Can You Actually Make a Living as a Financial Dominatrix?

Rich emailed and asked if it’s actually possible for someone to make a living at financial domination and blackmail.  And the answer would be, yes of course! He found it strange that at the end of the week a woman wouldn’t be getting a steady pay check.  Let’s look at this realistically.  Is it easy [...]

Is it Wise to Have Sex with Your Submissive?

Camilla asked this question in an email to me and I think it bears discussing.  There is a lot of contradictory information out there regarding the subject of sex with submissives, and in this case I’m talking submissive males of course. The first thing I want to point out is that there are no hard [...]

My Husband has a Fetish…Now what?

The first thing you need not do is panic or jump to conclusions.  Having a fetish or a chronic sexual issue doesn’t make your partner a sexual deviant.  Unfortunately our society is still very skittish when it comes to sexual expression.  I say it’s unfortunate because I know that if everyone were left to their [...]

Male Chastity and Why It’s Used

Male chastity is quickly becoming a very good way in which to train the focus of a submissive male.  As we all know most men are somewhat obsessed with their penises.  Not their fault really, it’s something they learn from a very young age.  However it can be detrimental when it comes to keeping their [...]

Sugarbaby or Financial Domination?

I was asked a really good question today by D.  What’s the difference between a Sugarbaby and Financial Domination?  Well there are distinct differences but sometimes people blur those lines. The true definition of a Sugarbaby is someone who is ‘kept’ by a male with a lot of  money who doesn’t want the hassle of [...]