I think one of the worst things that can happen to a submissive male is being forced to grow up alpha. Unfortunately for most of us in just about any society men are raised to be the alpha providers and women are raised to be the submissive caregivers. This makes it very difficult for true submissive males to allow themselves to express their submissive nature. Subsequently we end up with men who should be following their true calling of being submissive but instead are trying to be something they aren’t or can’t be.
From a dominant female point of view, there is nothing worse than a submissive male trying to be alpha. Generally speaking most of you subs tend to be on the small side when it comes to penis size. Which is fine but don’t walk around thinking you’re bigger than you are. Eventually you’ll have to drop your pants and at that point its game over.
You’ll find that if you just learn to accept who you are and that you can’t possibly please a woman by waving a small penis at her, you’d be a much happier person. There’s nothing wrong with being a small, submissive male. I can assure you that there are many more submissive males than there are alpha males. Dominant women don’t want to spend their time with an alpha male. They’re good for a fuck but if we remain in the same room with an alpha male for any extended length of time, it could get ugly. Why do you think Dommes spend all their time with submissive males? Why do cuckold relationships work as well as they do? It’s because we WANT to spend our time with you not the alpha.
Those little voices in your head that are constantly whispering in your ear, ‘be a man!’ ‘take control,’ ‘what you’re doing is ridiculous!’ are all lying to you. It’s coming from that misplaced alpha programming you got as a kid. You’ll also tend to hear them right after you ejaculate due to a testosterone rush but if you give it 20 minutes or so they go away. You can be alpha all day long in your job if you need to, but stop denying who you really are when you go home.
Try not to walk around with a Napoleon complex thinking you have to prove yourself, it only makes you look ridiculous and in many cases it gets you in to trouble. Worker bees are far more useful than drones when it comes to serving their Queen. Give yourself a break and allow yourself to be who you really are deep inside. Stop trying to be what society wants you to be. Hell with the state of the world as it is, it’s not like society is getting much right these days anyway and if we all could learn to just be who we are and stop trying to please the masses, this world would be a much happier, peaceful place.
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Human alphaness is not defined by the penis size, it is defined by confidence.Different men have different confidence levels when approaching different things.
For instance, in a swimming competition a white guy might win, in a sprint a black might win and on a chess board an Indian might win.Winning boosts confidence and confidence woo women.I have seen many subtle and effeminate men rise up like lions when loud alphas sweat.So all in all,you have penned an amorphous article giving very little thought to human nature and situations.
And you are absolutely right bloodhound. When I discuss this you’ll notice I say ‘for the most part’. I’m speaking in generalities. After working with literally 100′s of submissive men it has been my personal observation that submissiveness and small penis’s go hand-in-hand. Are there exceptions to that rule, OF COURSE. I’ve talked to men with 10″ penis’s who are submissive and think their penis is small. That’s more of a type of body dysmorphic disorder but nothing is a hard and fast law. Human alphaness is also not defined only by confidence. Yes women are attracted to very confident men but you’ll find that’s a basal procreation reaction, she’s looking for the right male to produce offspring. There are many smaller males who are alpha. And of course the article is amorphous, human nature is as well. Nothing in human nature fits in to nice neat little boxes. That’s what makes us all unique and wonderful.
I think you have it the other way around. Everybody has a spectrum of dominance to submissiveness. All people are not born equal. However, I think being able to fulfill a role and perform to that role is par for the course for mental satisfaction. I could never live with myself if I simply accepted a cuckold role just to masturbate; and I’m not even sure that I would find a willing partner to humor me anyways (most of these relationships start via rich married men). Submission (or quitting, being dominated) makes things easier, not better. It allows the easy cum, not the rewarding feeling of love. I’ve experienced both sides of the spectrum, and the true rewards don’t come from settling on masturbation. It’s harder for some people, especially those born with legitimately small penises, but earning those feelings (however rare) makes life livable.
Your armchair view of evolutionary psychology simply begets your business interest and personal gullibility, in my opinion. Nobody thinks what they’re doing is evil; and I’m sure you don’t either, but what you’re telling men is that they’re born into second class citizenship and should simply forget about the great things in life in order to settle on stimulation. The truth is that men were told to go against their basic natures, were told to be sensitive, they were then trampled on and looked for substitutes either in defending their confusing behavior or demoting themselves as worthy competitors.
If you *cared* about men with small penises (outside of their wallets) then you would be encouraging them to keep trying everything they can. Instead you want men to *settle* because in this new alpha-beta cuckold worldview you could theoretically extract all the value from certain men without giving up anything in return by simply eroticizing failure. Your definition of freedom is the freedom of willingly giving yourself into slavery.
Just one thing.
All people feel the need for power. If you don’t then you’re malfunctioning. If you’re submissive, stop being so. Stand up for yourself. You don’t live among lions, physically you just have to be visible. You have your brain. And mouth. Use them.
I don’t know why i say this here. I just couldn’t take this deprecating stuff.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I thank you for yours, honestly. It invokes discussion. What you’re missing in this is the fact that submissives do feel power. The power to be who they want to be and enjoy life.
Thank you! I’ll look in to it and see what the problem is.
I just checked using Opera and it’s perfect. Not sure what issues you’re having perhaps make sure you have the latest version but I’m not having any visual issues at all.