You wait patiently as your wife undresses the beast of a male who’s been invited into your bedroom to fuck her. Your little dick is raging because you know she’s about to ask you to do something you would never dream of doing in any other circumstance.
You watch as she walks across the room. Your Queen, your Goddess comes to you and tells you to get on your knees. You melt to the floor at her request knowing what’s about to happen. She takes her lover’s massive cock in one hand and puts her other hand on the back of your head, looks down at you and says, “get him hard for me baby,” and knowing what your job is, you do your best to get this man ready to fuck your wife in ways you could only dream of by gobbling that super human cock.
Sound about right?
Sure it may be a different scenario but you know what I’m driving at.
For many of you gentlemen who have a craving to be cuckolded, what many times goes along with that fantasy is your drive to suck cock.
As I explained in my popular article, Does Cocksucking Make Me Gay? The reason why many of you have this desire is based on submitting to the superior cock in the room, not the man. You don’t want to date and marry the guy. That’s why I can say that your hetero status is safe. This behavior has everything to do with domination and submission and nothing to do with gay, straight, or bi. Here’s the problem though, we may know that, but we can’t expect your wife to understand the intricacies of the sexually submissive male mind. So in many cases, sucking a dick is a line in the sand that can obliterate your marriage/relationship.
I spoke with a gentleman today who blew his approach to cuckolding with his wife by spewing it at her and expecting her to not only understand it all but embrace it. Yeah that didn’t work out too well and decades (no shit) later she is no closer to cuckolding that when he barfed the idea on her. However none of this means it’s off the table for this couple and I’m hoping to work with the two of them but I did tell him one thing, DON’T TELL HER ABOUT WANTING TO SUCK DICK! This doesn’t mean he’ll never get to do it, but you can’t keep dumping these things on your spouse and expect her to just say, COOL! That happens for about 1 in 1000 couples.
It’s hard enough for an average woman who knows nothing about kink or alternative lifestyles to grasp the concept of cuckolding without taking it the wrong way, let alone you dumping that you want to suck a guy’s dick. That is a gut punch to the stomach. Why? Because your wife married who she thought was a man – an alpha man. And never did she dream of seeing her husband and father of her children with a dick in his mouth – never even crossed her mind because your wife isn’t a lesbian, she didn’t marry a bitch.
What you guys forget is that you’ve had hours and hours of porn watching and jerking to all these videos, stories, mp3s and clips. You’ve thought about this, some of you, for decades. She has no idea that you think about some big motherfucker coming in and banging the shit out of her in your fantasies every time you fuck her.
I want you to imagine for a moment what it would be like to have your husband who has portrayed himself to be an average alpha guy. (Cause let’s face it, you never put yourself out there as submissive, you can’t because you have to play ‘the game’ to get her in the first place.) She is perfectly happy with her life. Great husband, nice life, precious kids, maybe an awesome career and everything is sailing along as it always has from day one. Then one day your great husband comes to you and tells you he wants you to fuck other men for him. And not only that he also tells you that part of his kink is that he wants to suck the dick of the guy who’s going to fuck you to get him hard. But it’s all for you honey, don’t you get it?
This is where you leave her:
Her perfectly routine life gets turned upside down and she’s left wondering not only who the fuck did I marry and when did he become a fag, but what else has he been keeping from me or lying to me about all these years? All those years of developing a trusting relationship are gone. She feels like someone just pulled the rug out from under her and she’s tumbling down Alice’s rabbit hole.
You forgot that you spent years honing this kink and just expected that she was where you are in your head and she’s not even on the same planet.
And even if you are one of the lucky guys whose wife is totally cool with the idea of cuckolding you, I still don’t recommend you eagerly suck her lover’s dick in front of her. Not without talking about it first. Why? Well, because you run a very high risk of losing her in that moment. If she is able to handle you sucking cock, SHE will naturally move it in that direction. And most do.
If you’ve read my articles and have kept up with my show’s you know about the issue the cuckold community is having with bulls that are basically hunting couples for sport. What sport? Let’s See How Many Couples We Can Destroy. And if the bull has any experience he knows exactly how to do it and many times it’s in the moment the husband sucks a dick in front of his wife for the first time.
You’ll recall the story that was on one of my shows, where the bull pulled the wife over next to him. The husband was on his knees in front of the bull. The bull puts his dick in the husband’s mouth and says to the wife, “watch, as a piece of him dies.” What else dies in that moment is respect for her husband. And if it’s done in just the right harmful way, she can no longer look at her husband the same. Once she sees how weak her husband is, she starts to disconnect from him. Because not only does a piece of the husband die in that moment but a piece of her dies as well. She realizes that this was not the guy she always thought he was and she can either accept him for that or not. And many choose, not.
You guys need to stop trying to top from the bottom and allow these alternative relationships to develop naturally and at the hands of your wife. Cuckolding is about a woman taking back her sexual power and having sex on her own terms. It’s about YOU enjoying your wife being sexually fulfilled. But nothing is ever good enough for you guys. You get her to play with you but you want more. So you push for other more extreme things and you can’t understand why you’re left alone in the end.
If you’re truly submissive and want what’s best for your partner, then do what they want and stop trying to orchestrate the entire scenario. Because when you do that, you send mixed signals. You say to your partner that she’s not doing this right. Pick a side Jiminy, you can’t have it both ways. Either this is for her, done her way, or you drop it. She’s probably already doing this, ‘to make you happy,’ stop pushing her for something that if you just stfu for a while, will happen on its own.
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