Mike writes:
“…Does it make me less of a man since I want to see my girlfriend take a big dick?”
The answer to that question is going to be totally relative to whomever you’re speaking to and trying to get an answer from. Obviously if we gave that question to a fundamental Christian they would say you’re depraved and Satan has flown up your ass. In the context of our kinky forum here on The Review I’d say, “Of course not!”
You boys tend to get caught up in this whole, ‘less of a man,’ thing. At what point do you officially lose your manhood? Does it require a penectomy? Or is it a decision brought down by THE BROHOOD at which point your Dude Card is officially revoked and it’s dresses for you from here on out.
The ‘less of a man’ issue is exactly the same as the ‘am I normal’ question, it’s all relative. Some people somewhere on planet earth will say that you’re less of a man because you want to see your girlfriend take a big dick. But do we care what they think? And how do they even know you’re thinking about it? Have you been doing Facebook Ads to get her dick? Unless you tell other people what you want to do with your woman behind closed doors they won’t even know therefore it’s not an issue.
We human units get way too caught up in what other people think when in fact most people are so caught up in their own lives they don’t have time to notice what’s going on in yours.
Now will your girlfriend think you’re less of a man if you tell her you want her to take a big dick? That’s a crap shoot. If you just sit down and tell her what you want chances are it’ll blow up in your face. Odds are that she’ll over analyze the idea to death before it’s given a chance to be considered. So you could come out of it looking like a little bitch in her eyes if you’re not careful.
That said there’s the humiliation of knowing that your girlfriend thinks you’re a little bitch and that turning you on. So perhaps it’s not a bad thing if she thinks you’re a sissy if that’s what you’re going for.
In my opinion a man wanting to watch his woman get pleased by another man who is bigger than he is has nothing to do with his ‘manhood’ unless his dick fell off. Are you at the same level as the big, cocked dude who’s fucking your girlfriend? No. But you don’t want to be.
The dorky meme to your right is all you really need to focus on. The rest doesn’t matter. If some guy who’s not involved in your relationship thinks you’re ‘girly’ because he finds out you like watching your woman take another guy’s much bigger cock, I can assure you, he ran home and jerked about the idea once he heard it from you.
I mean really what have we become when we are so fucking worried about how other people fornicate? Let your woman take that big cock and you sit there like a good boy and enjoy every delicious minute of it and tell anyone who says it’s wrong to mind their business you’re too busy getting off to hear it.
Women like bodice rippers and such novels and stories where the hero saves them and then has sex with them but that is fantasy. Shades of Grey may sell just as much of the porn sells but that does not mean people really want it.
my wife has started sucking a younger guys cock from her work at least once a day and has been going on for 8 month now.
At first i was gutted but am now over the initial heartache and find it now turns me on and i now want too watch her being used by other men, do you think i am becoming a cuckold
I would say you are having cuckold tendencies for sure!
I have been a happy cuckold husband for over fifteen years. In all aspects of my life (except the bedroom) I am 100% an alpha male. I love it when my wife has sex with other men and I always feel manly and never like a lessor man.
Absolutely wonderful to hear this! Thank you for sharing. Nice to see some folks who ‘get it’.
When a woman makes her husband a willing cuckold she is dominating him and he is submitting. Once he submits it is up to her how she treats him. Does she just have other lovers or does she make him watch or help. These women also dominate the bulls since they are also sharing a woman who makes the decisions of who has sex and when.
Which unfortunately is being lost in the Cuckold scene to bulls who feel they run the show.
Bulls like to pretend that they run the show just like many men believe that women are submissive. women often dominate men without the man even knowing that he is controlled. Mothers often control their sons and then pass them on to a controlling wife. It is to bad that many women feel guilty about being in control or even dominating since it can be very productive. I can look back and see how my wife turned me into a willing cuckold
Tom, women are submissive. How do you explain the 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon? Women went wild for it. It wasn’t men buying those books or flocking to the movie. Consumer’s money doesn’t lie. That’s actually what women want.
As far as mothers controlling their sons, it’s called being a parent, not domination. Father’s also control their sons – and their daughters for that matter. You’re right about controlling wives though – they’re called bitches. However, once they meet their match they roll over. Dig it?
In England powerful men used to go to spanking clubs where they were spanked by women. Of course women will buy bodice rippers and fifty shades of grey but it does not mean that is what they want most of the time. Just as women like the strong dominant type in the movies it is not what they bring home usually of course everyone is different. Lots of men like bitches and women compete differently than men
The cuckolding debate is an interesting one but like many topics in the sexploration community it seems destined to be treated superficially.
One of my mama’s great pleasures is to order serious lectures while I am in discipline, with cuffs, blindfold, and dog collar, plus exposure of most of my body, and especially my hormoned boobs, to passersby, on the troubadour tradition and how lovers choose to submit lovingly and with infinite gladness to the absolute power of the beloved.
I do not believe there is anything more loving than a stern no in the mouth of a total domme. Relations based on yes always end because yes ends. No is infinite.
I have been in cuckolded orgasm control knowingly (COCK) for 33 years. I believe with absolute faith that a ruined orgasm is the best orgasm, and think I can prove this.
I have watched as my dommama pursued orgasms with her lovers while expressing her contempt correctly for my choice of silence.
And what was once resentment was turned to joy when I understood that for the woman who owns me to be fulfilled by others reflects her great power and not my supposed degradation.
I love to see others strut away thinking they have gotten something from her. They get everything and I get nothing because that is what I deserve. Let me stipulate that I am not tiny or inept. I am sufficiently endowed and know very well what my cock is about, or so I think. I have done fetishism for a long time. It is not about size, but about attitude.
Cock, not cuck,
A big and knowing cock submitted to cuckolding is a great thing, or so I think. I also believe the best cock cage and chastity device is an imaginary one. Knowing you simply cannot escape the justice imposed on those who stray should be incentive enough. And justice is not fun. Alone in a cell with no internet for a week and absolutely no masturbation is educational.
She says each day how lucky I am to be involved with a beautiful woman who puts up with me. She is wrong. I am blessed that she ever once even looked at me.
There should be no cafeteria subs, in my view. Submisssion means that. When a goddess acts as a goddess and bestows her attention on other mortals, I have no place to question her. I revel in her power.
At the same time, i despise the stereotype of the fat slobby sub who is no credit to a domme. These are my views, and are not TMI, I hope:
Subs, study your equipment. Learn that giving head anonymously to strangers for quick cash to hand your domme is a sublime pleasure. There are secrets to giving head that only POs (penis owners) know. Put that knowledge to work.
There is little that is more gorgeous than a ruined orgasm while giving your domme head. Cum all over yourself in excessive excitement, but concentrate on your task.
Remember that the greatest gift you can give is to smile happily while a stranger’s cock swells in your mouth. Look in the trick’s eyes with absolute surrender. It’s the trick’s money and he should get what he wants, so he can hand over the cash to your dommy mommy.
Diet and do exercise. Be as proud of your bod as a divine ho is when she knows her nipples are charged for action, pointing her forward, lifting her rear to position it for the pleasure of a filthy, mighty trick. Remember you want to look more desirable when nude than when dressed.
Dommes, I appeal humbly: take good care of a sub, especially one with a decent cock. Remember the best slaveowners treasure their valuable property.
In this spirit, subs should concentrate their attention on remaining silent and inobtrusive when in public with a domme or dom. Wash your hair regularly. Invest whatever money your domme/dom permits you to spend, especially if you earn it yourself, on really good clothes. Choose a good scent.
This is what I love to see in public: a beautiful sub male in an Italian suit, with patent leather shoes, great hair, a little makeup, with a silent dom watching everything closely. Or the same with a domme. And the leash need not be visible.
Beautifully said Lucian!