For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first. Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard for the female.
Many men when you bring this subject up freak out. Again it’s mostly due to preconceived notions that aren’t even 
true. First of all sucking on another male does NOT make you gay. That seems to be the biggest thing stuck in a subs mind. A true submissive person, and I won’t denote gender here because it works both for males and females, its submissive period. It has nothing to do with, ‘I’m only submissive to women,’ if you’re submissive, you’re submissive and it shouldn’t make a damn bit of difference who you’re submitting to, it’s the act of submitting that is erotic. Why I say a ‘true submissive person’ is to point out that there are a lot of people who sit on the fence or are only submissive when it’s convenient for them.
The thing is, once a male fluffs for the first time they understand that it is empowering on so many levels. First of all you have the privilege of preparing the alpha/bull to satisfy your female. It’s your job to see to it that he’s good and hard and horny enough to really ravage her. Another empowering point is that you start to realize that you are solely responsible for the alpha/bull’s pleasure at that moment. Realizing that it’s your mouth that is having an effect on him is intoxicating.
If you are lucky enough to be allowed to insert the alpha/bull’s penis in to your partner you also have control over his initial thrust. In other words, if he is a new alpha/bull and is quite large say 9 to 10 inches and you feel that he might get over zealous and possibly hurt your partner you can grab a hold of the alpha/bull at the base of the penis with your hole hand thereby limiting his ability to thrust all the way inside until your partner is accustomed to his size.
So you see if you can put your fears aside you can easily understand how fluffing is in fact a natural part of cuckolding. Does it mean you have to fluff? No. That’s up to you and your partner. But don’t be afraid or hesitant of fluffing until you’ve tried it at least once.
I never knew it was called fluffing, but I have always found the use of a submissive to get the ball rolling so to speak for both parties is insanely erotic. I think more need to see the action in the manner you presented. Maybe they would be less judgmental.
I don’t think that it is a gay problem. I just think that men just don’t like doing this because they feel it is unnatural. I personally am only submissive to women. That is the way I like because it’s my preference. I don’t find it a turn on to sexually submit to a male. If you are a female supremacist, then why are you asking me to submit to a male?
i’d love to be a flufferboi
Fascinating and oh-so-true!