Those that know me know that I’m not a huge feminist. I understand the concept of Female Supremacy and I believe in that concept but when you try to put it into a practical setting it doesn’t work. I do however believe that men have been the biggest problem when it comes to well…pretty much everything wrong with the world. I don’t hate men but you guys really have screwed up bad for centuries.
Every time women find something that they can uniquely call their own a man comes in, claims it and completely ruins the original idea that was fine to begin with. And this is exactly what’s happening within the cuckold community. But I will also add that, ladies, you are dropping the ball.
The internet is both a blessing and curse to humanity. It’s a huge library full of wonderful information…once you weed out all the crap. The problem is most human beings loathe the idea of actually doing research. Instead they jump on the first thing they see and latch on to it as if it was gospel truth and usually it isn’t even close.
Most of what you read about cuckolding on the internet is garbage. It’s distorted because of men. Take the term ‘hot wife’ for example. That term came from the early internet when men (and yes this still goes on) would go into chatrooms and get into circle jerks sharing pictures of their wives with each other. It was an early form of online cuckolding. Other guys telling them how hot their wife was and how they were going to sexually destroy them. The sad part of this behavior is that the wives are completely unaware that their pictures are being shared – female exploitation at its finest.
Cuckolding is starting to bleed in to the mainstream. Media outlets are now devoting articles to this ‘new’ type of relationship – usually disparaging the women as being highly over sexed or having some sort of mental issue. Let’s not forget that this type of behavior is considered virile when a man is doing it but the minute women decide they want a piece of the action we’re nuts or whores. Dilution and distortion are what happens when something that is considered on the fringe of societal norm starts to leak into the mainstream. Combine that with a heap of really bad information and you get complications. Big ones.
One of those complications is the roll of the bull in cuckolding. Once again I’m going to reiterate what cuckolding is, it’s a FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP, wherein the woman has sex with other men with the consent of her partner. The lovers or ‘bulls’ are NOT there to replace the partner.
But of course because men have to control everything and can’t let women have something that is uniquely their own besides their vaginas, cuckolding is starting to unravel and become about the bull.
I did an In Bed with Dr Sue show recently on extreme cuckolding with just two of the crazy stories that are brought to me on a daily basis of how very wrong things can go if the basic principles of cuckolding aren’t upheld.
I was always the first person to say that there were no rules in cuckolding but unfortunately I now can’t say that. I have to qualify it when I’m discussing it with couples. And the basic rules are what I laid out earlier. Everything else is like a buffet you try something and see what works for you and what doesn’t. But cuckolding has never been about the bull or even the cuckold for that matter. It’s about the woman. Her wants, her needs and the fact that it turns her partner on is just more icing on the cake. It isn’t about insatiable women and it’s not about breaking up a relationship. Only now it is.
There is a new and quite disturbing trend that has taken hold within the cuckold community – professional bulls. They are there to take over the marriage, to break these submissive husbands to their lowest common denominator and make the wives their bitches. They keep score on how many marriages they ruin and talk about it as if it’s a badge of honor. Even to the point of keeping score of how many marriages they’ve destroyed.
They adore making the woman a whore passing her around to their ‘alpha’ friends all while doing despicable things to her partner. These ‘professional bulls’ break the husband in front of the wife in order to have her look at him as garbage. This makes the female more dependent on the bull. It’s taken their original motto of, “I can really destroy your wife sexually,” to a whole new meaning. Once the marriage is broken they move on. These are just a couple of the stunts with these bulls. Some are even more disturbing and dangerous.
Here is where I say that the ladies are dropping the ball. It is IMPERATIVE that you be in control of the situation BECAUSE your partner is submissive. When your husband drops in to that submissive space he will literally do ANYTHING that he’s told. He will agree to things he normally wouldn’t. Someone has to be the leader and it should NEVER be the bull. If you aren’t in control of what’s happening you will lose your relationship or worse.
And ladies? If you think that you’re going to run off with your bull. [I wish you could see me laughing right now] Every…single…woman who has run off with her bull has found herself alone, miserable, used and wishing she had never participated in the first place.
True alpha males are not meant to be tied down. Even if they delude themselves into thinking they can be in a long-term relationship they end up cheating on their wives. Being faithful isn’t part of their experience. Spreading seed is. So thinking that your man-beast is going to run off with you and you’ll live happily ever after is absurd.
This is just another example of women trying to assert themselves and men having to shut it down or make it their way. But at the same time ladies, when you’re given an opportunity you have to step up to the plate and take charge, not let some male who has nothing to do with your life, other than sexually satisfying you, walk in and take over.
It doesn’t mean you can’t be sexually submissive while the guy is in your bedroom. That is, after all, the whole point – you getting ravished because your husband doesn’t have that capability. You don’t have to make excuses for being the minx you want to be in bed but you do have to snap out of it the minute he’s done.
Cuckolding can be and is a great way to spice up your relationship if you do it using common sense. Unfortunately we don’t all have common sense and if we do it can be thrown out the window when we’re aroused that’s why the woman’s role as SUPREME LEADER is so important.
So if you hear the words, “I’m a professional bull,” keep walking because you could actually be part of a sport and not realize you’re the prey.
I’ve been a BBC porn fan & dipped in & out of the IR sex scene for many years & think we’ve been slowly heading toward this particular point for quite a while.
However, with the likes of glossy, high end IR sites liked Blacked catapulting BBC porn right into the mainstream in recent years, I’ve seen an absolutely massive explosion of interest in the BBC genre, particularly from women. With many seemingly tempted to take a dabble & try & get a bit of that glamorous Hollywood style action they see on screen.
Unfortunately, like most white guys, many white women who like to think of themselves as capable Alphas, because they are in control of their own little realms. Rapidly find themselves out of their depth in the hyper masculine BBC world.
I’ve seen plenty of girls & women who’ve said ‘there’s NO way this guy’s going to turn me into his bitch’. Ending up as just another ride on the BBC circuit.
By its very nature the IR Big Black Cock scene is dominated by & revolves around hung black Alpha guys. The number of Alpha females in the pool, who might possibly keep things in check, has also been massively diluted by this flood of eager, naive, new BLACKED wannabes.
And, I think we can safely say, the masses of white beta males out there dribbling over BBC, are regarded as nothing more than useful tools or playthings by these guys. Bottom of the food chain dwellers, who can be safely ignored or used.
And of course, the huge influence & effect IR porn has had on white society in recent years has not gone unnoticed. A couple of the BBC bulls I speak to, have indicated that they too are slowly slipping into increasingly Professional Bull type tendencies, because they feel the chains are now totally off. They can do what they like & no one’s going to stop them. In fact, the worse their reputation & notoriety, the more interest & followers & sex they are getting. Beta whites literally like moths to the BBC flame.
Indeed, beneath it’s thin veneer of civility, society itself seems to be far more ruthless & unforgiving than ever before. Is the rise of the Professional Bull a symptom of that? I don’t know. What I do know thought, is that if you’re into the whole BBC thing, these guys are probably going to be the face of a very much more mercenary & hardcore future.
I could be wrong or overstating the case here. I’m just saying what I see as a beta male on the scene. Your mileage may vary …
The so called bulls are just cuckolds since they share a woman just as the husband does. In most cuckold relationships the woman rules regardless if she acts submissive. The more extreme cuckold the woman will often make her husband clean and suck cock and more just to prove he accepts his role. When the bull receives oral from the husband they both become bi to the woman
That’s one way of looking at it.
In Roman Empire, a man would humiliate, dominate, and feminize another man by anally raping him and performing Irrumatio. Irrumatio is the act of giving a face or throat fucking to someone. The recipient is a passive in participation and unwilling. Most often done to man, to emasculate him in the eyes of others.
In that society, the acts of domination were considered masculine by the one control, feminine on the receiver. The unfortunate receiver of the treatment was deemed to be weak and lacking in manliness. This breaking of someone was done in front of others, including but not limited to their wives.
The professional bull believes in this type of reality. Whether he began as a willing participant or the role was forced on him, the cuck is emasculated. The act is more for the satisfaction of the bull than the cuckoldress.