After being involved in many different aspects of the sex industry over the years, from my former pro-domme work, to owning a sex shop (without viewing booths, ewww) and then, the since the dawn of the internet the online sex industry as an online domme and now therapist, you notice trends. And one of those…
D wrote to me about his feelings, fantasies and confusion surrounding sucking his best friend’s cock. And surprisingly I get A LOT of emails asking about this which is why I chose to address it here instead of just returning his email. The idea of wanting to suck your best friend’s cock originates from your…
A married husband of 12 years emailed me recently with an issue he found himself facing. In order to spice up their bedroom play they started to play with toys. They began with the basics, light bondage, vibrators and a blindfold and as he stated, they were having a “blast,” the toys adding to their…
Most of the femme domme world is occupied by submissive males. And in the world of masters the ratio tends to be a fifty-fifty split between female and male. So where does that leave the submissive female who wants to serve a female domme? It leaves them feeling cast out and frustrated. Subsequently they find…
Many of the men I talk to tell me that they are no longer having sex with their wives. In some cases women have shut down for over a decade or more. That makes me sad. Here they are in this perfectly viable relationship and she has closed up shop. But why? Why do so…
A classic ‘tell’ of the sub of convenience (when a male is submissive only when it suits him) is when they contact you and ‘assume’ that YOUR body is THEIR playground. When I first speak to a sub I ask them what they’re in to. Now if the first thing that comes to mind and…