Paul’s home. Paul was relegated to one room in this grand house he was paying for and wasn’t allowed to leave except for work and meals with the other two or when he was working on the nursery. During those meals he would be ignored which would make him crave Jeremy’s attention even more. But no matter what, he was always allowed in while Jeremy and Amanda were having sex so that Paul would learn that he no longer owned anything of his own. Jeremy had taken his wife, his home and this child. Jeremy was now totally living off of Paul and banking his own paychecks.
During the time Jeremy had taken over the house Amanda had gone to Paul and told him that they needed to make changes to his will and his power of attorney. He had already put both of them on his medical insurance and this was the next logical step. And even this didn’t wake up Paul, a very articulate, intelligent, successful man.
Then came the day that Jeremy called Paul at work and told him to go the tattoo shop that he had Amanda frequenting. Paul thought that he was going to get a tattoo with Jeremy’s name on it because that’s what they had discussed a few weeks earlier. Instead he was taken in to a room, his trousers and shorts pulled down and placed in a chair. Jeremy is there telling him what to do. Paul is in a trance-like state. Within ten minutes Paul had a Prince Albert piercing through his cock and was caged in a device that would not come off. Paul said it happened so fast he didn’t even have time to protest.
Now I’m pissed and I’m no longer willing to just let this carry on. I had no choice but to try to snap Paul out of the hypnotic state he was in. I told him that I thought he had Stockholm syndrome, that he had to wake up and see what was happening around him. We talked for quite a while and he seemed to come around but I had my doubts it would last.
Luckily after he hung up with me he started really thinking about how all of this had progressed. By now it’s about six months in to this pseudo-cuckold relationship and he realized this wasn’t going the way it should be. He decided to confide most but not all of what had happened to one of his lawyers who he was friendly with and thank god his friend also told him it wasn’t right.
He ended up throwing the two of them out giving Amanda a chance to stay of course but she was too far gone under Jeremy’s spell to realize what she was doing. He got another pair of bolt cutters and removed the piercing three days after it was done so he healed up pretty quick.
Since then Amanda has tried to come over and use her breasts to entice him back in to their three way freak show but Paul didn’t bite the bait. He has since had all of the legal issues straightened out and Paul has now signed off on the baby plus he gave Amanda a nice monetary settlement as part of their divorce.
Amanda has had her baby and is living with Jeremy but I don’t think it’ll be long before she’s out on her own. Logically what thirty something man is going to stay with a fifty something woman with a child.
Paul I can say I consider a friend and we stay in touch. He was very grateful for me essentially saving his life or at least his life savings. God knows what would have happened if he had let them stay but when life insurance is involved it wasn’t going to be pretty.
Although this sounds almost too crazy to be true I assure you it is and I even left out a few of the things that happened.
Cuckolding can work so well if everyone has their head on straight. This is a case that, although extreme, shows you just what can happen if you take your submission and your fantasies too far. It’s okay to be submissive and as I pointed out several times if this had been a more normal, stable relationship it could have worked really well but you can’t let your submission get in the way of your common sense.
Epilogue: Paul has found a local Domme who he visits and serves and is quite happy with his life now. He still sees Amanda occasionally and he took her flowers when she had the baby but he makes sure to keep her at a safe distance because he knows he’s weak around her.