How to Tell Your Wife You’re Interesting in Cuckolding Pt3

Well gentlemen if everything has been going right you should be having some serious fun.  Let’s quickly re-cap what you’ve been able to accomplish so far:

• You should have built up her self-esteem by making her your Queen and thus your sex life should be improving.
• You’ve placed her in positions of power in the bedroom to let her see that domination isn’t scary.
• You’ve introduced not just sex toys but a dildo in particular that is larger than you and you’ve hopefully named it.

By now you should be seeing glimpses of her coming around to the idea of having sex with other men.  You may find that she is asking for ‘Bob’ the dildo more.  She may be starting to give you assignments for things that need doing around the house.  You may even see her starting to dress a little sexier or if she was unhappy about her appearance before you might notice her making some changes to whatever it was that bugged her; her weight, her hair or her skin.

If she’s really enthusiastic you can NOW introduce cuckolding to her. You can tell her it’s a ‘thing.’  Most women don’t know what cuckolding is and have never heard of it.  You let her know that A LOT of women are doing it but that it’s just not being talked about openly.  You tell her to go online and start researching and with any luck at all she’ll now take the reins.

Now the fun you’ve been waiting for begins. You can start looking for bulls together. Some people go online – my suggestion is to hit up swing sites as you’ll find many single guys there looking to play with couples.  You simply let them know it’s not a swing situation and they get it.

If you and your wife want to go down the road of interracial sex then my suggestion is to go to DarkCavern.com which is where many couples go to find men of color to satisfy their wives.  It is primarily cuckolding so you won’t have to explain anything on that site.

After that the sky is the limit. You can play as hardcore or as softcore as you want. You can have multiple play partners for her or just have one. It’s all up to you and what works for the two of you.  And that really is the key to making this work.  Read up online about what other couples are doing and if it works for you then institute it, if it seems weird or too hardcore just don’t add that to your repertoire.  The most important thing to remember is that there are no rules.  You’ll read all sorts of information online that says it’s only cuckolding if you do this or that but don’t buy in to it.  This is about what works for you and your wife and your relationship, not about what everyone else is doing so don’t get too excited if you see something that looks like it’s crazy.  Just move on to the next idea.

If you’ve done everything I’ve told you to do but haven’t had any success in pulling her in to the ‘game,’ it’s possible it’s because she really doesn’t want to go down cuckold lane.  You see boys, you have to be willing to go as far as she’ll allow.  If you only get her to play with ‘Bob,’ or dominate you a little in the bedroom isn’t that better than where you were before?  You have to be willing to go only as far as she wants to go with no pressure.

For some women the idea of having sex with another man other than the one she’s in a relationship with is abhorrent.  It goes against who they are as people.  That is something you cannot and should not try to change.

So hopefully this series has helped you move more in the direction of where you want to go with your relationship.  If you run in to stumbling blocks, and you will, that’s what I’m here for.  Just contact me and I’m happy to help you out!