Think Twice Before You Approach a Domme

This has been the weekend of faux subs and if you don’t know what faux means, Google it.  It never ceases to amaze me the number of men ‘out there’ who think they’re submissive or pretend to be submissive. It’s like submission by convenience. I know I’m not the only one who gets approached by [...]

Fluffing is Empowering

For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first.  Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard for the female. Many men when you bring this subject up freak out.  Again it’s mostly due to preconceived notions [...]

Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Jamie writes: Hi i am a married guy who about 10 years ago lost everything to a Wonderful Mistress. i swore i would never do this again but theres always this burning desire deep inside me to do it all over again.?? Let me say that this is a common question or inquiry that I [...]

Fetish – Nurture or Crush

Pat wrote in and brought up another really good point, he writes… …I thought of this while I read one of your posts on financial domination.  You said if a guy has been ruined in a divorce, then he has been financially dominated. You then explained that for some it’s painful while for others it’s [...]

Self-Esteem and Submission

I received this email from Pat (who btw is contributing to The Review wonderfully with his comments, thank you Pat!) and I really think it bears discussing as this can really be a confusing part of submission.  After reading part of my ongoing series on becoming a powerful woman he writes: “…Your advice to women [...]