What is Common Sense Cuckolding?
Common Sense Cuckolding™ is a term I created for the type of cuckold relationship that I teach couples. Common Sense Cuckolding™ is quite simply a real world way to successfully enjoy a cuckold relationship. It strips away the hype created by the porn industry and shows you precisely how to have the type of cuckold relationship that can actually work as opposed to the entertainment many men think is cuckolding.
The internet is both a blessing and a curse. It has made it so that many of us with differences that go against the societal norms, such as having a particular fetish or enjoying an alternate lifestyle, can connect with others with the same feelings or viewpoints and as such we don’t feel as weird or alone as we would without it. It has brought people together and created connections that for many have been quite positive.
But as with anything, there is a good and a bad side. The negative repercussion of having an unregulated and open internet that connects the world is the dissemination of false information, and the sex industry is not immune from this type of issue. As a matter of fact, you’ll find because it is an entertainment industry that it will in fact, exacerbate or exaggerate some of these falsehoods for entertainment purposes.
Many, many men get their first exposure to cuckolding through porn. The problem, porn is just what I said, entertainment. Unfortunately the visual is all most men care about. Then they drag it back to their wives and say, “HERE, do this for me okay?” and the wife is left standing there thinking wtf. Common Sense Cuckolding™ removes the porn aspect of cuckolding and makes it reasonable and even better, doable.
The horrendous crap you see in porn strips the wife of her power and makes her nothing but a sex object for both the bull and her husband. This is the antithesis of what true cuckolding is – a woman in power, choosing her lovers and in the process turning her partner on by doing so.
In Common Sense Cuckolding™ the woman is in full control of her sex life and usually the entire relationship. The lovers are not there to replace the husband as is usually not only portrayed in porn but also fills the minds of many submissive men. Unfortunately that isn’t a viable roadmap for a successful relationship although you boys may dream about it.
The ‘dating’ aspect of cuckolding is completely removed for the reasons above. Much of what you read and see on the internet is what I call Extreme Cuckolding. Many men gravitate to the extremes but the extremes are not realistic. That’s not to say that some couples don’t play in extreme ways but your chances of successfully maintaining your relationship under those conditions are very small. The internet is riddled with tales of men who have been left in the dust, no longer married and no longer being cuckolded.
Common Sense Cuckolding™ allows the couple to mold the cuckolding to their own personal needs and the needs of the relationship. It’s meant to be practiced several times a year not several times a week as many of you think it would be. The reason is, it’s just not feasible to expect to entertain a bull several times a week. Why? Because there’s this little thing that gets in the way, it’s called LIFE. At best a real common sense cuckold relationship is done for special occasions, anniversaries, birthdays, holidays etc. And by playing this way it doesn’t take over the relationship it actually just adds some yummy spice to it and it’s easier for a woman to maintain.
Look at it logically most women are balancing a career, kids, a relationship, relationships with friends and family and if she has the energy at this point her own hobbies and interests. So when you throw having sex with random men in there, there isn’t a ton of time. That may be a bummer to you boys who want extreme cuckolding, but this is reality. Remember you’re basing your observations on porn and how it makes your dick feel.
Common Sense Cuckolding™ is based on just what is says – common sense. So if you want to learn more about integrating this type of lifestyle in to your relationship in a realistic way just get in touch with me and I’ll be happy to help you out as I have hundreds of couples, successfully.
Want to learn a little more about Common Sense Cuckolding™ have a listen to this episode of In Bed with Dr Sue: