Gentlemen – Either You’re Submissive or You’re Not

Okay male submission is never that cut and dried but what I’m talking about is how many of you boys pick and choose who you’re going to be submissive to. Some of you alleged submissive males hailing female supremacy are still displaying misogynistic tendencies, sometimes without even knowing you’re doing it.

We do men such a disservice when we raise them to be alpha males with no room for submission at all. Why? Because based on my observations the male population of the world is about 80% submissive and 20% alpha. True alpha males are like unicorns. That means that the majority of men are stuck playing The Game.

And just what is The Game? It’s the front that all men have to put on to survive in our society no matter how they feel inside. If you feel submissive you had better shut the fuck up about it because that doesn’t fly in penis land. If you even think about kneeling before a woman, sucking another guys’ dick, or dressing like a sissy your Guy Card is revoked.

So where does that leave most men? Teetering between the two; having to be dominant throughout your day to compete and bring home the coin and sneaking into the basement cellar to rub one out under a strong woman’s instruction by night.

BUT, that doesn’t mean you’re off-the-hook for your behavior boys. If you truly feel that you are a submissive male who believes that women rule all, you’ll feel that way about ALL WOMEN. Not just the ones who are “hot.” If you’re a sub who doesn’t have a Domme to serve you should still be asking yourself if you have performed one of the 3 S’s of Submission today for ANY woman.

What do I mean by serving any woman?

I have my subs perform Random Acts of Kindness to women in this order, women of color first followed by white women. What this means is that they are to perform one of the 3 S’s of Submission to ANY woman they see.

Now for those of you boys thinking only with your dick, you’re probably thinking, “What am I supposed to do, just drop to my knees and suck some random woman’s toes?” That right there, is a misogynistic thought because it tells me that you only think of serving in terms of what it does for you. So snap out of that right now.

My subs will do anything from buying a coffee for a woman in line behind them at Starbucks, to raking leaves, to cleaning basements and doing taxes. The sky is the limit and there is no shortage of women who need help in some way. It doesn’t have to be grandiose and it definitely has NOTHING to do with your dick.

One of my subs is very reverent to women. He becomes weak around strong women especially but I’ve never seen a male truly feel that he is beneath women like this little one. Most men pay lip service.

For this sub, when I told him he was to start doing the Random Acts of Kindness his initial reaction was fear, that’s how submissive he is. He was afraid to bother women. When I told him how to approach them in a non-creepy way he found the courage to start and is now doing small jobs for 3 women in the same family. He helps out on weekends and he loves it because, as I told him, when he’s out there serving these women he is representing me in the process. That makes what he does even more important and in the end, he gets great pride in helping.

One of my other subs is a different type of guy. It took me a bit to make him understand that you aren’t submissive just based on how hard your dick is. If you truly love women and want to serve them, then SERVE THEM! Stop thinking with your dicklet and get out there and SERVE ~ SACRIFICE ~ SUFFER for them. All of them. Even your 80 year old neighbor, take out her garbage. Do something! He now does all sorts of odd jobs for ladies and feels far more satisfaction from it.

Now am I naïve enough to think that they don’t want to go home and rub one out because they served and it felt good? Of course they do. But they aren’t out there serving because I may or may not tell them to take off their cages and rub one out because they don’t always get to.

The feelings of submission most of you boys are looking for can only come by realizing that it isn’t connected to your penis. Let me put it to you this way, when a man comes to me and gives me his list of fetishes and things he likes, those are the LAST things he gets from me. You have to EARN them you don’t just instantly get them. Where’s the fun in that for the Domme/Dom? I want to hear you beg, I want to see your desperation. So your poodle dick is the last thing I think about because this is about MY pleasure, my fun. If you happen to get a jolt in your hamster ween then that’s a bonus for you.

I get that it’s hard because you guys have to vacillate between dominant and submissive in your day-to-day lives but it’s not a free pass to be a selfish dillhole pretending to be a sub when all you’re really looking for is someone to flash their tits at you. That’s not submission, that’s a pervert and it’s boring.

So pick a side boys either you’re submissive or you’re not. And if you’re submissive and feel women rule, then get out there and serve those same women you profess to adore no matter who they are, what they look like or how old they are. Just SERVE!