Naughty Pro Domme’s

I may get some flack for this but I’ve been hearing of so many complaints these days I had to get on my soap box and wag my finger.

There are so many girls jumping on the Pro Domme bandwagon because they think it’s fast and easy money.  Because of this, service and quality are sucking royally.  Being a Professional Dominatrix is not an easy job as with any job you need to know what you’re doing before you can call yourself a professional.

A good Domina learns for many months with other experienced Domme’s the art of what they do, key word being ART.  That means learning about the submissive mind not just standing there wielding a whip and smacking someone with it and most of all it means being a true dominant female.

Too many women are jumping in who aren’t even overly dominant again due to the lure of fast, easy money.  You may get a few first time guys who come to see you but I guarantee you won’t get repeat customers and word will spread really quick that you suck.

Being a professional dominatrix means offering a service to a client.  Therefore the happiness and satisfaction of that client should be first and foremost in the mind of the Domina.  If you go in to this line of work thinking, “it’s my way or the highway,” you’ll bomb, big time.  As a service provider it’s up to you to ensure that your client is getting what they need.  That means extensive discussion prior to the appointment to see what your client is in need of.

Now I’m not saying that you should do everything your client wants but that should be stated quite clearly on your website.  For example if you don’t do golden showers, make sure you have that stated.  If you’re forte is smothering but you suck with a whip make sure your potential clients know this.  Don’t profess to be everything to every client.  We all have our strengths and weaknesses and obviously you want to play up your strengths.

It’s a shame when I hear from a sub that his first experience with a “Pro Domme” was horrible because you’ve just ruined it for that guy in many cases for good.  Many guys then think that when the session sucks it’s because either what they’re in to is too weird or that no one understands them.  Most of these clients NEVER see a Pro Domme again.  And that’s a travesty.

Being a Dominatrix of any kind is an art.  It means extensive research and training to be good at what you do.  The horror stories I’m hearing are just sad.  Women who refuse to do what the client asks.  Women who say they’ll do what the client asks then go and do what they want.  Women who treat these clients like shit and speak down to them before ever finding out what that person is in to.  What if he’s not in to humiliation girls???  You need to LISTEN!!

And let me blow the lid off what you’re thinking, “my clients are submissive so they won’t ask for a refund if they don’t like it.”  Bullshit!  If you think your client isn’t happy for some reason it’s up to you to find out why and fix it.  That may mean a free session but if you’re taking your business seriously this won’t be an issue. And yes submissive guys, you DO have the right to a refund!!

Unless you are a Lifestyle Dominatrix it’s NOT all about YOU. You are being paid to provide a service it would be nice to see you provide it.  These women who are doing so poorly in this business just make the whole industry look bad.