Fluffing is Empowering

For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first.  Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard for the female. Many men when you bring this subject up freak out.  Again it’s mostly due to preconceived notions [...]

Fetish – Nurture or Crush

Pat wrote in and brought up another really good point, he writes… …I thought of this while I read one of your posts on financial domination.  You said if a guy has been ruined in a divorce, then he has been financially dominated. You then explained that for some it’s painful while for others it’s [...]

Submissive Guys Have Feelings Too

I spoke with Matt last week who is presently trying to find the right Dominant woman to serve in real time, not on the phone or in a Pro Domme capacity.  His quest brings up a very important point that I want to get across to you submissive guys out there. First of all I [...]

What is a Ruined Orgasm and Why Would I Want One?

You probably don’t. LOL.  Ruined orgasms are used in cuckolding and male control.  It’s a way of draining the submissive without the pleasure of the orgasm. We’ve all had one at some time or other usually unintentionally.  You build up and pull back to that orgasm tip over point so many times that if you’re [...]

Is it Wise to Have Sex with Your Submissive?

Camilla asked this question in an email to me and I think it bears discussing.  There is a lot of contradictory information out there regarding the subject of sex with submissives, and in this case I’m talking submissive males of course. The first thing I want to point out is that there are no hard [...]