Ask Dr Sue – How Do I Get My Religious Girlfriend to Cuckold Me?

A writes:

Hi Dr Sue. I am a 28 year old male . I am dating my girlfriend for 9 years now. I realized early on in our relationship that I could not sexually satisfy her. My self confidence was destroyed at the age of 12 when a friend from school took his cock out and showed me. It was massive at least 8 inches in size. It was at that moment I felt inferior . I know my girlfriend deserves a good sex life. How do I approach my religious girlfriend about cuckolding. At the moment I am consumed with watching her fuck other guys with big cocks. I do have a small cock and cannot stay hard for very long. On one occasion I had a thought of my girlfriend being ravaged by 4 black men with big cocks. That thought alone made my little cock hard for 2 hours.i look forward to hearing from you.

Thank you for writing in A. This is a very important subject that doesn’t get discussed much. What if I want to be cuckolded and my wife/gf/so is religious? Well, it leaves you in an almost no win situation A. I’d love to say that you can work some of my programs and get her to come around to your way of thinking but it has been my personal experience with other couples that tells me otherwise.

Women who are very religious, not spiritual, two different things, will be very steadfast in their beliefs and rightfully so. It’s her beliefs and she has every right to have them. And most religions frown upon any type of extracurricular sexual activities within the marriage/relationship.

I think it’s adorable how you think 8” is massive, that sort of gives me an indication about your size which is part of the reason why you’re having these thoughts in the first place; the smaller the penis, the more submissive the male. Add to that your experience with the guy from school and you end up later with a full blown cuckolding fascination.

You cannot change your gf A. She is, who she is and has every right to believe and enjoy her religion so you cannot ask her to change her beliefs for you. However there are a few things that you need to consider.

Since she is just a gf at this stage, you may want to consider the fact that if you need to explore things sexually, this woman may not be right for you. It’s best to figure this out now and not after you’re married. Things will NOT get better. They will stay the same so don’t think that she will change or you can get her to change. The other thing is, how do you know she isn’t sexually satisfied? Have you even sat down and talked about this with her? My guess is no, since most people hate confrontation and fear discussing sex. But relationships take work and honest communication if they are to survive. If you’re hiding this from her, you’re lying to her by ommision and I doubt she deserves that.

Here’s a good thing though, if your penis is as small as you portray it to be, perhaps the fact that she has a religious background works in your favor as she might not have had much sexual experience and therefore won’t know any better as far as penis size is concerned. It’s usually best if you little guys are with inexperienced women because the experienced ones usually want bigger dick.

Lastly you need to ask yourself  a white boy question, why does it have to be big black guys? That is a legit question that you need to ponder. Why black guys? Is it because you think of them as evil or bad in some way? Why can’t 4 white guys defile her?

My suggestion is that you consider these things and whether or not you want to continue with the relationship at all. But know this, you are a product of porn just as most white me are. What you see is entertainment, not reality. In reality a couple such as yourself would be devoured and not in a good way by the men you seek. In the end your relationship could implode and you end up alone and your gf ends up miserable because all she was doing was, “trying to make you happy,” by putting her own principles and morals on the line. Is that really what you want to ask of someone you allegedly love?

If you really insist on trying this lifestyle then you sit down with your gf and you tell her about the thoughts you’ve been having and the porn you’ve been watching and you get her opinion on it. You research it together to get the proper information IF she’s receptive and if she’s not you drop it. But you need to be honest with yourself first and your gf next if you want to continue to work at this relationship or any future relationship you might have.