I’ve said it on the show and I’ll say it again here I LOVE PAT!! <3
Why would I love someone who argues with me on certain articles? Because he’s thought provoking. He’s not another ‘yes’ man automatically assuming that everything that is said is gospel and he’s done it again and since my rant yesterday I found it rather timely. He suggested it as an article topic and I think he’s made a very valid point and his ideas bare some serious thought.
Here’s what he wrote:
Hi Dr Sue,
It seems you can’t read a femdom blog anywhere these days that doesn’t go in the female supremacy or FLR route. The themes are always the same:
- Women should own and rule everything
- Wives should wear the pants at home
- Men should be made to suffer as women have suffered
- Complete role reversal with men as the second sex.
You get the idea. Anyway, it seems to me that all of these desires stem from an inferiority complex on the part of these women. They are so bitter about what was once “The Patriarchy” that they want to disenfranchise, objectify and degrade all males in the present. They believe they can make things right by oppressing men in the modern age. If they can just put men in their place once and for all then that will prove that they are better than men or at least as good.
But they’re fighting ghosts. The men that did these things to women are dead and gone. For the last 30 years we’ve been bending over backwards to build up women and girls. And it’s working. There’s never been a better time to be female. I just don’t get what they are so angry about.
So, here’s my question. Is female supremacy linked to an inferiority complex in women? If so, is this the best way to go about rectifying it?
I think for some the answer is yes. It could actually be inferiority along with low self-esteem and in so doing they then over compensate. Now before I have all my girls screaming at me, please note I said ‘for some’. In my opinion there are women who truly believe and are living their lives this way that are great examples of the concept. But for some, they have taken the concept and gone berserk. This is the reason why I said in my rant yesterday that I’m now reversing my thoughts on Female Supremacy because I witness so many of these women, who in my opinion give ‘women’ a bad name, period.
The problem is there will always be radical extremists in EVERYTHING! And they will always be the ones getting the attention. It’s these women who make the whole concept of Female Supremacy leave a bad taste in anyone’s mouth.
I was talking to one of my clients yesterday and he made a valid point, and I’m not saying this to generalize or to pigeon hole anyone but it was his observation as well as mine after talking to thousands of people over the years that most in the adult industry, any part of it, were abused in some way in their lives. Now I’ll take that one step further and say that a vast majority over the age of 30 no matter what industry they are in have been abused. So doesn’t it stand to reason that there will be an over compensation by anyone who’s been abused, who is embracing Domination for the first time to try to regain lost control from their abusive past. Now of course this isn’t true for everyone, it’s just an observation I’ve made and so did he as he is very much in the business.
So short answer Pat, yes, long answer is it of course depends on who you’re talking to. As for rectifying it all anyone can do is offering education and information on the subject and hope that it gets heard. Don’t call attention to the radical ones but do call attention to people who are sane about their beliefs.
Now I know some of you ladies might be pissed about this article. That’s cool, that’s what the comment section is for and please be my guest and let me know your views. But try to do it in a civil manner. It really is a thought provoking idea.