The issue of a submissive being too needy comes up way more than you’d think. No matter what type of domination is being done; pro, online, lifestyle or a combination thereof, an overly clingy sub will pop up from time to time. But how do you know if you’re that guy? The best way to…
Bob writes: …i have been serving a Findom for almost going on five years now. I have been masturbating to Her clips and pics since the very beginning. Now i have did a little reading on this subject but i have become impotent when i’m with a woman, which the last time i went out…
Rich writes: Hello Dr. Sue maybe you have touched on this subject in one way shape or form but we know after some individuals have lost everything to there Findoms, and in some cases has i’m sure caused depression at their losses. Do you think a finsub has ever committed suicide after his Findom has…
In this world of ultra-sensitive people everyone seems afraid to speak the truth for fear of pissing off or hurting someone. The problem with this logic is that in the end we lose out on common sense; something that in my opinion is sorely lacking these days. When we become too afraid to call out…
So many of the gentlemen I speak with find themselves ashamed of their submissive feelings. Pesky little feeling shame is. It’s always there to kill any enjoyment we might be feeling. So let’s start by looking at shame. Shame comes from a belief that we are not fitting into a preconceived box. It can stem…
Pat wrote me a while back (yes I know I’m slow but he knows I always get to it eventually) wondering why we engage in risky behavior. Now because of the subject matter of this site I’ll obviously be discussing it based on the risky behavior of some men in the fetish realm. So…