Cuckold or Voyeur

If you’re like most men, your only exposure to what cuckolding is – is through the porn you watch. Unfortunately in the process you’ve forgotten that PORN ISN’T REAL. Porn is entertainment, fantasy, which is why it’s usually extreme or outrageous and the same can be said about the average male’s view of cuckolding – it’s extreme and outrageous. Watching the evolution of cuckolding has made me sad. It’s no longer the female empowering lifestyle that it was meant to be.

Because men are essentially paranoid and insecure they have taken what was supposed to be a lifestyle where a woman calls the shots about her own sex life and turned it into a voyeuristic annihilation of their wife by a GIANT COCK, in most cases a BBC. Whether it’s bullheaded bulls trying to break up the couple or parasitic spouses handing out naked pics of their wives without their knowledge, what was once something for women, has been turned into a perverted circle jerk.

And because of this infiltration of peni into something where it doesn’t belong nor is needed you now need to ask yourself what you really want.

Cuckolding is about a woman, as I said earlier, calling the shots in her sex life. When done not just sanely but realistically she has sex with other guys maybe a few times a year. The rest of that time she has sex with her husband. She’s not out banging a new guy every night. Sorry guys but that isn’t realistic, it’s entertainment.

The whole point of a woman cuckolding her husband is not to replace the man the way they would have you believe in porn, but simply enjoy something different every once in a while to add flavor to their sex life.

The husband usually enjoys watching or hearing about the sex with her lover. It’s not done because she’s cheating. It’s not done because she’s an insatiable whore. It’s done because her husband realizes that he can’t give her the type of sex she craves here and there for a variety of reasons. And he loves to see her express herself sexually.

Now I’m not so pie-in-the-sky as to think that there’s no sexual fun to be had by all in the scenario. Some husbands want more humiliation than others, some wives don’t want to fuck in front of their husband because it makes them uncomfortable. And if you want to go extreme, have at ‘er. It’s just that extreme isn’t easily sustainable.

If you love the idea of your wife fucking other men, and I say fucking because that’s exactly what it is, love-making is for husbands, because you love the idea of her expressing her sexuality and you get off on the idea of it. You’re probably perfect for cuckolding.

If however, you want to see your wife’s pussy pummeled by some monster cock and see some other guy abuse her, choke her and treat her like garbage. You’re a voyeur and you have some serious questions to ask yourself.

• Why do you hate your wife?
• Why do you want to see her hurt?
• Why are with her if you want to see this happen to her?

That’s not normal for a husband to want to see. And on some level you hate your wife. You certainly don’t love her if you want to see her hurt.

What you really need to do is ask yourself those questions and answer them honestly. Then knock-off the porn for a while because you’re down a rabbit hole that will not end happily.

If you purport yourself to be a submissive male, then you don’t want to see your Queen hurt, ever. You are there to support her and getting off to what she enjoys is just a bonus. You boys need to stop trying to top from the bottom and control everything. Let your Queen take her rightful place on the throne and watch your life not only simplify but be hotter than any porn clip you’ve jerked to in the closet.  And if you can’t stand the idea of turning it all over to her, then stay in the closet drooling and jack-rabbiting your tool in fantasy land. You don’t deserve anything more.