Remember when the question of real or fake was usually associated with a woman’s tits? Normally I wouldn’t bother with this bull but someone this week accused me of pretending to be popular sex educator Sue Johanson. Now if I have to be tossed in to the ranks I think that the ladies I’m about to show you are pretty damn good company. However, I take offense to her saying “I’m putting myself out there and pretending to be Sue Johanson,” of which I have NEVER done, nor would I. But for those of you idiots who jump before actually gathering facts, which, let’s face it, is pretty much everyone especially in our community, I’ll break this all down for you and put it all in one place. Let the window licking commence (yes I’m bitter, my world, my rules).
Sue Johanson
I have been listening to Sue since she first started on Q107 in Toronto back in the late 70’s. She’s a ballsy, straight from the hip lady who tells it like it is, doesn’t mince words and doesn’t run from a question. She has never called herself Dr. Sue, ever as a matter of fact she will correct you if you say that to her. Her genre is primarily vanilla sex. You can visit Sue’s website by clicking on her name or image.
Dr Susan Block
Suzy is a wonderful woman who has been teaching folks to relax and enjoy their sexuality and leads by example. She embraces her own sexuality and her entire aura is one of a very sexually free female, which in my opinion is refreshing. And what’s not to love about her hats!! Dr Suzy’s genre crosses all lines. You can visit Suzy’s website by clicking on her name or image.
And me! Dr Sue
See? I’m not those ladies, nor am I Dr Ruth, Dominatrix Greedy Goddess Sue or any other person you may have swimming around in your petty little heads. The difference? I specialize in primarily Fetish, Kink & BDSM. I do not have a doctorate but have never said I did, the Dr was a moniker given to me years ago because of all the help I gave to patients of local doctors. I hold many degrees including psychology and what you get with me is EXPERIENCE. I am a former Pro-Domme, yes back before most of you ladies were even teething and I was doing FinDom when most of you thought it was a shark fetish (I’m old, there, I said it let’s move on shall we? yawn!), followed by vanilla life for a while, then sex shop owner, alternative dating magazine founder and editor, couples therapist, and yes ONLINE Therapist, ONLINE Domme, author and radio show host. I’m also a real-life cuckoldress. I’ve lived what I talk about, what I haven’t lived I certainly have been exposed to and understand on many levels, more so than most therapists, with the exception of the ladies above.
So for those of you morons who spend your time looking for ways to ‘expose’ Dommes or accuse others of things without gathering the facts first, do everyone a favor and find something better to do with your time, like, how about go make some money? You know, run your business and stop throwing out senseless accusations.
And for those of you who are about to go screaming off saying that I’m being a hypocrite because I’ve gone off on people before, yes I will admit doing it but only if you push. If you drag me in to your crap OR go off on a friend of mine for no reason be prepared to hear what you don’t want to hear. I will tell you precisely what I think of you, no regrets on my behalf. I own it!
Long story short, if you have a problem with me, email me. I have several websites and here I’ll make it easy for you:
inbedwithdrsue.com
evildrsue.com
All my sites have contact pages. I am the only one who gets your emails. I get a lot so bear with me but I will respond. My entire point of both this website and inbedwithdrsue.com and the show is to educate, uplift and get people to open their minds to new possibilities and if nothing else maybe the exposure to new and different things will teach you to live and let live. This kind of nonsense just pisses me off and makes me wonder, why bother? My message has been sidetracked by vicious women to the point where I will say that I am now kicking Female Supremacy to the curb. I get it, I’ll defend your right to be that way, but I cannot now, nor will I ever be able to say that ALL WOMEN are better than men. Because in my heart I know that’s not right, and I am constantly shown that it’s not right by disgusting behavior. You don’t have to love me, but shut up and move on.
I’m real. I’m not Sue Johanson or anyone else. Case closed.
So, in other words. You’re not the real Dr. Sue. Thanks for clarifying. I’m going to call my website, Afternoons with Dr. Phil. Why not? My comment was blocked on my first try, hmmm, I think someone agrees that having the same title and name as someone more famous is messed up.
Your comment wasn’t blocked and I make it quite clear who I am. If you find that offensive then that’s your issue not mine. If you were as savvy as you seem to feel you are you would know that Sue Johanson has NEVER called herself Dr. Sue. Read my bio. Read anything you want about me and you’ll see I’ve never claimed to be anyone other than myself.
So, in other words. You’re not the real Dr. Sue. Thanks for clarifying. I’m going to call my website, Afternoons with Dr. Phil. Why not?
I must admit, when I first heard of your talk show “In Bed with Dr Sue”, the first person to pop into My head was Sue Johanson. lol I loved her show, so if anything, My confusion was a good thing. The way she said “penis” always made Me giggle.
Like you mentioned, you’re definitely in good company if that is who people may mistake you for.
I haven’t been able to catch many of your shows live, but I have listened to a lot of the recordings.
Everything you talk about is extremely informative for those that are curious about the world of fetish and BDSM and more often than not, very entertaining as well.
Who cares who you are or aren’t..it’s what you have to say that matters. Don’t let those that are jealous of your knowledge and success get you down. 🙂
Hi, Dr. Sue
someone I follow sent a few Tweets like that. Maybe this article, in part, is a reaction to that?
She has some strong opinions.
I reviewed my Twitter comments & they seemed reasonable. Thought I straightened things out a bit.
I have a lot of respect for you and would never want to aggravate you.
Goodpett
Would never happen Mark. You came in at the tail end of it. She certainly had a bee in her bonnet. You did absolutely nothing wrong. 🙂
You, my dear, are a very well-spoken woman with lots of experience in the field. As a result, many women look up to you and it doesn’t matter if they are a full-blown dominatrix or a vanilla housewife looking to please and get respect from her husband.
I am of the old school belief that the man runs the household, but at the same time, I have always had a man that supported every decision I ever made, whether I was bringing home some bacon or just cooking it up for the family. He may not have supported every decision automatically, but he heard my explanations every time, and always said “It’s up to you baby.” Now, what I always hear in regards to this; “Why would you even ask his input? You are a grown woman. You can get naked on cam if you want to.” Really? I think that is what is wrong with relationships today; a female thinking that she can do whatever she wishes without at least first running it by her partner. It’s ridiculous! It’s possible that women are superior; or were, but behavior like that is childish which pulls your superior woman card, just saying.
It pisses me off when women of the supreme movement decide to cut me down or presume to tell me why I shouldn’t believe the way I do. I have nothing what-so-ever to say about anyone’s beliefs, practices, or standards; why should they worry about mine?
Well said Natalie!! You don’t have to be a bitch to be powerful and respected and putting other women down for what they believe in or hell, anything makes that female look ridiculous. There are a lot of subs out there who are realizing that the Female Supremacy thing isn’t really working in many cases. Live and let live, or STFU!
…or at least show some shred of class! It doesn’t matter if you are a vanilla woman in the world, a vanilla cam girl (myself), or a dominatrix of one, any, or all of the Dom categories! Class in general will get you far in this world. I have noticed just plain class, respect for fellow human beings, and human decency slowly circling the proverbial toilet bowl for at least 10 years now. What’s the purpose of instilling fear in a sub? They came to follow you out of desire in the first place, if they don’t respect you enough to do as you ask; they shouldn’t be there because they aren’t a true sub that respects their Dom. Don’t turn into a demanding, vindictive, forceful bitch to get your way (unless they ask you to I guess :P).
Great article Goddess 🙂 I hope now these idiots will shut up and move on 🙂 I know who Dr. Sue is 😉 A Great Lady, great friend and Nicest person 🙂 haters just fuck off 🙂
Thank you Vas!