I know it’s probably hard for many of you to call your favorite phone sex operator/online dominatrix because of your isolation with family. And that can leave you feeling anxious and in some cases claustrophobic and climbing the walls. These are unprecedented and frightening times for everyone.
But there are ways you can still stay connected with your favorite ladies and gents.
- Buying their clips and audios – this is a fantastic way for you to continue to support your favorite performers when their calls are slow. Plus it allows you to view or listen to their content at your leisure when the family has gone to bed or perhaps when you’re sitting outside in your yard enjoying the nice weather. Some performers have even discounted their content so you can enjoy it at a lower rate, since some of you are cash strapped.
- Making time to talk despite your restrictions – This can actually be a very fun way to connect. Having to sneak away to a closet to talk has that naughty taboo feel to it. This is perfect for you boys who love not only a challenge but the idea of ‘getting caught.’
- Tributes – for those of you who can do this, it’s another great way to support your favorite ladies. Try to remember, they are hurting right now too for the very reasons some of you are. Isolation and a downturn in income is making life for many sex workers much harder right now. So every little bit helps.
I hear some men complaining that we should be offering our services for free right now and actually this is a common complaint even when we’re not in the midst of a pandemic.
To the gentlemen who feel we should work for free, and if we don’t it makes us, ‘not real,’ let me ask you this…
Would you work for free?
The men and women in sex work, regardless of its form; phone sex, online domination, cam, or escorts all have to put a roof over the heads of their families and food on the table the same as you. To ask them to work for free is insulting. And to say that phone sex operators are NOT REAL because they won’t work for free is ridiculous. If you want free phone sex then get a girlfriend. But I can assure you that every single woman you speak with is REAL, with real needs, issues and fears the same as you.
I want to take this time to say thank you to the gentlemen ‘out there’ who are continuing to support their favorite phone sex operator, cam, porn star or online domme. I also want to thank the multitude of essential service workers who are still on the job keeping everything in our lives running as best as they can. Medical staff, grocery clerks, couriers and postal workers, IT techs, factory workers and so many more are all tirelessly working to keep our lives as normal as possible right now and we thank you for this from the bottom of our hearts. And I ask that the next time you are in the grocery store say THANK YOU to the workers there. Say THANK YOU to the folks who are supplying your fast food and delivery (not an essential service I might add and they are putting their lives on the line so you can get a coffee, keep that in mind).
THANK YOU to those of you who are taking this seriously and self-isolating. It’s the idiots of this world who are spreading this virus. Those who think it’s a joke, fake news and refuse to self-isolate put everyone else’s lives in danger. THANK YOU to those of you who are self-quarantining as soon as you get off a plane or have been exposed to the virus.
For anyone reading this who has been exposed to the virus we wish you nothing but good health and a speedy recovery.
Know that the women and men who work in the sex industry are here to help you through the stress and anxiety you’re feeling. Phone sex, purchasing content and paying for porn from your favorite provider is a safe and fun way to deal with this situation. And we’ll continue be here as long as you support us.
Stay safe by staying away and use common sense and we’ll all get through this much faster.