A writes: Hi Dr Sue. I am a 28 year old male . I am dating my girlfriend for 9 years now. I realized early on in our relationship that I could not sexually satisfy her. My self confidence was destroyed at the age of 12 when a friend from school took his cock out…
N writes: “I’m 28 and cuckolding was something that aroused me since my early 20s. It stems from my desire for submission and humiliation which grew stronger over time. There are two things that stop me from experience either a scene like this, or a cuckold relationship. First being the fantasy vs reality part. Since…
I know I already discussed the whole are you a voyeur or are you a cuckold in another article but it bears a more in-depth discussion because I believe a lot of men are not in fact, cuckolds. I’ve noticed many men lately thinking they are cuckolds when in fact, they aren’t. They are simply…
You’ve heard me reference The Game before. No, I don’t mean a book about picking up women or a movie from the 90’s with Michael Douglas. (Although if you haven’t seen it, do so.) No I’m talking about the horrible game we push men to play when we force them to be alpha males and…
The subject of BDSM and abuse is a touchy one. Many people think BDSM is abuse, period. But that is an incorrect conclusion based on a lack of knowledge of what really happens when BDSM is practiced in a safe, sane way. Some would argue that what goes on behind closed doors between consenting adults…
D writes: I have been into findom for about 15 years, and accept it as part of what helps fill the needs I have. I also date fairly often, but they never seen to have success. I’m intelligent, reasonably good looking, but overweight. My issue is these dates are often followed the next day…