You probably don’t. LOL. Ruined orgasms are used in cuckolding and male control. It’s a way of draining the submissive without the pleasure of the orgasm.
We’ve all had one at some time or other usually unintentionally. You build up and pull back to that orgasm tip over point so many times that if you’re not careful your orgasm will actually fizzle and die. In the case of cuckolding or just male control you do it to drain the balls and that’s it. The ejaculate will actually just pour out and there will be no muscle spasms or fun stuff to go with it.
Most men don’t want a ruined orgasm but their Mistress doesn’t want them experiencing pleasure for a variety of reasons. One reason is it keeps the focus off their cocks and on the Mistress where it should be.
Is it bad for you, no. It won’t do anything harmful it just doesn’t feel good because you don’t experience a full pleasurable orgasm.
There is no perfect way to perform a ruined orgasm either. You need to know your submissive well enough to be able to feel with your hand when he’s getting to that edge obviously. Never go by his expressions or what he might be saying cause let’s face it he’ll try to get that one slip over the edge. Like everything else it just takes practice. You can also use prostate massage the same way.
If I constantly keep myself on the edge over and over and over and over and over and over again and over again and my cock gets so hard that it makes itself cum without me having to use my hands. It feels amazing, and I can do it cum multiple times pretty fast like that. I think Im unlocking my potential.
This is what ruined orgasms should be about. Its funny, being kept on the edge is like the most mind blowing experience but cum denial is like the most sissy looking kink on the net. next to pegging and snowballing.
Eating many ruined orgasms is how I’ve become able to eat my cum after a full orgasm. I ate it out of my panties most recently.
You don’t mention another point to ruined orgasms. It can be very useful for premature ejaculation. If you ruin the first one, it is easy to maintain an erection and continue. Without the orgasm, there is no refractory period. My wife can keep me erect for 2 or 3 hours simply by ruining my orgasms.
My gf Mistress does this to me all the time. I really don’t like it RO but she says it’s a must while being kept in chastity. I Just don’t understand why she can’t just do a regular hand job instead of RO white in chastity.
You’re missing the point. The whole point of chastity is that you don’t get to orgasm. Therefore she just drains your balls with a RO.
I guess that makes sense but still would be nice to have a regular orgasm.
Do you see the selfishness in your statement? You just proved the point of the article. You’re missing the level of submission you could be reaching by constantly pining for momentary gratification. The whole point of submission is sacrifice and suffering only through those two experiences can you achieve the true nirvana of submission. Anything less, is simply not submission.
well i dont really understand is it like im masturbating i feell somting but it starts hurting and i stop so that means i should you know
Ruined orgasms are the very very very very best
Can we get hiv virus by ruined orgasm
If you are ruining via fingers it’s not likely unless you have a tear with an active bleed and they have an open wound on their fingers. It’s beyond remote but anything is possible. So I highly doubt it. Now you can ruin using anything including your hand so unless you are having unprotected sex with an HIV infected partner you’re good to go.
How is that selfish? The dom is selfish if they don’t give a damn about the sub. Sex is supposed to be good for everyone involved, not just some selfish dom.
You’re missing the point that many subs enjoy the humiliation and disregard. You’re looking at it through the wrong lens, that of a ragular guy. If you don’t understand the subtleties of submission you won’t be able to see that and that’s ok.