Many of the men I talk to tell me that they are no longer having sex with their wives. In some cases women have shut down for over a decade or more. That makes me sad. Here they are in this perfectly viable relationship and she has closed up shop. But why? Why do so […]
Body Worship is Not a Right
A classic ‘tell’ of the sub of convenience (when a male is submissive only when it suits him) is when they contact you and ‘assume’ that YOUR body is THEIR playground. When I first speak to a sub I ask them what they’re in to. Now if the first thing that comes to mind and […]
Are YOU a Needy Sub?
The issue of a submissive being too needy comes up way more than you’d think. No matter what type of domination is being done; pro, online, lifestyle or a combination thereof, an overly clingy sub will pop up from time to time. But how do you know if you’re that guy? The best way to […]
Am I a Porn Addict?
Bob writes: …i have been serving a Findom for almost going on five years now. I have been masturbating to Her clips and pics since the very beginning. Now i have did a little reading on this subject but i have become impotent when i’m with a woman, which the last time i went out […]
Death by Domme
Rich writes: Hello Dr. Sue maybe you have touched on this subject in one way shape or form but we know after some individuals have lost everything to there Findoms, and in some cases has i’m sure caused depression at their losses. Do you think a finsub has ever committed suicide after his Findom has […]