The issue of a submissive being too needy comes up way more than you’d think. No matter what type of domination is being done; pro, online, lifestyle or a combination thereof, an overly clingy sub …
Am I a Porn Addict?
Bob writes: ...i have been serving a Findom for almost going on five years now. I have been masturbating to Her clips and pics since the very beginning. Now i have did a little reading on this …
Death by Domme
Rich writes: Hello Dr. Sue maybe you have touched on this subject in one way shape or form but we know after some individuals have lost everything to there Findoms, and in some cases has i'm sure …
Kink Shaming or Common Sense?
In this world of ultra-sensitive people everyone seems afraid to speak the truth for fear of pissing off or hurting someone. The problem with this logic is that in the end we lose out on common sense; …
The Shame of Submission
So many of the gentlemen I speak with find themselves ashamed of their submissive feelings. Pesky little feeling shame is. It’s always there to kill any enjoyment we might be feeling. So let’s …
Why Do We Engage in Risky Fetish or Sexual Behavior?
Pat wrote me a while back (yes I know I’m slow but he knows I always get to it eventually) wondering why we engage in risky behavior. Now because of the subject matter of this site I’ll …
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