I’ve been asked a few times to write an article explaining my thoughts on female supremacy as well as just what the hell the concept is.
Female supremacy causes some very serious reactions from people so first off don’t kick the messenger. However that said I would consider myself a female supremacist. 😉
Female supremacy is simply the belief that women as a gender are far superior to men. Simple concept but you’ll find many people take great offense to that statement because of the way our society is structured.
I don’t want this to turn in to a pissing match so I will qualify everything I’m saying from this point on by saying that this is all MY OPINION. The fantastic part of life is that we all have differing opinions and differing tastes. If we all liked the same thing life would be boring and very slow. Nothing new would be developed, nothing would change so I have no problem with anyone who has a different view, all I ask is to open your mind just a wee tiny bit.
There are numerous studies which begin to expose the theory that women are genetically superior to males and if you want to read about that further I suggest you read Adam’s Curse: A Future without Men
What I will go in to are the signs all around you of the fact that men are inferior to women.
Almost all religions are male controlled. Most if not all wars have been religious based. More people have killed each other in the name of religion/war than anything else. In 2002 alone 172 thousand people died from wars. Gotta love that testosterone fueled ‘my way or the highway’ attitude.
Catholic priests are held to sexual standards that cannot be maintained, imposed by another male. I shouldn’t have to remind you how well that’s been working.
Men have been in control of most of corporate America including the banking system. Again, look around you, greed and aggression rule supreme with men.
The entire porn/stripper/escort/hooker industry is fueled by the male’s inability to control their sexual desires. So what have women done? Learned to feed that need and make money off of men’s weaknesses.
I’m not even going to go down the government road, again, that should be blatantly obvious.
I could go on but this should end somewhere and I’ll let you guys bark it out in the comments. Suffice it to say if it were up to me I would teach male children from a very young age that women are to be respected, obeyed, cherished, and put first in every aspect their lives. All men should be placed in chastity to control their sexual urges. All men should consider their lives to be only in service of women.
However, that said, I will also say that women need to put women first more as well. Remember a true female supremacist respects her fellow female. She doesn’t lower her, she doesn’t disparage her choices she uplifts. To put down another female for any reason just puts you in the realm of men. (But that’s another article)
UPDATE 1-20-2013
Pat wrote this email to me and I think it makes better sense than what I was saying. I do believe women are superior to males but do I think males should be eradicated or that they are worthless? NO not at all. I don’t believe in any system that will hold anyone back from anything. Quite the contrary. My point is that this world does not work under male rule as has been proven in history. I still think chastity and discipline in young males is important as well. So I guess to answer your question Pat, I would have to say I view it the same as you. Yes there is a difference between the two.
I’ve been thinking a lot about female superiority and female supremacy. This may surprise you but I actually do believe in female superiority, when defined in a certain way (I’ll get to that later). It’s female supremacy that I have a problem with, meaning a political construct which gives favor to females just because they’re female. Regarding female superiority, sure, there are many indicators we could point to that show women are better at certain things. In that respect,women would be superior in that area. For instance, I do believe that women possess more of the natural skills and personality traits to be successful in the modern economy than men do, and therefore, we will live in a female dominated world one day. Female supremacy would be a system which arbitrarily forbids men from advancing or holding positions of power. Big difference. Superiority vs supremacy is the subtext behind most of my comments regarding female supremacy that I don’t think I’ve articulated very well. Do you distinguish between the two?
I agree with Your entire article, Dr. Sue. This boy is now 60, and I wish I would have been born later — so I can see the complete transformation when Women rule all of society. And it will happen, I’m sure of it. In the meantime, I do what I can by buying products from Female-owned companies when the quality’s good, and voting for Female political office-holders — fortunately, there are now some great & talented Women on all sides of the political spectrum. Also … as much as I love my rather large family … I am much happier when I’m enslaved to my Mistress. I have served Her exclusively for several years, and She knows what I need to make Her enriched, thus making both of us happy. My Wife gives me a nice home life, but Ms. Mistress is the only one who gets me going sexually these days. Although I’d hurt a lot of people with a divorce, there are days when I do regret being married — I am very happy under my Mistress’s thumb and control. She reminds me that Women are now the majority in colleges … and, I believe, in registered voters. I may be wrong about that last one, but I’m fully convinced that Female rule is coming. And that heartens me so much, Dr. Sue.
Not much objectivity here. Every man that has commented has basically said, “I agree with everything you say.” Come to think of it, if so many men really are that dumb, maybe women really are superior after all.
LMAO! I’m not laughing at you Pat I love your comments!! They rock! You weren’t expecting any real feedback from mindless drones were you? Have a safe and happy Holiday!!
Glad to entertain you, Dr Sue. Happy Holidays to you too!
Oh, Pat. I feel sorry for any Goddess who is overburdened by dumb & mindless pieces of male protoplasm. The truth is, my Mistress demands that I use my creative writing and promotional skills to help Her attract customers to Her various Erotica businesses. And She’s been very successful. My support for Female Supremacy stems from my years of business experience. Time and again, I’ve seen the most talented Women outperform the most talented men by miles! The best Businesswomen I’ve seen generally have more heart and patience. And they sometimes display an aggressive drive that admittedly, I find erotic. It’s very rewarding to see Ms. Mistress shine — to see Her get all the profit and credit from what I do for Her. And it’s not mindless loyalty. It’s two heads benefitting one … Hers! I wish more people could see the satisfaction I get from that. I’d make a great secretary for any Woman, because I take the attitude that I work for HER — more than for myself or the company. If She succeeds, then the rewards for me & the corporation will follow. There’s so much more I could say — but I’ll just finish by saying that I would not mind “wearing the pantyhose” in the office.
Dear Dr. Sue,
You are both concise and perfect in every dimension. Thank You so much for enriching us with Your Thoughts. i sincerely believe in every cell of my body that You are beyond criticism.
sincerely,
a humble admirer
Thank you although I’m never beyond criticism and I’m quite open to it. Thank you for the kind words and the worship of your other comment. 🙂
I completely agree with the idea of female supremacy, it’s indeed a fact rather than an opinion that female is naturally more complete than male in creation, even all male-based religions describe the creation of female as being the LAST work of God. All scriptures depict that the being who was created after, had a complexity and feature characteristic that the previous didn’t. If we start thinking deeply and unbiasedly, we will come to know that this is true. I do not believe that ALL women are flawless, in fact the majority of women are unaware of whom they are, because they have not discovered their true divine essence. The ones that have done are the real symbols of whom I’m talking about here.
Thank you for the great blog
Very informative
Natasha,
You are talking about something completely different. That’s how you relate to people in the lifestyle. It’s a fetish. Ideological female supremacy is something else entirely. It’s a prescription for the way society should be run, such as when someone says that all male children should be taught of their inferiority. That’s what I’m arguing against.
I agree that our kinks and fetishes dictate who we interact with. Whatever someone does as a fetish with consenting adult partners is their own business. I’m not a prude wailing against femdom. There would be no bdsm at all if we let people that were offended dictate what we do. But this article and what it’s advocating is NOT about the lifestyle.
I always wish this was a Female Dominated world.If we all grew up this way,most of us would accept such.I am submissive and shy and quiet in nature,and always prefer for a woman to kind of claim me and speak for me in many ways,and to be in charge of the household and all.I fully agree with what Sissy Bubblegum says.Im sure I would be much more productive and better in many ways if I was kept in chastity by a woman that I am committed to.I do believe one day woman will be the stronger half as far as running this world one day.Such as being most of the CEOs and president or prime minister of the country.I very much wish i could had been born in such a world.
If This were a Fem supremacist world so many superior Fems would’nt like It cause They still have The whole stupid gender equality Thing In Their genes, I was born Into a Fem supremacy fam so It’s In my genes cause whatever mindset an expecting mother has before she has kids becomes a part of Theirs also, Growing up I felt naturally dominant and when I had my Twin Daughters I could see In em That They were naturally dominant also, The same was True with my sis n laws and gfs when They had Their Daughters and The same will be for future generations of superior Fems with The younger superior Fems who naturally Take control of The Inferior males In Their lives now and have Daughters, As for That This should have been a Fem supremacist world when we were Growing up I Thought The same back Then, I did everything I could To promote It but That was’nt enough.
As many of you know , I have been a long time proponent of Female Supremacy and have always made it a requirement for personal servitude. This has remained a constant throughout My years in the Lifestyle.
Dr. Sue makes valid points and as She states, it is Her opinion, belief system and She chooses to embrace it.
One of the reasons I have made it a requirement is that I have found males who truly believe and practice Female Superiority, tend to be more respectful, attentive and worshipful.
I think we all come to the table with our own experiences and beliefs. These experiences and beliefs as well as Our own fetishes or “kinks” dictate who we interact with.
i kneel to You, Goddess.
Hey, you’re entitled to like what you want. If you simply said, “I like female supremacy” then there’s not much I can say. However, your article was for more inflamatory than that, Dr Sue. You presented your case as to why you think men are inferior and prescribed a world where no man would have the right to his own life, where his only value is service he can give to women. That’s a little different than saying “I like coffee.” So I offered a counter argument as to why I think that’s wrong. I don’t see how you can expect to put an opinion like that on a public forum like the internet and not get some push back.
If you like female supremacy as a fantasy or a fetish, fine. Have fun with it. When I first heard the term I thought it was hot as hell. The submissive in me lit up. What submissive man hasn’t fantasized about a world where women reign supreme? However, I soon realized that there are women who really believe in this stuff. It brought me into contact with the ideas of radical feminists like Mary Daly. True misandrists. I’m sure you’re familiar with her views on men, the “decontamination of the earth” via reduction of the male population, for example. And she was dead serious about it.
This is what I hear when I come across female supremacy rhetoric like the passage I quoted from your article, so maybe I take this a little more seriously than the average man that’s just here to wack off to it. I don’t think it’s just a matter of agreeing to disagree. Ideas matter and I believe there are right and wrong answers to any question worth talking about.
Maybe this was intended to be just a fun little article on one of the gazillion fetishes out there. If so, though it’s not my cup of tea, please accept my apology for being a shit disturber on your blog. Maybe I’m taking this too seriously but the article certainly sounds like you are a true believer, in which case, I stand by my argument.
I love this acticle Female Supremacy its soo good shes soo right you guys open your eyes and think how much better the world would be if Female ruled it the best part is (if it were up to me I would teach male children from a very young age that women are to be respected, obeyed, cherished, and put first in every aspect their lives. All men should be placed in chastity to control their sexual urges. All men should consider their lives to be only in service of women.”) i love you Mistress Sue a female dominated world WOULD BE HEVAN
It would be the same world if women ran it. I would love for women to rule this world in a better way. That won’t happen because there are women who put down other women as well as men. There is jealousy, hatred, vice, racism etc. You think that these are male problems only? From a genetic standpoint, they are winning this battle currently. I feel sorry that women outlive us, to be very honest with you. Who want’s to inherit this corrupt world? Why would you want to be more beautiful, smarter, healthier, more educated etc. in a world like this? You would still have to deal with the women who are at odds with you and want to destroy you? Plus, this is only research based on race, culture, economic status and other factors. Also, understand that tomorrow is never promised! Even the healthiest woman alive can get run over by a truck trying to cross the street. What good does it do a woman to live 3 or 4 years longer than a man if she is living with a debilitating disease that makes her life hell. That’s why Dr. Sue mentioned the word theory at the beginning of the article. Looks like too many guys here have been reading too much Elise Sutton, who, by the way may not even be a real woman. Guys, if you want to see women as superior, that’s your prerogative, but please see them as superior for the right reasons. I think some women are superior to me because some are more mature, sensitive, compassionate, smart etc.
So many people reference Brian Sykes on the subject which is ridiculous. He does seem to be a female supremacist, and he twists and mangles his limited understanding of science to fit into his belief system, but beyond that his opinion, and any actual rigorous scientific inquiry part paths. Actual scientists, female supremacists, and Sykes himself would probably all like to see him get several swift kicks in the groin.
I agree with you about Brian Sykes, Jim. Pop science with some spin. As I said, it is hip these days to write books that cheer lead for females while denigrating males. Girl power sells.
However, I don’t argue with female supremacists about biology. I am willing to concede every biological point they make to avoid the pissing contest that Dr Sue alluded to. As I said, even if it’s all true, female supremacy is simply indefensible from an ethical perspective. I’ve debated many female supremacists and they all side step those questions.
Here’s my point. Why can’t we each like what we like. It’s no different than say me not liking coffee (which I don’t) and someone loving it. I’m not going to piss all over them because they like it. Hey enjoy your coffee. I prefer not to. It’s that simple. I’m not on here spouting craziness and making people join my views. It’s simply my opinion. I think women are better than men. So what? No one is stepping on penis’s here. I LOVE MEN.
Bryan Sykes doesn’t care about you, me, men, women, dogs or cats! He’s just trying to make a quick buck by putting down men and pretending to elevate women. It’s fake’s like him that make all human beings look bad.
Wow Dr Sue,
I had no idea you were a female supremacist. A dominant woman, yes. An ideological female supremacist, no. I’ve had to rewrite this several times for decorum’s sake because I’ve always respected your blog and opinion. Now that my blood has stopped boiling, here’s my two cents…
I find it curious that you would open with such a bold statement that women are superior to men and then preemptively shut down all debate by implying that anyone who disagrees with you is simply blind to this simple truth by “society” or just close minded. I also find it curious that you cite sources that you refuse to talk about because they’re “boring”. Well, science does tend to be a buzzkill when one is trying to wack off, and I know this is a sexual blog, but I was shaking my head at that one.
Anyhow, I’m willing to concede, for the sake of argument, that the Y chromosome is simply a junk heap and that men are genetically doomed. I will accept it all and still disagree with your prescription for a female dominated world.
Here’s what really troubles me:
“if it were up to me I would teach male children from a very young age that women are to be respected, obeyed, cherished, and put first in every aspect their lives. All men should be placed in chastity to control their sexual urges. All men should consider their lives to be only in service of women.”
Thank god it’s not up to you. I had to read that twice with my jaw dropped. Teach a young boy that his life is only worth serving women? Can you say fascism? Replace the word men with citizens and the word women with state. It would read, “All citizens should consider their lives to be only in service to the state.” I’ll leave you to chew on that one and try to come up with an ethical argument to defend that statement.
My beef with female supremacy is not coming from biology. Bring in Brian Sykes or Steven Jones or whomever has discovered that it’s hip and lucrative to write these sensational pop biology books. It won’t help your case. Even if it is true that women are genetically superior, how does that lead to the conclusion that men should live in service to women? By your logic all handicapped and sick people should live their lives in service to healthy people. After all, the able-bodied are genetically superior. I await an answer to that one too.
No, my beef is an ethical one. Since you’re fond of quoting biologists, maybe you should take Richard Dawkins’ advice from The Selfish Gene; don’t look to biology for morality.
Rant over.
But that’s the beauty of life Pat… agreeing to disagree. It’s okay that my opinion made your blood boil. It’s great in fact! As long as I made you think. I’m happy. Life is all about deciding what works for you and what doesn’t and each and every person on this planet will decide different things for themselves. I don’t push my views on anyone. I was asked to write an article on my views of female supremacy and I did. Love em or leave me. I’m hardly a threat to humanity. It’s just that in my perfect world that’s what I would like to see. Will it happen, hell probably not, and that’s okay too. Glad to see you got pissed Pat! 🙂