One of the hardest things you’ll deal with when indulging your fetish is to find like-minded or complimentary mates. It’s not like you can put a profile on E-Harmony and tell everyone you love being spanked. Probably wouldn’t go over well. But that doesn’t mean you can’t find the perfect person to share your life and your kink with. Here’s some of the sites I personally think are worth your time. Notice I said ‘time’, that means you DO have to put time into creating your profiles. (All links/sites open in a new tab or browser window so you won’t wander to far from The Review)
Alt.com has been around since 1996. With over 2 million members you’re sure to find that perfect playmate and who knows maybe a life long partner. Standard Membership is FREE and allows you to chat, instant message and browse member profiles. Other memberships start as low as $9.95 per month and Gold is only $29.95 per month. It’s definitely worth the small investment to get you in touch with that perfect person.
Adult Friend Finder is another site that’s been around since 1996 as well. AFF boasts 31 million members and it’s great for any kind of hook up your looking for, swinging, gay, straight, trannies and more! They offer FREE Standard Memberships as well and also offer premium memberships starting at $9.95 a month. The cams alone are worth it!
Bondage.com is one of the newer sites specifically for the D & S community. Again you can have a Standard Membership for FREE and your FREE membership gets you, your profile (obviously), participation in the forums, searches, your own bondage.com email address, your own blog and the opportunity to join one of the many groups that are on the site. There is text chat, cam chat, stories and featured web cams with premium memberships starting at $9.95 a month. Definitely the place to go if you’re looking for the perfect Master, Mistress or Slave.
Ashley Madison has been around since 2001. There has been a lot of controversy over this company because of it’s basic premise of promoting affairs. Why I suggest you consider it, is because even though I don’t necessarily condone cheating, there are many people in relationships where sex has been basically cut-off for a variety of reasons. We are sexual beings, and therefore you can’t expect your partner to just accept your choice of not wanting sex anymore. Plus there is the kink factor of sleeping with someone else’s wife or husband. So it’s definitely worth a look at but remember this isn’t singles dating, it’s married dating. They have over 4 million members and you can sign up as a FREE Guest Member which will give you the ability to receive winks, send and receive photos, reply to Full Members, and perform searches. Chat and mail messages require Full Membership and this is done by purchasing credits.