D wrote to me about his feelings, fantasies and confusion surrounding sucking his best friend’s cock. And surprisingly I get A LOT of emails asking about this which is why I chose to address it here instead of just returning his email. The idea of wanting to suck your best friend’s cock originates from your…
A married husband of 12 years emailed me recently with an issue he found himself facing. In order to spice up their bedroom play they started to play with toys. They began with the basics, light bondage, vibrators and a blindfold and as he stated, they were having a “blast,” the toys adding to their…
Most of the femme domme world is occupied by submissive males. And in the world of masters the ratio tends to be a fifty-fifty split between female and male. So where does that leave the submissive female who wants to serve a female domme? It leaves them feeling cast out and frustrated. Subsequently they find…
Many of the men I talk to tell me that they are no longer having sex with their wives. In some cases women have shut down for over a decade or more. That makes me sad. Here they are in this perfectly viable relationship and she has closed up shop. But why? Why do so…
It’s a shame your wife found your browser history. Now here you are sitting in my office in The Institute wondering how the hell you got here and how you’re going to get out. Unfortunately for you, you’ll get out but you won’t be the same as when you came in. I explain to…
Chris writes: “I’ve been thinking a lot about sexual dynamics and where the world is headed right now. Actually, I think that however the media tries to sugar-coat it, males are currently being deprived of their sexual power and everything is headed towards servicing the hypergamous tendencies of women. I also think, however, that this…