Most of the femme domme world is occupied by submissive males. And in the world of masters the ratio tends to be a fifty-fifty split between female and male. So where does that leave the submissive female who wants to serve a female domme? It leaves them feeling cast out and frustrated. Subsequently they find […]
Hypergamy is Not Female Empowerment
Chris writes: “I’ve been thinking a lot about sexual dynamics and where the world is headed right now. Actually, I think that however the media tries to sugar-coat it, males are currently being deprived of their sexual power and everything is headed towards servicing the hypergamous tendencies of women. I also think, however, that this […]
Domme or Psychopath?
I figured this one would raise a few eyebrows but I’m not doing it so you doubt your Dom/Domme. In fact, during the many years I’ve been studying psychopathy I always found the similarities quite fascinating. [insert Spock eyebrow raise] Psychopaths actually get a bad rap from the media. When we say the word psychopath […]
Domme Differences
Tom wrote this in an email: Beyond the difference between lifestyle and pro domination, there seems to me to be an ever growing rift between what i would consider “real” domination and the approach of so many insta-dommes making vids and doing on line “domination”, who seem to think that being a bitch with a […]
Are Dominatrixes Sex Workers?
Irony; the use of words to convey a meaning that is opposite of its literal meaning, an intention or attitude opposite to that which is actually or ostensibly stated. A dominatrix walks in to a bar. No actually a dominatrix goes to Las Vegas to take advantage of the AVN Awards/Expo and subsequently the influx of […]