The Dr Sue Review — Page 15 — Straight Talk on Twisted Subjects

I’m back with another review of one of the latest from Lovense. We all love Lovense. I mean how could you not? It allows anyone, anywhere to control your toys so imagine how excited I was to see that they had designed a toy specifically for your friend the frenulum.

For those of you who haven’t tried playing with your penile frenulum, you’re missing out. I have one sub in particular who enjoys playing with his frenulum above all else. He started out by using his fingers to grab and pull the skin, then he graduated to paper clips all of which made him feel amazing. So when Lovense came out with the Gush I told him about it right away. And being the good boy that he is, he got one.

Well let me tell you, this device drives him absolutely mad with desire. He loses his mind and his jizz whether he wants to or not when I’m controlling the device. Just slip it right under the head of your dick and off you go into the land of vibrational weakness. It won’t be long before he’s so turned on that he has no choice but to hump the floor in frenzy just like my sweet little sub C. He loves it and you will too.

As with all Lovense toys the Gush has an unlimited number of vibrational patterns, Bluetooth, syncs to music, is sound activated and of course gives long distance control.

Here’s a pic of the penile frenulum to help you visualize if you haven’t played with it yet.

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This is a pic of the Gush on one of my subs.
(yes the one in the comments below LOL)

You Just Might Be A Fag

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You’re always wondering, do the things I fantasize about make me gay? Is it possible that I’m not the hetero hunk I thought I was? Well now you can find out in my audio You Just Might Be A Fag where I take you on a journey into your fairy habits to determine if you’re getting a little light in the loafers or not, Jeff Foxworthy You Might Be a Redneck If, style.

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Themes: cocksucking, bi sex, cuckolding, humiliation

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Length: 6:30

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BBC Cocksucker Hypnosis

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Themes: hypnosis, cocksucking, black cock craving, BBC

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Length: 23:03

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Is Will Smith a Cuckold?

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Well this is an article I never thought I’d be writing. But Nissa on Twitter brought up the subject to me and after talking to Amelia Divine I was shocked to hear that there is some ridiculous ‘theory’ that Will Smith is a cuckold and that when he slapped Chris Rock that he was trying to assert his manhood.

I don’t know what goes on at your knitting circles gurls but y’all have been sniffing way too many poppers. So in the spirit of trying to correct misinformation I’m going to explain Will & Jada to those of you who, for some reason, don’t get it.

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are in an OPEN relationship. This means that they decided because they spend large amounts of time away from one another that they would give a green light to either one having sex with other people within the rules that they agreed upon. Jada broke those rules by having sex behind his back, thus she cheated. Why? Because she broke the rules they set out as a couple. It ceases to be an open relationship when there is deception because once you have deception what goes along with it are betrayal, resentment and distrust. All of this they have be very open about publically.

Will Smith was not trying to gain his manhood back from some perceived devaluation of him to cuckold status. He is a broken man. A man who is struggling. A man who is dealing with a lot of demons that none of us are privy to, nor should we be. He was upset because Christ Rock made a joke about Jada’s hair which due to her battle with alopecia, she now chooses to be very beautifully bald.

Did Chris Rock know about her alopecia? I’ve heard no but that’s not the point. Will Smith committed a felony on live worldwide TV. Not because he was trying to whip his dick around but because he saw Jada roll her eyes when Chris Rock made the joke. He was triggered in that moment. Not because he was trying to ‘be a man’ but because he saw his wife hurting. Was it right? Fuck no. But it is what it is.

And just so you gossiping queens can be even more clarified like butter I’ll explain, very simply, the different types of alternative relationships.

What is a Poly Relationship?

Poly, as the name implies means more than one. In poly relationship you love more than one person. They also tend to live in what are known as poly pods. This is NOT just based on sex. These are several people men and women who all love each other. Again, each pod will have its own rules. Want to learn more about Poly relationships? Listen to my show on Poly Relationships with Domina Kiara and Daddy Matt.

What is a Swinging?

Well I shouldn’t have to tell you this one. It’s one of the most widely accepted sex practices in the world. This is based solely on sex. It’s where couples have sex with other singles and couples, sometimes in group settings and sometimes in smaller settings. Swinging is not a relationship, it’s just a sexual lifestyle.

What is a Cuckold Relationship?

A cuckold relationship is an offshoot of swinging but usually goes deeper than just sex depending on how the couple decides to play. In this relationship, usually the woman is in charge especially in the bedroom. It is about a woman exerting her sexual power and preference the same way men have been doing for centuries. She has sex with other men, based on the rules the couple sets out and the husband usually but not always watches but doesn’t participate. If he participates it is no longer cuckolding, it’s swinging.

A cuckold is NOT weak, a loser, broke or stupid although they are portrayed that way because they choose not to follow societal standards. Most cuckolds are very successful men who simply enjoy watching their wife be sexually satisfied by another man. That’s why many cuckolds are not cuckolds they are simply voyeurs. It only becomes a true cuckold relationship when the woman is having sex with whomever she wants, the husband is not, and she runs the show.

What I find hilarious when people put cucks down when who do you think ran the households in most families in the fifties, sixties and seventies? The wife. She handled all the finances and ran the house. She just wasn’t fucking who she wanted or if she was she didn’t say anything. But now, for some reason, cuckolding has been labelled as a weak man’s game when in fact it takes HUGE BALLS to watch someone you love have sex with someone else.

There are obviously many more alt relationship types but these are the main ones and clearly the ones that needed to be interpreted. And so is Will Smith a cuckold? The answer is a resounding NO.

Now let’s try to spread joy instead of unsubstantiated gossip, shall we?

Ask Dr Sue – How Do I Get My Religious Girlfriend to Cuckold Me?

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A writes:

Hi Dr Sue. I am a 28 year old male . I am dating my girlfriend for 9 years now. I realized early on in our relationship that I could not sexually satisfy her. My self confidence was destroyed at the age of 12 when a friend from school took his cock out and showed me. It was massive at least 8 inches in size. It was at that moment I felt inferior . I know my girlfriend deserves a good sex life. How do I approach my religious girlfriend about cuckolding. At the moment I am consumed with watching her fuck other guys with big cocks. I do have a small cock and cannot stay hard for very long. On one occasion I had a thought of my girlfriend being ravaged by 4 black men with big cocks. That thought alone made my little cock hard for 2 hours.i look forward to hearing from you.

Thank you for writing in A. This is a very important subject that doesn’t get discussed much. What if I want to be cuckolded and my wife/gf/so is religious? Well, it leaves you in an almost no win situation A. I’d love to say that you can work some of my programs and get her to come around to your way of thinking but it has been my personal experience with other couples that tells me otherwise.

Women who are very religious, not spiritual, two different things, will be very steadfast in their beliefs and rightfully so. It’s her beliefs and she has every right to have them. And most religions frown upon any type of extracurricular sexual activities within the marriage/relationship.

I think it’s adorable how you think 8” is massive, that sort of gives me an indication about your size which is part of the reason why you’re having these thoughts in the first place; the smaller the penis, the more submissive the male. Add to that your experience with the guy from school and you end up later with a full blown cuckolding fascination.

You cannot change your gf A. She is, who she is and has every right to believe and enjoy her religion so you cannot ask her to change her beliefs for you. However there are a few things that you need to consider.

Since she is just a gf at this stage, you may want to consider the fact that if you need to explore things sexually, this woman may not be right for you. It’s best to figure this out now and not after you’re married. Things will NOT get better. They will stay the same so don’t think that she will change or you can get her to change. The other thing is, how do you know she isn’t sexually satisfied? Have you even sat down and talked about this with her? My guess is no, since most people hate confrontation and fear discussing sex. But relationships take work and honest communication if they are to survive. If you’re hiding this from her, you’re lying to her by ommision and I doubt she deserves that.

Here’s a good thing though, if your penis is as small as you portray it to be, perhaps the fact that she has a religious background works in your favor as she might not have had much sexual experience and therefore won’t know any better as far as penis size is concerned. It’s usually best if you little guys are with inexperienced women because the experienced ones usually want bigger dick.

Lastly you need to ask yourself a white boy question, why does it have to be big black guys? That is a legit question that you need to ponder. Why black guys? Is it because you think of them as evil or bad in some way? Why can’t 4 white guys defile her?

My suggestion is that you consider these things and whether or not you want to continue with the relationship at all. But know this, you are a product of porn just as most white me are. What you see is entertainment, not reality. In reality a couple such as yourself would be devoured and not in a good way by the men you seek. In the end your relationship could implode and you end up alone and your gf ends up miserable because all she was doing was, “trying to make you happy,” by putting her own principles and morals on the line. Is that really what you want to ask of someone you allegedly love?

If you really insist on trying this lifestyle then you sit down with your gf and you tell her about the thoughts you’ve been having and the porn you’ve been watching and you get her opinion on it. You research it together to get the proper information IF she’s receptive and if she’s not you drop it. But you need to be honest with yourself first and your gf next if you want to continue to work at this relationship or any future relationship you might have.

Ask Dr Sue – Perception is Everything in Cuckolding

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N writes:

“I’m 28 and cuckolding was something that aroused me since my early 20s. It stems from my desire for submission and humiliation which grew stronger over time.

There are two things that stop me from experience either a scene like this, or a cuckold relationship. First being the fantasy vs reality part. Since a lot of things are best kept as a fantasy. Perhaps I’m not really into this in reality.

Yet when I hear a woman talking about cheating on an ex of hers, or reading real experiences about women that degrade their boyfriends behind their back with other men. I get an instant erection and heart palpitations.

Secondly, is the kind of person that I am. Obviously being submissive and/or a cuckold, doesn’t mean that someone is physically or mentally weak or unattractive. I’m good looking and I don’t have an issue with finding a partner for sex. And who I am is completely opposite of these sexual desires, so to speak. Which makes it more difficult for me to accept a role that would put me in this position. And at the same time it makes it more intense, since humiliation is arousing to me. It “hurts” more because of that. Kind of like <<the bigger they are, the harder they fall>>.

The summer that passed, I met a young girl that’s super submissive. We were chatting quite a bit. After a week or so, we met and kissed for hours, then we kept talking online. She liked me a lot and was interested in trying a dominant role with me. She enjoys being masochistic and submissive to dominant people, and shared a fantasy of hers. She’d like to keep a guy waiting for her while she’s busy with other people. Even sent a picture of a used condom after she had sex to tease me.

I shared a few desires of mine with her. But of course not the whole truth (a lot of things that interest me and most likely her as well). And that’s due to the two reasons that I mentioned above.

Not having masturbated for a while and/or being a little intoxicated, makes it easier for me to open up. You know how it goes.

Hell, I even wished that she or other women would somehow learn this side about me and then I’d be “forced” to be honest.

With all that being said. My question is how do I approach this if I decide to get serious about it? I even thought of having someone “expose” me to them, or even paying a dominant person online to do so. Not any random person, of course.

What do you think?”

You open up a myriad of complex issues here N but I’ll try to weave this in such a way that will make sense to you and anyone else who is reading this.

I think too many men think that if they are submissive that is all they are. We tend to think of things in black or white terms and that doesn’t work with sex or many things actually.

Just because you have a sexually submissive side doesn’t mean that is all of who you are. We are all both dominant and submissive, we just tend to lean more towards one or the other but depending on the circumstances and people involved we can switch. For example, I don’t think if I was holding your mother at gunpoint you’d get all submissive in the moment. I believe that how you are identifying yourself could be the issue. You may not even be a cuckold you could be a voyeur. You boys tend to base your sexual identities on what porn you watch forgetting that porn is entertainment, even the amateur shit.

So part of what you could do is to shift your perception. You are a guy who enjoys some submissive stuff in the bedroom. Doesn’t mean you can’t be dominant in the bedroom too, just means you like to do both including possibly watching your partner have sex with someone else. I would suggest you read my article Cuckold or Voyeur to see.

Here’s another reason why I can tell you are basing all of this on porn. A submissive woman is NOT the type you want to try any cuckolding with. Someone has to be in charge in the room and it can never be the bull. Again, this is the porn perception of cuckolding. You also don’t want to do extreme humiliation with a partner or you’ll risk losing them.

As you say, much of what men enjoy in porn is best left in fantasy. Doesn’t mean you can’t play it out in the bedroom in role play scenarios but for many couples that’s as far as it should go. And you never start a cuckold relationship right from the start either. Doing that ensure you will end up no longer in a loving relationship but just a typical D & s one. Cuckolding is a very tricky and not easily sustained lifestyle and it is NOT for everyone even if you think it could be.

Your point about the perception of cuckolds is a great one and one that I brought up recently with another sub. Cuckold’s are perceived as dumb, useless, weak, and broke. All of those descriptions are so far from the truth it’s unreal. A cuckold has to be in a very strong relationship with his partner. He has to have balls of steel to watch someone he desperately loves have sex with another man. The true successful cuckold relationships I’ve counselled or have known myself are wealthy men in great relationships who are in no way humiliated or stupid, they just enjoy watching their wives be satisfied by dick they cannot provide occasionally. Not every day, not every week, not even every month, it’s done as a special occasion. It’s treated as something special because it is.

So maybe today’s word should be perception because perception is everything. Perceive yourself as a stupid weak male and you will be seen as that. Want to be in a healthy relationship, be honest first with yourself, then with your partner in ALL areas of your life but especially in the bedroom otherwise you’ll be yet another statistic locked in an unsatisfying marriage because that’s what you were ‘supposed’ to do.

Oh and getting someone to expose you to someone else is the biggest bitch ass move ever. It’s rude, it’s selfish, it’s narcissistic, and it can be traumatizing to whomever you’re exposing yourself too. And don’t get someone else to be your spine. Exposing your kinks to people who are not interested or are not involved with is cowardly and no one will ever want to be in a long-term relationship with a bitch. Man up and own who you are and what you enjoy. Do that, and watch how someone will enter your life who enjoys what you do.

Toy Review – Lovense Gush

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