Well this is an article I never thought I’d be writing. But Nissa on Twitter brought up the subject to me and after talking to Amelia Divine I was shocked to hear that there is some ridiculous ‘theory’ that Will Smith is a cuckold and that when he slapped Chris Rock that he was trying to assert his manhood.
I don’t know what goes on at your knitting circles gurls but y’all have been sniffing way too many poppers. So in the spirit of trying to correct misinformation I’m going to explain Will & Jada to those of you who, for some reason, don’t get it.
Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are in an OPEN relationship. This means that they decided because they spend large amounts of time away from one another that they would give a green light to either one having sex with other people within the rules that they agreed upon. Jada broke those rules by having sex behind his back, thus she cheated. Why? Because she broke the rules they set out as a couple. It ceases to be an open relationship when there is deception because once you have deception what goes along with it are betrayal, resentment and distrust. All of this they have be very open about publically.
Will Smith was not trying to gain his manhood back from some perceived devaluation of him to cuckold status. He is a broken man. A man who is struggling. A man who is dealing with a lot of demons that none of us are privy to, nor should we be. He was upset because Christ Rock made a joke about Jada’s hair which due to her battle with alopecia, she now chooses to be very beautifully bald.
Did Chris Rock know about her alopecia? I’ve heard no but that’s not the point. Will Smith committed a felony on live worldwide TV. Not because he was trying to whip his dick around but because he saw Jada roll her eyes when Chris Rock made the joke. He was triggered in that moment. Not because he was trying to ‘be a man’ but because he saw his wife hurting. Was it right? Fuck no. But it is what it is.
And just so you gossiping queens can be even more clarified like butter I’ll explain, very simply, the different types of alternative relationships.
What is a Poly Relationship?
Poly, as the name implies means more than one. In poly relationship you love more than one person. They also tend to live in what are known as poly pods. This is NOT just based on sex. These are several people men and women who all love each other. Again, each pod will have its own rules. Want to learn more about Poly relationships? Listen to my show on Poly Relationships with Domina Kiara and Daddy Matt.
What is a Swinging?
Well I shouldn’t have to tell you this one. It’s one of the most widely accepted sex practices in the world. This is based solely on sex. It’s where couples have sex with other singles and couples, sometimes in group settings and sometimes in smaller settings. Swinging is not a relationship, it’s just a sexual lifestyle.
What is a Cuckold Relationship?
A cuckold relationship is an offshoot of swinging but usually goes deeper than just sex depending on how the couple decides to play. In this relationship, usually the woman is in charge especially in the bedroom. It is about a woman exerting her sexual power and preference the same way men have been doing for centuries. She has sex with other men, based on the rules the couple sets out and the husband usually but not always watches but doesn’t participate. If he participates it is no longer cuckolding, it’s swinging.
A cuckold is NOT weak, a loser, broke or stupid although they are portrayed that way because they choose not to follow societal standards. Most cuckolds are very successful men who simply enjoy watching their wife be sexually satisfied by another man. That’s why many cuckolds are not cuckolds they are simply voyeurs. It only becomes a true cuckold relationship when the woman is having sex with whomever she wants, the husband is not, and she runs the show.
What I find hilarious when people put cucks down when who do you think ran the households in most families in the fifties, sixties and seventies? The wife. She handled all the finances and ran the house. She just wasn’t fucking who she wanted or if she was she didn’t say anything. But now, for some reason, cuckolding has been labelled as a weak man’s game when in fact it takes HUGE BALLS to watch someone you love have sex with someone else.
There are obviously many more alt relationship types but these are the main ones and clearly the ones that needed to be interpreted. And so is Will Smith a cuckold? The answer is a resounding NO.
Now let’s try to spread joy instead of unsubstantiated gossip, shall we?
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