This came to my attention when a new client of mine came to me for advice on cuckolding but with a bit of a twist. He and his wife are faced with a medical problem that makes him impotent. He started doing some research and found out about cuckolding and proposed the idea to his wife who was a bit hesitant at first but soon warmed to the idea when faced with the possibility of the rest of her life being sexless.
What confused him was all the information ‘out there’ describes cuckolding primarily as a kink and this caused him some concern since this isn’t the head space either one of them was coming from. He was actually worried about not ‘getting it right,’ he thought that he HAD to take it from a fetish perspective. I want to reiterate once again that there is no right or wrong way to cuckold or for that matter to do anything in the kink world, with the exception of Japanese rope tying. 🙂
He didn’t want the whole humiliation aspect to it or any kind of fluffing or feminization. He just wanted the chance to watch his wife be sexually satisfied and to be involved in her pleasure in some way. Yes they could go the oral and toy route but as most of you girls out there know, a toy is okay but it definitely doesn’t replace the real thing.
His wife wanted nothing to do with the bull selection and has left that up to him which is actually a really good idea. For this gentleman to find and present a bull male and then to watch HIS selection give her pleasure is so very important to him.
So for any of you guys out there who are doing research and trip over this post, NO you can’t get it wrong and you can create a scenario in any way that pleases and works for the two of you. There are no rules.