Fluffing is Empowering

For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first.  Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard for the female. Many men when you bring this subject up freak out.  Again it’s mostly due to preconceived notions [...]

Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Jamie writes: Hi i am a married guy who about 10 years ago lost everything to a Wonderful Mistress. i swore i would never do this again but theres always this burning desire deep inside me to do it all over again.?? Let me say that this is a common question or inquiry that I [...]

Fetish – Nurture or Crush

Pat wrote in and brought up another really good point, he writes… …I thought of this while I read one of your posts on financial domination.  You said if a guy has been ruined in a divorce, then he has been financially dominated. You then explained that for some it’s painful while for others it’s [...]

Self-Esteem and Submission

I received this email from Pat (who btw is contributing to The Review wonderfully with his comments, thank you Pat!) and I really think it bears discussing as this can really be a confusing part of submission.  After reading part of my ongoing series on becoming a powerful woman he writes: “…Your advice to women [...]

Submissive Guys Have Feelings Too

I spoke with Matt last week who is presently trying to find the right Dominant woman to serve in real time, not on the phone or in a Pro Domme capacity.  His quest brings up a very important point that I want to get across to you submissive guys out there. First of all I [...]