Can I Trust an Online Domme?

J writes:

Hello Dr. Sue. I have a question concerning mistress and goddesses online particularly on Google  hangouts. Is this a common place for mistresses to look for slaves or subs. And if so is it common or normal for them to ask for your credit card login or bank account login? Can I submit and trust God is with this information and trust that the trust will not be abused?

So alleged Goddesses are hunting slaves? Well one could say that this is because it’s a business and of course one needs clients for a business to survive, therefore it’s nothing but good business for a Mistress to hunt subs. However, one could also say that for a Mistress to hunt slaves it shows she’s thirsty and has no real self-value as a true Goddess wouldn’t ‘hunt’ for a slave as slaves should come to her. I mean come on, does a Queen hunt for subjects?

I think it’s a combination of both. I personally would never hunt for slaves but that’s just my uppity ass as it goes against who I am at the core of my being. I don’t beg for anything let alone a slave. And man have I seen some serious ass begging going on by alleged ‘Dominant’ women.

My dear friend Sir Beast sends me messages with the moronic women who are hitting on him on the daily on Tumblr who insist he MUST serve them. (And some of these ladies are long-time big names. Smh) They don’t even bother or can’t read that he is a DOM. And some, even when he tells them, still insist the he will be serving them in no time. So even if they do read they don’t listen.

Why the thirst? Well the industry right now is over saturated with women who are pretending to be dominant because they read a book or saw an article online about how amazing it is to be a dominatrix and all the millions of dollars they’ll make doing so. So whether they are being taught to hit on men or just are drowning in a failed business attempt it still, in my opinion, looks like a street urchin from a Dickens novel holding up a cup, “more please?” hardly becoming of an alleged dominant.

So is it ‘common’ for a dominant woman to hunt for slaves? I’m afraid the answer to that is, right now yes. Does it make them a good domme? No. It’s up to you to do your due diligence when you are looking for a Mistress to serve.

Now moving on to the next part of your question, oh J, in a perfect world I would love to jump in and say, “Golly of course you can trust any woman on the internet not to fuck you over in some way for they are all virtuous and kind.” But if I told you that I’d be a big, fat, liar!

I want you to think about this without putting your dick in the equation. If a friend came to you and said, “Dude, this chick on the internet is smokin’ hot and asked me for my credit card and banking info should I give it to her?” What would you say?

Seems like a no-brainer to me. Of course you would tell him he’s nuts and the same holds true here. If someone you don’t know asks you for money before you ever get to know them that’s not domination, that’s prostitution and it’s the stupidest thing I’ve seen lately.

These idiot females who have heard that ‘Karen’ asks for $50 before she even allows men to speak with her is probably the most ridiculous business method I’ve seen develop lately. Again, let’s think of this without your dick in your hand. You go to a car dealer to look for a new car, the sales dude walks out and says, “Yo I can’t let you look at the new cars without a $50 charge.” You would look at him and tell him he’s fucked in the head and wave bye. When was the last time you walked in to Walmart and the ‘greeter’ said, “Sorry you can’t come in without our new $10 walk-through-the-door surcharge.”  Again, you’d tell him to fuck his mother and move on. So why are you letting dumb ho’s do this to you online? And dumb ho’s? Why are you shooting yourself in the foot by not letting someone in your door before they decide if they even want to buy anything? Is it because a book told you to? Or was it that scallywag Karen again? She’s always tellin’ you guys dumb shit isn’t she?

Again, with anything in this world, if you’re asked to do something stupid, just use your head and don’t do it. Move along to the next person because god knows there’s plenty out there to pick from. With the glut of women who call themselves dominant you’ll find what is happening in BDSM online right now is nothing short of panhandling. Most don’t have a single clue what they are doing and haven’t been properly trained if they’ve even bothered to be trained at all. They are in it to take you for anything they can get from you. Therefore should you trust any female who calls herself a Domme online? FUCK NO!

It’s actually not hard J, don’t give anyone you don’t know your financial info including credit cards or pay a woman for the privilege of talking to her and don’t trust a damn soul you don’t know in the flesh. There, that was easy.

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