For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first. Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard for the female.
Many men when you bring this subject up freak out. Again it’s mostly due to preconceived notions that aren’t even 
true. First of all sucking on another male does NOT make you gay. That seems to be the biggest thing stuck in a subs mind. A true submissive person, and I won’t denote gender here because it works both for males and females, its submissive period. It has nothing to do with, ‘I’m only submissive to women,’ if you’re submissive, you’re submissive and it shouldn’t make a damn bit of difference who you’re submitting to, it’s the act of submitting that is erotic. Why I say a ‘true submissive person’ is to point out that there are a lot of people who sit on the fence or are only submissive when it’s convenient for them.
The thing is, once a male fluffs for the first time they understand that it is empowering on so many levels. First of all you have the privilege of preparing the alpha/bull to satisfy your female. It’s your job to see to it that he’s good and hard and horny enough to really ravage her. Another empowering point is that you start to realize that you are solely responsible for the alpha/bull’s pleasure at that moment. Realizing that it’s your mouth that is having an effect on him is intoxicating.
If you are lucky enough to be allowed to insert the alpha/bull’s penis in to your partner you also have control over his initial thrust. In other words, if he is a new alpha/bull and is quite large say 9 to 10 inches and you feel that he might get over zealous and possibly hurt your partner you can grab a hold of the alpha/bull at the base of the penis with your hole hand thereby limiting his ability to thrust all the way inside until your partner is accustomed to his size.
So you see if you can put your fears aside you can easily understand how fluffing is in fact a natural part of cuckolding. Does it mean you have to fluff? No. That’s up to you and your partner. But don’t be afraid or hesitant of fluffing until you’ve tried it at least once.
For me is a privilege sucking my wife’s lover cock and he is very pleased of my submission and he is the only one who fuck my wife.
This idea turns me on so much … I’m a caged cuck but my wife doesn’t like the idea of me sucking another mans cock . Any ideas how to get her onboard ?
No. Why? Because your wife married a man not a woman. She’s not a lesbian. Very few wives ever think seeing their husband suck a dick is hot. If you do this, you run a very high risk of her walking out on you. Stop trying to top from the bottom and be fucking happy with the lifestyle you have. There are tons of men who would LOVE to be where you are without the dick sucking. So for once in your life, get it through your head that this is not about YOU, IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOUR WIFE WANTS!!!!! Now sit down, shut up and do what she says. Smile and be grateful you get what you get.
i am a widower and 65 all this sound absolutely horrifying. That is gay to do that and i see everyone wants to cloak into into being a submissive but that does not work. Once a man does that he is on the road to being either bi or gay,. I would rather jump out into moving traffic that do that
You know Lou. For someone who is so horrified by what other consenting adults do behind closed doors and has absolutely nothing to do with you, you certainly spend an inordinant amount of time on my website. It doesn’t take a psych degree to see what your real issue is. As long as no one is asking YOU to suck their dick, and I’m sure they wouldn’t, you shouldn’t even care what goes on elsewhere.
Damn. Who’s going to fluff us if not for Lou? Terrible loss for the community.
Lmmfao!!
i really don’t mind her cuckolding but i draw the line on that is all. nothing wrong with how i feel, at 66 i am ik with the significant other enjoying herself and she sure doesn’t need me to do that
I’m all about the woman’s pleasure, and I think part of their pleasure is their visual enjoyment of watching me bring a man to a full erection with my mouth. I really make love to the cock, getting it as big and hard as possible.
I think it also reassures and empowers the man, they knowing I am fully aware and approve of what we are all doing, A man doesn’t take another man’s cock in his mouth unless he wants to. At that point, you have made a contract between his cock and your wife’s pussy.
I also enjoy the task of licking both clean, and sucking him hard again so they can fuck more. It makes my cock hard watching them enjoy each other. Occasionally I’m granted the pleasure of being allowed to fully suck a cock to completion, which I greatly enjoy.
This is usually at the breakfast table, with me underneath the table doing my task as my wife cooks breakfast and serves the man his food. Sometimes when he lingers over the food and coffee, I’m able to suck him off twice.
Dang, now I want to suck someone off!
It is a powerful psychological and physical sensation to feel a flaccid penis become erect and hard in your mouth and know that you are responsible for his arousal. Women know this joy and it’s a shame that men deny themselves this pleasure. Yes, Dr Sue it is intoxicating!
Fluffing makes the date more enjoyable for everyone involved. The bull gets to enjoy his mate and dominate her partner, the lady gets to enjoy her bull and the intimate efforts of her partner, and the cuckold gets to make the date as enjoyable as he can for the two lovebirds lusting after each other. As far as I can see, that is a win-win-win scenario.
I never knew it was called fluffing, but I have always found the use of a submissive to get the ball rolling so to speak for both parties is insanely erotic. I think more need to see the action in the manner you presented. Maybe they would be less judgmental.
I don’t think that it is a gay problem. I just think that men just don’t like doing this because they feel it is unnatural. I personally am only submissive to women. That is the way I like because it’s my preference. I don’t find it a turn on to sexually submit to a male. If you are a female supremacist, then why are you asking me to submit to a male?
i’d love to be a flufferboi
Fascinating and oh-so-true!