I’ve been asked a few times to write an article explaining my thoughts on female supremacy as well as just what the hell the concept is.
Female supremacy causes some very serious reactions from people so first off don’t kick the messenger. However that said I would consider myself a female supremacist. 😉
Female supremacy is simply the belief that women as a gender are far superior to men. Simple concept but you’ll find many people take great offense to that statement because of the way our society is structured.
I don’t want this to turn in to a pissing match so I will qualify everything I’m saying from this point on by saying that this is all MY OPINION. The fantastic part of life is that we all have differing opinions and differing tastes. If we all liked the same thing life would be boring and very slow. Nothing new would be developed, nothing would change so I have no problem with anyone who has a different view, all I ask is to open your mind just a wee tiny bit.
There are numerous studies which begin to expose the theory that women are genetically superior to males and if you want to read about that further I suggest you read Adam’s Curse: A Future without Men
What I will go in to are the signs all around you of the fact that men are inferior to women.
Almost all religions are male controlled. Most if not all wars have been religious based. More people have killed each other in the name of religion/war than anything else. In 2002 alone 172 thousand people died from wars. Gotta love that testosterone fueled ‘my way or the highway’ attitude.
Catholic priests are held to sexual standards that cannot be maintained, imposed by another male. I shouldn’t have to remind you how well that’s been working.
Men have been in control of most of corporate America including the banking system. Again, look around you, greed and aggression rule supreme with men.
The entire porn/stripper/escort/hooker industry is fueled by the male’s inability to control their sexual desires. So what have women done? Learned to feed that need and make money off of men’s weaknesses.
I’m not even going to go down the government road, again, that should be blatantly obvious.
I could go on but this should end somewhere and I’ll let you guys bark it out in the comments. Suffice it to say if it were up to me I would teach male children from a very young age that women are to be respected, obeyed, cherished, and put first in every aspect their lives. All men should be placed in chastity to control their sexual urges. All men should consider their lives to be only in service of women.
However, that said, I will also say that women need to put women first more as well. Remember a true female supremacist respects her fellow female. She doesn’t lower her, she doesn’t disparage her choices she uplifts. To put down another female for any reason just puts you in the realm of men. (But that’s another article)
UPDATE 1-20-2013
Pat wrote this email to me and I think it makes better sense than what I was saying. I do believe women are superior to males but do I think males should be eradicated or that they are worthless? NO not at all. I don’t believe in any system that will hold anyone back from anything. Quite the contrary. My point is that this world does not work under male rule as has been proven in history. I still think chastity and discipline in young males is important as well. So I guess to answer your question Pat, I would have to say I view it the same as you. Yes there is a difference between the two.
I’ve been thinking a lot about female superiority and female supremacy. This may surprise you but I actually do believe in female superiority, when defined in a certain way (I’ll get to that later). It’s female supremacy that I have a problem with, meaning a political construct which gives favor to females just because they’re female. Regarding female superiority, sure, there are many indicators we could point to that show women are better at certain things. In that respect,women would be superior in that area. For instance, I do believe that women possess more of the natural skills and personality traits to be successful in the modern economy than men do, and therefore, we will live in a female dominated world one day. Female supremacy would be a system which arbitrarily forbids men from advancing or holding positions of power. Big difference. Superiority vs supremacy is the subtext behind most of my comments regarding female supremacy that I don’t think I’ve articulated very well. Do you distinguish between the two?
Yes, I do agree that boys do get in more trouble through violent behavior than women do, but that does not make women any better than men. Women have higher rates of self harm, depression and suicide tab men in many countries, and likewise it does not make them more self destructive, just different.
I do agree though that perhaps teaching in at a school level should incoperate training that addresses these issues, but they should be based on equality and not servitude.
Also, the reason that I have asked for the podcast to be removed or changed is due to the similarities that it has with racism. While like you, I value my freedom of speech very much, but if I were to go out and make racist comments in public I would be warned under the race equality act [i live in the uk], likewise if I were to go out and make blantly sexist comments (eg for women to serve men and their desires to be suppressed) I would think I would not be allowed to make those comments also. There is a line to freedom of speech and that (at least in my country) line is crossed when one makes comments that has the possibility of causing hate to a whole group of people or causing people to view an entire gender or race as inferior. (Plz note I am not saying you comments are hateful, but it can perhaps cause hateful feelings in others).
Ironically, when u talk about suppressing male sexual desire, it should be noted that female sexual desire was once seen as abnormal and unatural (female hysteria). I am sure you know this, so perhaps like female sexuality, which is now seen as natural, so male sexuailty is natural too. and thus it is is moral education that needs to be strengthened in schools, not suppressing male sex drive.
Perhaps the bet society is one where both sexes can live equally side by side. We men are never going to be as good as women at somethings and I am fully aware of that. Just like there are some things men do better than women. Like the male led world that is now ending i fear a femal led world also will be heavily deficient in many areas. If we work together taking equal but different roles, surly we will end up with a better world!
Sorry for any spelling and grammar mistakes, wiring such a long thing in the phone is not easy. Lol
Hey Jack,
Bravo, sir! Finally, I have a kindred spirit on this topic. I agree with you on just about every point about the morality of female supremacy. I also agree that, as I’ve said before here, the case for female superiority is created with selective reading of evidence. We could make a case that bacteria are genetically superior to humans in terms of survival ability. They have a much longer history on earth than humans and they will be here when we are long gone.. Maybe we should all serve and worship bacteria, yes?
However, I don’t agree with your call for censorship. We have to be able to discuss ideas, even ones we don’t agree with. Dr Sue is not a hateful woman but I do strongly disagree with some of her views on this topic. She has never censored me from expressing my opinion even when I’ve been a little harsh with my criticism. I do understand your initial outrage, though..
Also, keep in mind, this is a fetish blog. The women on the podcast were professional dominatrices and this is part of their persona. Although the discussion went beyond the consensual world of kink, it is driven by sexual interest in femdom and some people just like to discuss more extreme scenarios, pretending they are being serious. I don’t know if these women genuinely believe in it or not but I’m 100% certain that most of the guys listening are just getting off on a fantasy.
Live and laugh a little. Don’t take it too seriously.
I LOVE you guys!! 🙂 And you’d be surprised at how appreciative the bacteria are of my shrine!
I would like to start by saying that ANY form of discrimination of any human being based on race, gender, religion, politics is wrong, and violates our basic human rights. Therefore to state that women are genetically superior to men to be is to use the same arguments that white racists use against black people! In the are of white supremacy there were as many if not more ‘scientific’ studies which showed that white people were somehow superior to other races. And today, there are studies published which show men are better are certain things and women at others. As a medical scientist and clinical doctor I have seen in depth scientific studies which shows both sides, but it does not prove men or women are superior than the other gender! One cannot choose her/his gender any more than his/her race, and any discrimination in society based on this should end and never return, and thus, while I support the cause of feminists to strive for female equality and believe there is still some way to go on that front, I abhor this bloggers comments that women are superior and should lead while men serve. This is just as bad a racism, and like racism it has no place in our society
We live in a equal society, and talking about teaching boys from a young age to serve women, who are deemed to be better then men is just wrong (ref. your podcast!). If this was the other way around I think an was about male supremacy I don’t think this podcast will be allowed to air (just imagine if a public podcasts aired the view that men are superior and we should go back to a society where women are placed in constant servitude to men! that would be equally offensive!).
Now if a man through his own choice wants to serve women and live in a female led relationship that his own free will. But building a society where there is a inherent bias towards a certain gender is JUST WRONG and immoral and takes away the basic human right which says every human is born equal. Sexism is as poisonous as racism and airing such views is hateful and should be challenged by all right thinking people. We live in a world where equality is the bed rock of our being, this offensive podcast should be moderated or removed, and the producers should apologize for they extremely sexist comments.
I will never stomp on your viewpoint Jack. I think you’ve made some very valid points. I don’t necessarily condone an entire society based on female supremacy cause that would probably go about as well as our present one is doing which isn’t that great. I think many men and boys have not been taught to properly respect not just females but others in general. Do I think that needs to change? Damn right it does. Men get in to more trouble due to their penis’s. You have testosterone that clouds your judgement here and there. Ask any coroner, which I realize is weird, but true none the less, all idiotic accidents are done by boys and men. Testosterone baby. That said there are just as many screwed up women out there they just aren’t quite as reckless as men are. You’re correct in that there needs to be a balance.
However I will add that by saying that I should remove the podcast and apologize for either my views or my guests views is just crazy. Now who’s coming down on our right to have our say on any subject we want to. We live in a free society, somewhat, and to say that your view is the only and right view isn’t right either. I’ll never remove or apologize for anything that is said on here or on the show. These are opinions by people who have the right to have them and air them. Just like you did here. Otherwise we might as well have just let Germany take over in WW2.
“I think many men and boys have not been taught to properly respect not just females but others in general. Do I think that needs to change? Damn right it does.”
Agreed, Dr Sue. I can’t argue with that. Young males, particularly teenagers, are probably the most disrespectful group of people on the planet. They are also much more likely to get into trouble. I’m all for better discipline and education of boys. I’m not sure if it’s in their nature, parenting, or social expectations – probably all three and then some – but it does seem to present a problem unique to this group. As far as that point goes, we are agreed. Teaching discipline and respect is different from teaching deference and subordination though. Maybe a return to gentlemanly manners is in order?
A return to etiquette and manners would be an amazing start. And quite frankly that goes for little ladies as well. Kids have lost respect for everything including themselves. I like the old Southern values, “Yes Ma’am”, “Yes Sir”. So where I think the difference comes in is that to return to some semblance of decent manners we DO need to go back to subordination. We’ve gone way too far with kids rights, and yes that’s a whole other blog post, maybe not the hardcore ‘I rule, you suck’ stuff but they need to be reigned in. BIG TIME!
You mean subordination to authority figures. Sure. I was talking about the subordination of boys to girls as has already been discussed in this thread.. Authority implies subordination of someone doesn’t it? I’m just saying authority must be exercised with caution.
Dr. Sue,
Thank you for discussing this subject. I completely agree with your viewpoint, and your comments are fair and balanced. I also enjoyed your radio blog on the subject last night.
Michelle
I am going to have to be really careful how I word this and just like you this is purely MY OPINION.
I do not belief that ALL women are automatically superior to men simply based on their accident of gender birth. Sadly there are many women out there who depict just as much poor judgement in behavior, understanding, wisdom, priority in their life etc. as men do. I do not view the drug addicted, homeless woman who got there not by a cruel twist of fate, but her own stupidity superior to a hard working male who takes care of his family. On that note I disagree.
I do however belief that emotionally, genetically, and often mentally we are superior to a large majority of the male population. We have in our DNA itself tools to advance community structures, empathy, understanding and patience which is often not found within men. Even as the times are changing where more and more women have already taken the role of the masculine – as in providers, protectors, etc… and more and more men have become less masculine and more feminized daily (not in the sissy fetish aspect either, but more sissy, feminine looking, behaving etc) and really do NOW NEED the strong and wise lead of a woman who can structure their life for their own benefit, it is becoming apparent, that the age of males “ruling” is slowly coming to an end.
Women (with exceptions of course) are rarely lead by their private bits. Women (not girls who are still easily impressed) are also less likely to follow blindly a male just because he is attractive or good looking. We seek other attributes simply by our nature. With an eye to the future and yes security.
I am what you would consider a Me-Supremacist and with a strong belief that IF the Lady in question has a good head on her shoulder, is wise in her decision making, does advance herself and knows how to lead with love, empathy and the required strictness it takes to make it work, she is MOST DEFINITELY SUPERIOR TO MOST MAN OUT THERE.
At this point, looking at the various women who are representing our gender – especially online with cattiness and thoughtlessness, I do not think the time is near yet, where we will become solidly the leaders. A lot more maturing or should I say a reemergence of maturity has to happen.
Women as far back as 20,000 BCE were worshiped for their superior qualities and feminine mysteries. Over the many centuries and many false turns in historical changes those have been taken out of our Sisters, but the world is waking up again. If we, as those of us who stand as “living Goddesses” and Superior Ladies teach our daughters (biologically or generational) what those terms mean and what they stand for, than the reemergence of the true female superiority will happen.
The world would be a better place for it when the time comes. In the meantime, it is up to those of us who understand what this means and that it is not about hating men, bashing them, or otherwise trying to gainsay them as losers, will have to take the lead strongly, empathetically and firmly, to bring in the Age of a female lead age without causing more damage to our world than necessary.
Remember everyone it took ages to screw things up, to retrain the mind of humanity, it will take a long time to assure that the thought once more not only becomes comfortable but will feel natural to those opposing it.
Dr Sue, I would like to thank you for writing the article above, and for the most part, I do agree with you. As the Female gender continues to rise, and the male gender increasingly takes on a support role, I think the concept of Female Supremacy will become clear to most people. I also agree that Women need to stop bashing each other for their individual leadership styles, and become more cohesive.
I do agree that males need to have some training at an early age, on the modern realities and proper attitudes towards Women. As your gender assumes the leadership role, I do feel it will be in our best interest to have clear instructions on what our new role will be and what will be expected of us. It will be important for us as males to not feel that we have been defeated in the war of the sexes, rather that we have been liberated from our unnatural leadership role, as we take on our support role. Thank You, Gary
I respect the opinions expressed here, both for and against Female Supremacy. I love the dominant female who keeps me on my toes and doesn’t let me stray. I also believe that there is a God who oversees everything. Female Supremacists would say God is a woman. I really don’t care as long as God loves me. If a woman loves me and cares about me as a person, then being submissive to my lady is a good thing. A woman gave birth to me, so I feel that I owe women all the respect. A lot of men are confused about Female Supremacy. They think females want to take over the planet and enslave them. I my opinion, females become stronger and more powerful everyday. As long as they use their power responsibly, then let them go for it. Men have failed miserably and millions of lives have been destroyed because of it.
To put it simply, female supremacy for me is a state of mind where I believe that women are capable of great things and that I feel empowered by helping them to achieve the best that they can be; it’s much more detailed than that, but that’s good enough for the present discussion. It doesn’t mean having to change the present dichotomy and have women in the place that men are right now; that’s great for fantasy femdom stuff, but neither practical nor acceptable in my opinion. However, I do believe that from an anthropological sense, there is justification to shed some of this imagery so that there is a place for men to be proud of the women around them when they have achieved a higher state than the present one that men seem so inclined to want to give them. Yeah, there are lots of nit-picky arguments that can be played around with this, but I think that in a context of making fem supremacy work, it has to be grounded in something that is possible rather than in the extremes that go completely off the deep end.
I agree completely that women are superior and that all men should dedicate our lives to the service of women. Scientific evidence indicates that the female, with matching X chromosomes, is genetically and biologically superior to the male. This could help explain the mystery of the superior longevity of women. The intellectually superior female is outperforming the male in education, a fact which will have a dramatic influence on the empowerment of women in future generations.
I totally agree with you about training boys at a very young age. I wish the public schools would have socialized boys about this 30 years age.There would be way way less domestic violence against gilrs and women if that happened.
Should we teach young females also about the changing gender rolls so as to build up their self esteem and prepare them to be future leaders . Most of the young females in my swim class are totally aware that they are smarter than boys their age(7-12 years old) but what else can we d for them?
Female Supremaists are just mindless disobeyed women who ran out of the kitchen and whine about how they are oppressed all the time but they forget it’s men who do all hard works.
Before you profess to represent men and disparage women, learn to fucking spell you moron. You have just proven any point I’ve made. It’s guys like you who prove me right to Pat. LOL! SMH
I never said there aren’t morons in the male gender, Dr Sue. Ladies the world over have my sympathy for having to put up with them. However, if we’re using typos and grammatical errors as the bar you should read Kim D’s message a little closer. There may be a female moron lurking too.
Well, there IS indeed a point – history allegedly has proven that male leadership doesn’t work, yet it is pure speculation to assume under female leadership we would NOT still sit on trees. Yes, millions died. And millions survived, who’d have otherwise died, without medicine, without technology. You can build atomic bombs and you can build nuclear reactors, two sides of the same coin.
Men built a civilization that now gives even the weakest in society a chance. Men built a world in which women don’t have to be pregnant all the time anymore in order to ensure survival because the offspring dies like flies, men built technology that enables women to take on convenient office jobs. This “failed history of mankind” brought you all to where you are today.
Not that we men would have expected anything different. We are used to the nagging of the fairer sex, the baseless complaints, the hilarious accusations.
Unfortunately, those rather unpleasant – though often entertaining – traits are all that remains in many modern women, your appeal is sinking like your birth rates. In the end, it seems it will be the more “natural” societies which will inherit the earth, those with women who just outbreed us (or you, regarding the growing amount of single moms). Alas, it may give you a chance, in a thousand years, to grasp again for power in the ruins, in the jungle, to install a matriarchy and prove that you indeed are able to write a better history. Which will begin, I am sure, with complaints. (E.g. about a rape culture that, for once, deserves its name.)