I had a request last week from a guy who wanted me to humiliate him by posting pictures of his wife, naked, all over the internet. He, of course, would supply me with all these photos that he has taken of her probably during intimate moments she thought would only be shared by the two of them. My flat out answer was HELL NO!
Not only is a violation of the law but it’s a supreme violation of this woman’s privacy and human rights. It honestly disgusted me that he wanted someone else to put her pictures all over the internet so he could get his rocks off.
Now guys I know some of you go into chat rooms and post pictures of your wives (ladies make a note of this) and essentially you all have a nice little circle jerk. Or in some cases you’ll share them in chat rooms with dominant males who then tell the husband what he’d do to her blah, blah. Even this disgusts me because again you’re doing this without her knowledge or approval.
I’m all for having a fetish but I don’t think it takes a freakin rocket scientist to figure out how really horrible this practice is. So let me reiterate, you have ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to be doing this. Just because you may be in to humiliation at this level doesn’t mean your wife or girlfriend is. As a matter of fact I can guarantee you she would be subject to a range of emotions from shocked, to horrified, to violated and everything in between.
Obviously what I say isn’t going to change what you morons are doing you’ll continue to do it. I am however more interested in letting the ladies out there know what you guys are doing so hopefully they can keep an eye on you.
One way of dealing with this is if you don’t want pictures out there then don’t take them in the first place. I subscribe to this to a degree. Think of all the sex tapes and pictures of celebs that have been leaked. Granted most of this is publicity based but it’s the same thing. Don’t want anyone to see you naked, don’t take naked shots. But when you’re in a trusting relationship with someone you expect them to respect you. You assume (never do this) that the person will only use the pictures or videos for their own purposes.
And please Dominas don’t fall in to this trap. I’m not saying you have to respect your sub’s wife or girlfriend but you certainly shouldn’t do something to someone you don’t even know. You have no idea what this could do to a person. I’m not saying it’s wrong in the cases of blackmail where the sub supplies you with pics and you hold them as leverage, but holding on to them and publishing them are two very, very different things. Pictures distributed that way can ruin careers, families and worse. So use your heads girls. And gentlemen, I know it’s hard but try not to be pigs, cause this really is pig behavior.