Rich emailed and asked if it’s actually possible for someone to make a living at financial domination and blackmail. And the answer would be, yes of course! He found it strange that at the end of the week a woman wouldn’t be getting a steady pay check. Let’s look at this realistically. Is it easy [...]
Is it Wise to Have Sex with Your Submissive?
Camilla asked this question in an email to me and I think it bears discussing. There is a lot of contradictory information out there regarding the subject of sex with submissives, and in this case I’m talking submissive males of course. The first thing I want to point out is that there are no hard [...]
My Husband has a Fetish…Now what?
The first thing you need not do is panic or jump to conclusions. Having a fetish or a chronic sexual issue doesn’t make your partner a sexual deviant. Unfortunately our society is still very skittish when it comes to sexual expression. I say it’s unfortunate because I know that if everyone were left to their [...]
Male Chastity and Why It’s Used
Male chastity is quickly becoming a very good way in which to train the focus of a submissive male. As we all know most men are somewhat obsessed with their penises. Not their fault really, it’s something they learn from a very young age. However it can be detrimental when it comes to keeping their [...]
Sugarbaby or Financial Domination?
I was asked a really good question today by D. What’s the difference between a Sugarbaby and Financial Domination? Well there are distinct differences but sometimes people blur those lines. The true definition of a Sugarbaby is someone who is ‘kept’ by a male with a lot of money who doesn’t want the hassle of [...]

