The Best Fetish Hook up Sites

Revised and Updated June 2014

One of the hardest things you’ll deal with when indulging your fetish is to find like-minded or complimentary mates. It’s not like you can put a profile on E-Harmony and tell everyone you love being spanked. Probably wouldn’t go over well. But that doesn’t mean you can’t find the perfect person to share your life and your kink with. Here’s some of the sites I personally think are worth your time. Notice I said ‘time’, that means you DO have to put time into creating your profiles.

You’ll probably notice that there are only 2 places I recommend.  That’s because after owning my own dating site for many years I know quality when I see it.  Every body and their brother has a ‘dating site’ now but that doesn’t mean that they are worth your money.  These are tried, tested and remain true because THEY WORK! They are one of the oldest on the net for alt  and no strings sex for a reason! Nothing I’ve found comes close to these guys.

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Alt continues to be and always will be THE BEST in Fetish dating of any kind.  For years I’ve asked my clients who I know have used online services for their fetish what service they use and every single time they tell me ALT!  It’s been around the longest and has the largest database of members ANYWHERE on the net.  More importantly, it WORKS! has been around since 1996. With over 2 million members you’re sure to find that perfect playmate and who knows maybe a life long partner. Standard Membership is FREE and allows you to chat, instant message and browse member profiles. Other memberships start as low as $9.95 per month and Gold is only $29.95 per month. It’s definitely worth the small investment to get you in touch with that perfect person.


Adult Friend Finder

AFF is another one of my favorites but for different reasons. I have recommended AFF to men who are in what I consider to be sexless marriages; their wives libido’s for one reason or another no longer exist and they no longer get sex. I always tell them to hit up AFF for a play partner and the feedback I received was fantastic.  Remember, you are a sexual being and just because someone has cut you off for whatever reason, doesn’t mean you have to suffer.  That’s where AFF comes in handy.  Again, run by the folks at ALT they have a massive database of sexy partners who want to play, ‘on the side’ with ‘no strings’.

Adult Friend Finder is another site that’s been around since 1996 as well. AFF boasts 31 million members and it’s great for any kind of hook up your looking for, swinging, gay, straight, trannies and more! They offer FREE Standard Memberships as well and also offer premium memberships starting at $9.95 a month. The cams alone are worth it!