So many of the gentlemen I speak with find themselves ashamed of their submissive feelings. Pesky little feeling shame is. It’s always there to kill any enjoyment we might be feeling. So let’s …
Why Do We Engage in Risky Fetish or Sexual Behavior?
Pat wrote me a while back (yes I know I’m slow but he knows I always get to it eventually) wondering why we engage in risky behavior. Now because of the subject matter of this site I’ll …
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Can a Woman Respect a Sexually Submissive Partner?
Can a woman respect a sexually submissive partner? I get asked this quite often by men who are contemplating cuckolding and more specifically sucking cock in front of their partner. Don asked this …
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Submissive Sluts You’re Cheating Yourselves
I see you there lying in the gutter with your phone in your hand shaking, perspiring, your mouth dry, feverishly checking the listings of your favorite phone sex site or chat line for the latest …
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Submissive or Sucker?
Are you submissive or are you just a sucker? In all fairness that’s a relative question. Relative because what some may view as a person being pushed around or bullied can in fact be something the …
Maintaining a Balance in Online Domination
Rich writes with a dilemma he's in that faces many men who are playing in the online Domination scene. Rich writes: (this question is redacted and paraphrased for privacy purposes) "…Dr. Sue this …
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