I think one of the worst things that can happen to a submissive male is being forced to grow up alpha. Unfortunately for most of us in just about any society men are raised to be the alpha providers and women are raised to be the submissive caregivers. This makes it very difficult for true submissive males to allow themselves to express their submissive nature. Subsequently we end up with men who should be following their true calling of being submissive but instead are trying to be something they aren’t or can’t be.
From a dominant female point of view, there is nothing worse than a submissive male trying to be alpha. Generally speaking most of you subs tend to be on the small side when it comes to penis size. Which is fine but don’t walk around thinking you’re bigger than you are. Eventually you’ll have to drop your pants and at that point its game over.
You’ll find that if you just learn to accept who you are and that you can’t possibly please a woman by waving a small penis at her, you’d be a much happier person. There’s nothing wrong with being a small, submissive male. I can assure you that there are many more submissive males than there are alpha males. Dominant women don’t want to spend their time with an alpha male. They’re good for a fuck but if we remain in the same room with an alpha male for any extended length of time, it could get ugly. Why do you think Dommes spend all their time with submissive males? Why do cuckold relationships work as well as they do? It’s because we WANT to spend our time with you not the alpha.
Those little voices in your head that are constantly whispering in your ear, ‘be a man!’ ‘take control,’ ‘what you’re doing is ridiculous!’ are all lying to you. It’s coming from that misplaced alpha programming you got as a kid. You’ll also tend to hear them right after you ejaculate due to a testosterone rush but if you give it 20 minutes or so they go away. You can be alpha all day long in your job if you need to, but stop denying who you really are when you go home.
Try not to walk around with a Napoleon complex thinking you have to prove yourself, it only makes you look ridiculous and in many cases it gets you in to trouble. Worker bees are far more useful than drones when it comes to serving their Queen. Give yourself a break and allow yourself to be who you really are deep inside. Stop trying to be what society wants you to be. Hell with the state of the world as it is, it’s not like society is getting much right these days anyway and if we all could learn to just be who we are and stop trying to please the masses, this world would be a much happier, peaceful place.