Although many couples who play with cuckolding don’t necessarily incorporate black male alphas in to their play, MANY do. But why?
Sure there is the visual beauty of dark skin against light skin. But the interracial aspects of cuckolding have many more layers than just how it looks.
It starts with the cliché of black males having bigger penises. Yes I’m talking generalities here. There are exceptions to everything. There are black men with small penises. There are black men who are submissive but generally speaking if he is participating in cuckolding as an alpha male he is probably well hung.
Another reason is the distinct difference between ‘making love’ and ‘fucking.’ If a woman wants to feel cherished and loved she’ll make love to her submissive boyfriend/husband. However there are times when a woman wants to be ‘taken,’ not made love to. Making love is great but it can get very boring and let’s face it sometimes you just want to get FUCKED. That’s when our attention turns to the black alpha male.
The whole point of cuckolding is for the female in a relationship to feel sexually satisfied. Usually it’s because their partner has a relatively small or average penis but let’s not dwell on dick size.
A submissive male doesn’t have what it takes to knock a woman’s socks off in sack. Submissive males do NOT know how to ravage a woman the way a woman wants to be ravaged in the bedroom when she’s feeling in that kind of mood.
When you watch a submissive male try to be alpha it’s comical because it’s not who they are. But black alpha males are raw and know how to channel their animalistic desires towards a female in ways her submissive husband/boyfriend just can’t do. This is actually my own personal reason for preferring black alphas.
Now some of you white alphas will be thinking, ‘hey I can be raw and animalistic’ and I’m not saying you can’t but I will say there is a distinct difference between the two styles.
Another taboo reason that no one ever talks about but needs to be mentioned is the reversal of slavery roles. Yes, the tables have turned Mr. Bond, when you have a submissive white male who is watching his wife/girlfriend being taken by a black male there is an element of ‘look who’s running the show now white boy.’ Some even incorporate the whole reversal of slavery thing in to their bedroom smack talk.
Also many submissive white men look at the black male who is taking is wife/girlfriend as the superior male. They come to a personal realization that this man is genetically superior to them and this turns them on. Whether it’s true or not is irrelevant. In their eyes they see him as the perfect specimen of a male human being. This is where the submissive male gets his humiliation. It’s also the reason why some couples explore selective breeding. All of this, of course, is quite contrary to the whole ‘white man is superior’ crap that has been going on for centuries.
Of course every woman and every couple are different and some prefer white bulls over black and some couples don’t have a preference and choose to savour the entire buffet of delicious men who offer their alpha ‘services.’ All I’ll say is ‘don’t knock it til you try it,’ cause I have a sneaking suspicion that once you go black you REALLY won’t go back.
Jim
Hi Dr. Sue, do you think if you moved in with your black alpha bull for a year(having frequent sex), you would have any interest in reconnecting with your husband?
Love your blog!
Dr Sue
First of all I’m no snowbunny. I’m not a braindead moron who just fucks black men. I fuck men I like who just happen to be black. I would NEVER consider moving in with a bull, ever, no matter what color they are. They are obnoxious and I wouldn’t last 5 mins with them. Which is why when I’m finished with them they are out the door.
James
That’s just what I have been trying to tell my wife is that you don’t have to be a judge of it just use that time and move on
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Trent
I’m a cucky who’s accepting black bulls enjoy looking and desiring my gorgeous wife, w wonder sometimes why or what they see if her she is petite tiny with HUGE boobs so we think it’s the blonde hair and massive boobs that they kink on, are you married to a cucky sue?
Dr Sue
No I’m married to a MAN who happens to enjoy watching me get fucked from time to time. And know this, the black bulls don’t give a fuck about your wife, they want to get to YOU, to destroy YOU, she’s just a means to an end. But if it makes your pathetic pecker hard thinking it’s your wife’s blonde hair and big tits well you do you boo boo, you’re part of the problem and hopefully she leaves your ass one day for another white guy. LMAO!
Jacko john
Of course black bulls are larger & more animalistic in bed. A LOT of women understand that their sexual needs allign with this reality & that’s something white boys will just have to accept
Slave cgarles
My owner over 34 years had many lovers and for a long time she just lived black dick the best but over time in our marriage she did have done well hung white lovers but she always said she preferred black men always they had nice big cocks and they just could fuck better snd linger
Me
You are wrong about blacks being larger than whites…even generally speaking. In almost all medical studies the largest male genitalia belonged to Italian. Who are white. The reason black genitalia is thought to be larger is through porn influences and scotoma. Once you work something up in your head, a gentle touch can become fire in your veins. I believe the whole reason black is seen as more common in cuckold is porn influence on society and like you have stated, the racial taboo/bigger degrading impact on the cuck.
Chanin Lassore
You had a column in bulls in cuckolding. Your comments appear to one from experience – No ? Just curious if you have experience with different race of “bulls”
Many Thanks,
Chanin
Dr Sue
Of course! That’s how I came to my personal preference.