I consider the best part of my job as a counselor to be when I suggest couples make a few changes to an otherwise ‘written off’ relationship and then watch as everything old is new again.  In the past several weeks I’ve had the pleasure of working with two gentlemen who never thought to explore their…

I’ve spoken quite a bit about how popular cuckolding has become, albeit quietly popular, and within cuckolding itself there is a practice that is also gaining momentum with younger couples and that’s selective breeding. Now for some of you this will be a touchy subject because I’ll be discussing racial issues.  Like it or not,…

I used to say that cuckolding, along with any other alternative relationship, must have wide open lines of communication. But when I got to thinking about it, ALL relationships need wide open communication so it’s not just alternative relationships but in the case of relationships that go beyond the ‘norm’ it is imperative that all…

There’s a phrase and ideal in cuckolding that I don’t like and that’s, ‘hot wife.’ I know a lot of people in the online cuckolding forums and such volley the phrase around all the time.  It basically caught on around the time cuckolding started gaining speed online many years ago.  But why I find it…

As with anything there are pitfalls in cuckolding and I want to share with you a story of a client of mine who was taken down a road he wasn’t ready for.  This is a true story but the names have been changed. Paul is a sweet soul in his fifties who called me one…

Just why there aren’t more women who are in to cuckolding isn’t an easy answer because everyone is different and the reasons can be multifaceted but here are a few to consider: They don’t know it exists.  The main reason why so many women aren’t cuckolding their partners is because they don’t know what cuckolding…