2011 — Page 2

We All Need A Hobby

One of the most common themes with my clients when it comes to any fetish or let’s paint it with a broader brush, anything of a sexual nature that costs money is GUILT, especially for you Financial Domination slaves.

Unfortunately our society deems anything pleasurable as being BAD. It could be a religious upbringing that’s ringing in your ear or god forbid…your mom, sex has always been the #1 BAD thing to do. It’s detrimental that we still try to repress each other this way but it seems to be a given cause you guys are always feeling guilt or shame.

Here’s what I tell my clients if they’re feeling bad about what they’re doing. If it’s not based on deceiving someone, like a spouse for instance because deceit is a whole other huge ball of wax, if it’s just the money think of it this way, if you had a hobby of say golf like the pic I chose or tennis or hockey or whatever it is, you’d be spending HUGE sums of money on equipment, green fees, dues, uniforms you name it. What the hell is the difference between calling someone and getting your rocks off and going golfing? There isn’t one.

We live in an extremely fast-paced, stressed to the max world. We’re bombarded with demands and the need to try to please people all the time. We live in a far more stressed out world than our parents did. I would much rather see someone play ‘raise the rate’ or call one of the girls and jerk off, or dance around in a bra and panties than have him not do anything. Most of you guys playing with fetishes or phone sex or Pro Dommes are not the ones with the hobbies I mentioned above. Therefore you guys have no way of blowing off steam.

You need to look at what you’re doing as your ‘hobby,’ everyone else be damned. It’s going to mean you’ll be a much more pleasant, happy and believe it or not well-rounded individual than if you did nothing to relieve stress. It’s a yin yang thing. You can’t be in demand and constantly running all the time and expect to maintain a healthy mind and body and the only reason it seems like it’s bad is because you can’t sit down at Starbucks and share a caramel macchiato over the complete fucking you took last night either to your wallet or your ass.

For example people don’t realize the amount of couples engaged in cuckolding. Trust me your neighbors are probably doing it but they’re not gonna talk about it around the pool and just because people aren’t talking about it, doesn’t mean it’s not going on or that it’s bad.

So go ahead and start enjoying what you’re doing, GUILT FREE, SHAME FREE. Remember what I’m always telling you guys. If it doesn’t feel good DON’T DO IT! If it does, GO FOR IT! We’re here to experience happiness, not happiness depending on if the Joneses down the street say it’s ok, or your mom or even the Pope. Fuck em and enjoy YOUR life.

The Story of Mark and Mary

Articles, The Fet Files

This is the first of many stories I’m going to relate to you guys. Anything in this category is based on real life situations that have been told to me by various clients through the years. Since I receive a lot of feedback about you nasty boys jerking to my articles I thought you might like to hear some real bedtime stories. (Names changed of course) This one was promised for Paulee, sweet dreams…

Mark was a client of mine who came to me looking for blackmail. Now if you’ve read my articles you know that I love blackmail. What I want you to take from this is the feeling of what he went through, not so much the actions of what I did.

Mark is a crossdressing sissy whose wife doesn’™t have a clue about his kinks. He decided financial domination would be fun and asked me to blackmail him. We chatted for some time on several occasions, me making notes the entire time. I had him do a few simple photo assignments. Nothing major or out of the ordinary, the usual playing dress-up with various toys and messages written to me in lipstick on his chest, you know the ‘usual’.

During our conversations he had told me his wife’s name and what she did for a living. He also told me other info about where he lived. Nothing specific just city and state, but this afforded me the ability to locate his wife’s work and lucky for me she worked in the health industry, physiotherapist to be exact. Didn’t take long to track her down.

I decided that for him to really feel the sting and enjoy that combination of eroticism and fear he needed to hear from me through his wife. So I called her at work. She worked in a large facility which was perfect because I knew she’d be busy as hell. I called and asked for her and told her I was Dr. Sue and that I had heard of her reputation for being an amazing therapist. I said that I wanted to talk to her about some freelance work when she had the time. She told me she couldn’t talk there, as I figured. I gave her a fictitious phone number and told her to call me the next day.

Now why did I do that? Simple, I know she’s going to go home and over dinner say, ‘hey I got a call from this Dr. Sue who wants me to freelance on the side.’ But in the meantime, just so that he had something to stew over, I had emailed him and gave him the name and phone number of her work just to let him know I had the information since he hadn’t given it to me. That caught his attention and yes she did go home and tell him, just as I figured.

I got a frantic email saying he couldn’t take it. He was scared shitless. He wanted out. He didn’t like this at all it was too scary. I told him to wait a couple of days before he made any rash decisions and let the fear subside and see what happens. Sure enough the eroticism of what happened kicked in along with the couple of beers he said he needed. He said he was so turned on it was crazy. Did he still buy his way out? Yes. But he did eventually come back and still does from time to time. You guys always do 😉

Moral of the story: Never call Dr. Sue’s bluff.

Oh yeah and he reads The Review so HI MARK!

What is Erotic Hypnosis?

Articles, Erotic Hypnosis

Erotic hypnosis is something we haven’t really talked about on The Review much, if at all. So for those of you who have no idea what we’re talking about let me explain. Erotic hypnosis is exactly what it says, it’s a hypnosis session with someone who is trained in hypnosis who puts an erotic spin on the session.

Now understand, every single hypno-slut (as the client is sometimes referred) is different (write that down girls), you must ask and have an in-depth conversation with your client prior to the session. So for all you guys out there who whine when you see that the hypnotits…whoops Freudian slip? or perhaps an appropriate title? hmmmm…hypnotist is telling you she has to talk to you before the session, its only to your benefit. That doesn’t mean that there won’t be more info pulled out of you during the session but we have to have a base to start from. Unfortunately we are not all psychics, that’s a totally different website, and we do need to ask you a few basic questions to start.

But just what is involved in erotic hypnosis? That is the million dollar question…no just kidding, it all depends on what the person who wants to be hypnotized is looking for.

Most submissive fetishes boil down to a loss of control…once you peel away all the layers. So imagine what you would feel like if you opened yourself up to having your mind manipulated and your control stripped from you.

One minute your eyes are closed, you’re relaxing on your bed, you have the seductive tones of her voice whispering in your ear. You seem to drift in and out as she weaves her words through your mind some making sense and some that seem to send electric shocks right from between your eyes, over your head and down your spine making your skin tingle and the hair on the back of your neck stand up. At that very moment she has you, every deviant fantasy, every naughty thing you participated in that secretly turns you on, all the things you have to think about so you can fuck your wife that you thought you could hold back from this entrancing manipulatrix comes to the surface and it’s as though you’re compelled to tell them to her. It’s as if your soul won’t rest until you confess every one of your most twisted thoughts. And as each one spills from your lips to her discerning ear you feel lighter and that electric shock begins to radiate to the very tip of your cock only making you want to tell her more.

As your mind empties it’s replaced with feelings of such intense eroticism you’d do anything, give anything to that feather soft voice in your ear just to keep this feeling alive, all the while being re-programmed to a much weaker, more compliant, eager to please, completely manipulated puppet of her choosing. Where it goes from here depends on what you’ve told her prior to the session and what way the wind is blowing that day, in other words, whatever the hell she feels like creating. That’s the beauty of it, you just never know where you’re gonna end up but rest assured you’ll be fucked when the ride is over.

So now you can see what it would feel like and why this particular sex play (cause I wouldn’t really call it a fetish), is so popular. It’s relaxing, it’s risky, it’s an adrenaline rush and it’s incredibly erotic. What more could you ask for? 😉

Financial Dommes = Mean Girls!

Articles, Financial Domination

Lee commented in my What is Financial Domination article:

[sic] “i believe women love doing this to all of us men. There are sooo many women doing this!! they are destroying are lives & keeping us in poverty forever!! I truly think this should be illegal… And: “But MOST Dommes do take us men to the point of total ruin.in most all cases they could care less…this is happening to me now.i am told oh well there will be another to take your place!”

Okay once again I’m laughing at you little victim males. And NO it’s not just because I happen to be a dominant female. It’s because you guys make yourselves out to be so innocent in all of this. If you get sucked back in to Financial Domination after getting it allegedly ‘under control,’ then it’s your issue not hers.

Understand something here, we don’t give a rats ass about ruining your lives. Well, okay most of us girls don’t. I’m not saying there aren’t some out there who don’t love watching a male lose his life to her. Yeah okay they’re out there but for most of us we only want the cash and YES I love taking your money. I don’t give a fuck what your life is like. And let’s call a spade a spade here, what about all the guys who use Financial Dommes who specialize in blackmail to break up their marriages? YUP! That’s right, some men are so ball-less they get caught on purpose in order to facilitate their weakness in breaking up with their partners.

I’m going to say this until you guys get it through your incredibly thick skulls. WE AREN’T PREYING ON YOU, YOU’RE COMING TO US VOLUNTARILY, and WE ARE DOING OUR JOB! You can’t have it both ways. ‘I want a powerful woman to wallet rape and humiliate me because it turns me on’ ‘HEY you just raped my wallet, that’s not fair! You’re MEAN!’ Pick a fucking side you morons.

I’m so sick of hearing whining subs go on and on about how hard done by they are. If you have addiction issues and many of you do, then address them. It’s as asinine as blaming the dealer for selling drugs. If you didn’t have the addiction to getting high there would be no demand and the dealers would dry up. Is that gonna happen, ah NO! So deal with it but saying it should be illegal when you guys are the ones seeking us out and not the other way around is ridiculous. And for the love of GOD stop playing the victim. Pull up your big boy pants, remove the tampon outta your ass and wake up and smell the bank drain, YOU NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP! And Lee? Yes there is ALWAYS another sub to take your place if you don’t pay. DUH!

Should I or Shouldn’t I?

Articles, Financial Domination

G writes:

(sic) it’ s too nice the idea of loosing it all because of her blackmail! What should i do? Resist or let her my social and financial life?

Seriously? You guys need to go back to grammar school, but I’m giving you a pass on this one G cause you are using a translation service I see. That aside, the decision is ultimately yours to make G. No one can tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. If you want to resist because you get off on her trying to take more then go with that. If you want to learn what it’s like to give yourself over and let her run your financial and social life, again, go ahead. You’ve read enough on this site I’m sure, that you know the dangers of doing what you’re doing.

As I always say, if it feels good, do it. If it doesn’t, and that includes regret afterward, then don’t. It’s really that simple.

NEVER REGRET!

The Greed of a Financial Dominatrix

Articles, Financial Domination

Jimmy writes:

‘[sic]does a money dommes go after guys with less imcome as well as subs who can play big? also how does a money domme keep their slaves addictive to them when they first find a sub or pet?’

The first part of your question Jimmy depends on the Domme. A smart Financial Domme will go after anyone as long as they have money. However there are very picky Domina’s who will only play with you if you have a certain amount of money. What you have to keep in mind is that if you don’t have a lot of money you won’t get a lot of attention. Why would any business person spend large amounts of time on project that doesn’t have a high rate of return? It’s a no brainer, so if you think you’re going to get a Domme to play with you extensively and exploit your weaknesses and all you can give her is maybe $20 a week, not gonna happen my friend.

On to the second part of your question, a Domme, and this is any Domme, is capable of keeping her slaves by learning their weaknesses, their fetishes and then enhancing and exploiting them. This isn’t just something a Financial Domme will do, all good Domme’s do this. It’s part of the service they provide. For example if you’re a leg man she might start off by sending you a few pics of her legs for a price, later she may do cam work with you showing you her legs etc. Every client is different obviously and it’s up to the Domme to find out what your weaknesses are. She knows how to give a little bit to entice and then give more each time until your completely hooked.

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