Hello Dr. Sue we have talked before many times on different types of control like blackmail with Findom’s. I wanted to write and ask you this question, as even though i have been a property of a Mistress for many years i have just recently heard of some slaves entering into legally binding debt contracts with their Mistresses/Findom’s. I was hoping you might educate me a little on what a debt contract is, and is it legally binding, as we know blackmail contracts are not, but i’m unfamiliar with a debt contact.
A debt contract is no different than a blackmail contract in that they are not enforceable. Essentially what the findom is doing is writing up a fake loan-ish document. As if she loaned you money, but hasn’t and you have to make payments to pay off that debt.
I don’t think it takes a law degree to know that making payments on a loan that never existed constitutes a form of money laundering. So it cannot possibly be legal or enforceable.
I’ve discussed this a LOT on my show but I’ll say it again. There is nothing about financial domination that is legal. You can call it gifting all you want but in a court of law financial domination is extortion on behalf of the findom and could again be considered money laundering from the client’s perspective. There have been several women over the years who have been taken to court by disgruntled males who lost a lot of money and decided they wanted it back.
And that’s to say nothing of the tax laws that are more often than not being broken because no one declares the cash they give or receive. Or the fact that during cashmeets a findom can be arrested for solicitation.
This is precisely why companies such as Paypal, Gift Rocket, Cash.me, Square, Greendot, Venmo and more expressly state that they DO NOT allow this type of exchange of money OR ANY ADULT transaction and never have despite brainless women not only using these services but advertising that they do. And since the passing of FOSTA/SESTA there are even less ways to exchange money between a findom and her client.
Smart people know that any type of online or pro domination IS a form of financial domination regardless of calling it that but by doing it in a business format such as through a service like Niteflirt everyone is protected. But the free-wheeling exchange of cash for nothing is illegal.