Sean writes: “I am curious to know about a situation I am in with a financial domination Mistress. I found this person online and she has a pretty serious website and business geared to findom, and she often exposes many men who stop contacting with her, disobey her rules or no longer pay up in…
I get accused of hating men on a frequent basis and I understand how from an outsider point-of-view dominant women look as though they are man haters but in reality that’s not even close to being true. I have to admit that over the years I’ve become more feminist-like. I would never call myself a…
Being sexually submissive can often be a confusing road to travel. For many of you, men and women alike, submission can even become disappointing when you’re trying to navigate the world of domination because it can feel like you’re doing it all wrong based on the different reactions you get. Because you get so much…
After being involved in many different aspects of the sex industry over the years, from my former pro-domme work, to owning a sex shop (without viewing booths, ewww) and then, the since the dawn of the internet the online sex industry as an online domme and now therapist, you notice trends. And one of those…
D wrote to me about his feelings, fantasies and confusion surrounding sucking his best friend’s cock. And surprisingly I get A LOT of emails asking about this which is why I chose to address it here instead of just returning his email. The idea of wanting to suck your best friend’s cock originates from your…
A married husband of 12 years emailed me recently with an issue he found himself facing. In order to spice up their bedroom play they started to play with toys. They began with the basics, light bondage, vibrators and a blindfold and as he stated, they were having a “blast,” the toys adding to their…