Alpha Male – Beta Male

I get asked a lot about the difference between an alpha male (also known as a master, bull, dominant male, daddy, or real man among many other terms), and a beta male (also referred to as the sub male, slave, bitch, or loser).  There are a million terms to describe either one and yet there’s still some confusion about their place in BDSM or cuckolding, why I don’t know, it seems very clear to me.

Alpha males are the seed spreaders, their primary reason for living is to spread as much of their dominant seed as possible.  This goes back to evolution when it really was survival of the fittest just like in the animal kingdom.  Alpha males are usually built as such; tall, broad shouldered, large penises, and usually very handsome with defined bone structure.  They are cocky and confident.  They know when they enter the room they can do or have anyone there.  The downside to alpha males is that they’re too cocky, arrogant, and tend to clash with dominant females.  This is precisely the reason why dominant women only fuck alpha males and then kick them to the curb. A dominant woman living with an alpha male can get very ugly and rarely works.  That’s why dominant women would rather be with the submissive male except for sex.

Most real alpha males suck at making money because they’re too distracted by their penises and their own sense of importance to bother. Besides, why should they when the beta’s are there to do the work for them?  Alpha’s are con-artists and usually have a flock of beta’s in some way doing all the grunt work while they take the glory.

Beta males are the worker bees of the world.  I liken it to bees because it’s very similar in structure as a hive. Beta or submissive males are the ones working the hive, gathering the pollen, keeping the hive tidy for the Queen, kicking out intruders. They tend to look submissive, wimpy and usually have small penises although there are exceptions to every rule.  Whereas the drones’ only purpose is to fertilize the eggs laid by the Queen to ensure the hives colony is always strong.  Granted this is a very glossed over version of bee colonies but you get the idea.

Now understand this has nothing to do with the work world.  I’m talking relationships here.  There are a lot of who I like to call ‘soldier bees’ out there who disguise themselves as alphas throughout the day because they need to be alpha to succeed in business. These are your corporate heads, your CEO’s and CFO’s who spend the day making huge, very important decisions and then when they get home at night fall to their knees and are more than happy to let their Mistress take over the controls.  These boys are also the ones who usually fall in to the abyss of financial domination because they have the money to burn and are usually married to submissive women for some sad reason.

As I’ve said before, the absolute worst is the beta male who thinks he’s alpha.  My clients will remember this as I’ve said many times, no matter how alpha or GTL or Guido or Clooney you ‘think’ you are, at some point you’re going to have to drop your drawers and then it’s GAME OVER.  (Sideline: for those of you like me, who got sucked in to the train wreck TV program Jersey Shore, I’d liken this type of beta male to ‘The Situation’ I swear he’s the only one who doesn’t realize he’s a bitch).

An extreme example of problems that can occur with these imposter alpha’s, are these guys who end up beating on their submissive women.  They’re so busy trying to be something they’re not, trying to prove themselves to no one because most people could care less, that they get so frustrated and freaked out about their submissive, insecure thoughts that they subsequently take it out on their submissive women.  For these idiots I have 2 things to say; there’s a dungeon with your name on it and a whole heap of dominant women who’d love to have you for dinner (literally), and grow up and quit trying to control something you can’t control.  No matter how often you look in the mirror as a dog and say, ‘I’m a cat, I’m a cat, I’m a cat’ it’s never going to make you a cat.  So on behalf of women everywhere, for the love of god please stop trying to be something you can never be.  Just accept who you are, there’s way more beta males than there are alpha males and real women want you more anyway.

Be proud, be BETA!