You guys are asking some fantastic questions that deserve posts because to answer them in comments just wouldn’t give the question justice, nor would it help others and if I can take a question and work it in to an article to help others I’M ON IT!
Cuckwannabe and K have brought up some points in the comments of Can Cuckolding Ruin a Marriage?, that need to be addressed regarding cuckolding.
Cuckolding, like everything else has changed through the years and not necessarily for the better. K points out that most of the articles on cuckolding just yammer about how amazing it is as long as you keep the communication open, and nay, I’m guilty of such articles. But what is the reality of cuckolding? Is it all sunshine and roses? And the answer to that would be HELL NO!
Our beloved internet has unfortunately skewed this lifestyle to the point of total distortion. I have been in a cuckold relationship for over 20 years. I have counselled sub males and couples who were interested or incorporated cuckolding in to their lives for almost as long. Cuckolding, like any other alternative lifestyle takes work and if you’re not careful, if the female is not in control, all hell can break loose.
K was wondering what the statistics are of couples who break up and I don’t know as there have been no definitive studies done. So based on my own observations and this is in no way a clinical study, I would say the percentages would be 40% successful and remain together and 60% go up in flames. So as you can see, it’s not an easy thing to do. But I reiterate that my ‘stats’ aren’t really stats they are observations by one person.
But why do these relationships crash and burn? And for those of you going “well duh” I mean besides the blatantly obvious issues of jealousy and resentment. If everyone is so cool with it all, how could it possibly go wrong?
Well it starts here: (these are NOT in order of any importance)
- Not Understanding What Cuckolding Is – Right off the bat most men think cuckolding is a fetish. WRONG! Cuckolding is NOT a fetish it is a lifestyle alternative to traditional monogamy. Cuckolding IS a female led relationship. It is NOT about you sitting there watching your wife get fucked. That is called voyeurism.Cuckolding is a relationship whereby the construct is the wife is dominant and the hubby submissive. Does this mean you are doing D & s stuff like adding sissification or anything else in to the mix? NO. That is strictly up to the individual couples. But the power dynamic IS ALWAYS – female dominant, male submissive. Anything else is NOT CUCKOLDING. So if your fantasy of cuckolding is you jacking off to your wife taking some guys cock you are waaaaay off base and as I said before, that’s voyeurism.And in the relationship the wife has sex with other men because her partner, in some cases cannot, but in most cases wants to see his wife be sexually satisfied by another more ‘alpha’ male. But more importantly because the woman has taken control of her own sexual satisfaction.Nor is it Hot Wife-ing. That is a derogatory term that turns cuckolding in to voyeuristic perversion. The term hot wife originated in the old chatrooms of internet yor. Where guys would pass pics of their wives (usually without their knowledge) around with other guys in a pseudo-circle jerk. “Wanna fuck my hot wife?” Calling a woman a hot wife completely objectifies her and goes back to our voyeur boys. It turns her in to a piece of meat, something to be traded like fucking baseball card. So if you’re big on that term you need to look at why, chances are it has nothing to do with cuckolding and has more to do with pimping.
- Your Wife Isn’t in to It – Women tend to want to please. It’s in our nature plus how society raises us. So I’ve seen case after case of women engaging in cuckolding ‘just to make her husband happy,’ only to end up with the relationship in tatters. The problem is if she’s only doing this to make you happy, she will feel dirty and disgusted with herself after each encounter. Eventually that wears on a person and she pulls the plug.This is usually based on miscommunication. Husband tells her about cuckolding. She’s not really in to it but doesn’t come right out and say so but any moron could tell in her body language that she’s not impressed. Husband chooses to ignore said body language and takes her lack of refusal as a green light. Both are to blame here because there’s that damn communication bug-a-boo. This usually ends up with tears and a break-up or worse back to vanilla sex, silence and a massive wedge in the relationship because both are ashamed of themselves; her for participating and him for asking in the first place.
- Female NOT Leading – This goes back to #1. Many couples engage in cuckolding with both being submissive and I can’t red flag this enough. First of all, as I stated above if she’s not in control it’s not cuckolding. But take that out of it and let’s look at the reasons why she needs to be QUEEN BEE.You have an alpha male in the room. If both of you are submissive who is in control of the situation? The alpha male. Does the alpha male care about your relationship or the two of you? NO. Nor should he, that’s not what he’s there for. But what could possibly go wrong? The primary issue is psychological head games. If the woman is not in control of the room and the men in it there’s no one protecting the relationship. The husband is in sub-space and will do anything this alpha male requests of him. He’s useless. What if our alpha buddy wants to make the husband cross a line? What if alpha boy wants to make the wife do something she’s not okay with? And that’s just skimming the top.I have worked with men who have gone through horrific psychological and physical pain from alpha males hell bent on destroying the relationship. There are even professional bulls who now make it sport to TRY to break up marriages. They keep score (no shit). If you don’t believe me listen to my show on Cuckolding Extremes and hear it from the husbands themselves. (you can listen at the bottom of the page)The woman has to be in charge of what goes on, period. Does it mean she can’t be sexually submissive in the moment? NO. Of course she can. But that alpha male/bull is there at HER bidding and to do what SHE wants. Nothing more. Any deviance from that is not just playing with fire but bathing in lava.
- The Loss of Respect – This was brought up by cuckwannabe and is a slippery slope but usually only applies in cases where other fetishes are included such as forced bi, feminization and sissification to name a few and someone’s respect changing is a personal thing and will vary from person-to-person. But those are the top three.For some, but not all men, submission usually comes with many different combinations of other kinks and fetishes. Some men want their wives to make them suck the alpha male’s dick. Some men want their wives to put them in panties and lipstick. Others want to be made in to a sissy 24/7. And for many of those same men this doesn’t come out until they are comfortable enough to tell their wife after they’ve been cuckolding for a bit. So it comes, to the wife anyway, out of nowhere.If the wife in our scenario is really in to the sexual attention she gets by both the alpha and the sub and really isn’t into any heavier D & s then the idea of her husband being feminized can become an issue and here’s why.When she married you, this whole cuckolding/girlie thing was never on the table. She knew nothing about ANY of the kink world or alternative relationships. So she doesn’t understand the psychology behind submission, nor should she. She married a MAN. Her HUSBAND, not her wife. She’s not a lesbian and the idea of you behaving this way will turn her off. So even though you think sucking the guys’ dick to get it hard is a HUGE turn-on, she probably looks at you in disgust. And IF the alpha male sees this and decides to use it to his advantage he can also throw a wrench in the works by feeding off of her disgust making what she feels even stronger.Now on the flip side of it, there are also women who find all that a turn-on. They love watching their husband suck dick and even enjoy dressing them up. And if you have a wife that will indulge that you get on your knees right now and thank your lucky stars.Loss of respect out of just simple cuckolding is rare unless, as I said, the female is doing this ‘just to please.’ If she’s not into seeing her husband submit to another male it can be a HUGE turn-OFF. But that brings us back to communication again. Not discussing this prior to will ALWAYS lead to disaster.
- Using Old Lovers as Bulls – DING-DING-DING!! I want you to hear disaster warning sounds with this one; tornado sirens. This is the WORST thing you can do. NEVER, EVER, EVER use old lovers as bulls. It’s an easy start and I get that but it will come with a host of issues.Old lovers come with emotional baggage. I don’t care how much you think you have your shit together ladies if you use an old lover for a bull in cuckolding you are again bathing in fire and stand a HIGH RISK of developing feelings for this person again thus jeopardizing your relationship. And we do this because it’s human nature not to remember the shit that drove you nuts about them and only remember the good stuff. It’s so easy to slip back in to loving feeling for this person that the risk is just too high.In that vein, the other bad idea is the whole BFE (boyfriend experience). Some of you boys want your wife to have a ‘boyfriend.’ At this point you’re gone to some weird place with no name that is in no way cuckolding. Maybe some form of poly relationship but not cuckolding.Cuckolding is NOT about replacing the relationship at all. It’s about experiencing something as a couple together sexually. It’s not something that is done every night. It’s more of an enhancement of an FLR. Once you replace the husband with a ‘boyfriend,’ it’s over.
- *Not Having Sex with the Sub* – I have starred this one because if I were to make this in order I would actually make this my number one no-no. So much of what goes on in cuckolding now is what I consider to be extreme and completely against what cuckolding is meant to be. And this practice of no longer having sex with your husband is relationship DEATH.Unless the hubby has erectile issues, or his penis is micro and penetration is almost non-existant you should NEVER, EVER delete sex from your relationship. Once you do that, the relationship is over and cuckolding ceases to exist.I will reiterate this so you can really get it, cuckolding is NOT about replacing the husband. It’s about a strong woman who knows what she wants sexually and goes out and gets it because her husband for whatever reason cannot provide it. Not unlike what men have been doing for centuries… make that millennia. But that’s it, sexually, nothing more.But in order to maintain your bond as a couple you have to continue having sex or your intimacy level will drop and you will disconnect. This I’ve seen so many times it’s unreal. Wife reads that she is supposed to be tougher and not have sex with her vile waste-of-skin husband. What do you think that kind of conditioning will do? It’s obvious. And just because Becky is doing it doesn’t make it right or healthy. As a matter of fact, I can tell you Becky is not going to be married for long, unless he’s wealthy, because she will get bored with it all.
Cuckolding when done sensibly it CAN strengthen your bond.
I think this comment that was left on the same article that spawned these questions really says it best. This is cuckolding done right. This is from husbandisacuck. And even if it’s not real, since we have to take it with a grain of salt (cause I mean come on 23 men on your wedding night, who has time?), the concept being described is right:
We’ve had a cuckold marriage for over 20 years now. My husband feels most loved by me when I have sex with other men. And I want him to feel loved by me as often as possible. We arranged for our wedding photographer to have sex with me just before our wedding, and we had 23 men join us on our wedding night to help consummate our marriage. We have had men live with us throughout the years which has not only been very nice, but also convenient.
Most everyone we know knows about our relationship, even mine and my husband’s parents and siblings. We do not hide who we are. My husband loves to see me with other men. And I will admit that I do like all the attention. Being able to cuckold my husband has made me happier, and love him more, than anything else ever could have.
Knowing that I can make my husband happy, and feel loved by me, by loving other men makes me feel special. I like knowing that my enjoying other men makes my husband feel most loved by me. And being able to have other men enjoy me, a married woman, fulfills their fantasies, too. And that means a lot to me and my husband.
Every year on our anniversary, my birthday, my husband’s birthday, New Years, Christmas Eve, etc. we have men to our house and they all make love to me, in the presence of my husband. I am their gift, and what they give to me is their gift to my husband, and to me. My husband gives to me what these other men can’t give me, and the other men give to me what my husband can’t. It’s a balance.
Although most of the other men do more with and to me, sexually, they make me love my husband more each time I am with them. I believe that cuckolding is what has made both me and my husband happiest, and our love for each other stronger.
My wife agreed to try this out after years and years of me hinting and telling her. She didn’t want to, but our marriage of 20yrs has faultlines that I’ve been trying to fix and I was qt my wits end. I loved her. Still do but now its like a leaking bucket that I know will empty.
She was passive in sex. For years. But talking to other men, sexually and camming with them has sent her libido through the roof. She hasn’t had sex with another man yet. But she’s met and talked. She wants to, but covid has put the brakes on that. I hate that she’s doing it. For me, it’s confirmed my suspicions that she always wanted someone else, something else sexually.
This is a be careful what you wish for situation. Any kind of alternative lifestyle is not a way to rescue a failing marriage. It will only accelerate the process as you’ve seen. What you need is couples therapy first.
I am a teenage boy who was addicted to cuckolding vedios.but now I hate it because it destroyed me so much . It destroyed my confidence .I considered myself as not sexy and can’t satisfy women, but then I recognized that how wierd was my addiction ,how can I enjoy myself by watching my future wife fucked by other men. this types of porn only make us beta males where women want alpha males ,I don’t wannt to be a beta male.
To cure myself from these addictions I started watching normal porn ,which was very hard for me to get an erection at begining.but now I watch normal porn and enjoy myself .now I am free from this shitty vedios(which I consider) . This increased my confidence and selfrespect
I am more happy now
I am a teenage boy and I have been watching cuckold porn for 2 years. I agree that its pleasurable but now I am trying to delete it from my life because I want to be an alpha male in my future ,and want to be the only one for my wife but I am addicted to it.
now I am watching normal porn to reduce my addiction, to be normal . I searched a lot about cuckold porn that how can i avoid it but most of the replies was in favour of cuckolding. Now I read this 6 reasons ,thanks a lot that it motivates myself to avoid it.
sex is just a biological part of our life, the teenagers like me should not waste their time by watching these types of extreme level porn . internet has its own merits and demerits ,so we should recognize it .
thank you
My boyfriend’ ex cheated on him and he is into this cuckold fantasy right after he got cheated. He told me about it and the pleasure he gets out of it. But Iam not really into it. It disgusts me to even think about other men sexually when I’m sexually attracted to my boyfriend. He wants me to get into cuckold but also has a thought that it would ruin our relationship later. But he gets aggressive when the urge comes in and I don’t support that. We tried sexting and phone sex virtually to let him jerk off his pain. But it is consuming a lot of our mental energy and he gets too real into it that he wants me to do it for real sometimes. We tried everything that we could but he gets back to asking me for cuckold and says that I’m not bold and sexy enough .And not women enough to take it up.
Don’t fall for it. It is his urges that is doing the talk and not his real self. The reason for his such type of his behaviour is the cheating he faced earlier his life and because off watching too much po*n or adult content. Refrain him from watching that. If you still want to do that, i will recommend doing online seexting with a guy in a safe platform like telegram. Rather than doing it in real, all these will be kept in telegram only I am available for it if you wanna try. Or if you want to get him out of these fantasies then also you can consult me. I hava had experience in getting men out of these fantasies. My telegram username is: reymax
That’s a bit assumption no? Obtaining non-agenda driven information about this lifestyle is close to being impossible to obtain. You referenced this in addition to pointing out that actual studies are minimal. Those that do exist rely on self reporting and as such there can be no control. I came here because I have a relatively new patient who was abused and traumatized from the events which led to the end of his marriage. They adopted this lifestyle a little over a year after they wed.
I am an LICSW. My concentration was in adult trauma and violence. My patients are largely abuse survivors, suffer from PTS etc. My understanding of the cuckold lifestyle is limited. I know what he has relayed in our sessions but additional context and information is always useful. That however is challenging in this case. Separating propaganda and “Sunshine and Roses” (as you wrote) from fact is not simple. This article is probably one of the first I have read which didn’t come across as entirely self congratulatory. I do recognize that society is unlikely to openly welcome cuckold relationships anytime in the near future. I suspect this reality, frequent trolling and mainstream derision has resulted in the passive aggressive and defensive attitude / language I have observed. Perhaps that is why so much “sunshine and roses” exists? Along with that does seem to be a fair amount of superiority when compared to traditional monogamy. If I read that too much then I feel as though I’m being fed a line (propaganda). I look forward to reading more of your articles.
I would never recommend this lifestyle for new couples. EVER. There isn’t enough of a relationship base from which to safely do this type of lifestyle. I’m sorry he had such a horrid time as that isn’t how it should go but it seems to me they rushed in to this too quickly. Thank you for your insights Andrea.
Hi – I just read the replies – a year later – still no sex – no it’s not Robert Kraft …
seems there is something in her childhood that brought this about …
but yes she had sex while on a trip to her girlfriend in Los Angeles with a stopover in New York – we were in our twenties … she kept the juicy details from me …
meeting up with her boss and guys from the office – visiting Oh Calcutta on broadway. She wrote home all about talking to her Family in Canada and girlfriends in New York, but nothing about this … at that time we were married already for over 4 years – it was boring from the beginning – I was too young and immature and totally caught up at work making good money … lone evenings late overtime for both of us etc … I still think she had an affair with her boss behind my back for years. I was so stupid ! now I know it bit more – I am borderline – mania depressive –
I feel I fucked up my life the good years …. lost happiness – lost opportunities – I envy the young generation of which I cannot be a part although I still am young at heart – I wanted to divorce her four times and never made it – there is a strong karmatic connection – I fed on anger for many years and didn’t want to touched her,
I went after pussy whenever and wherever I could get it – from a neighbor – on a business trip etc.
My performance not so great – I often came too soon – managed to make up for it orally tho, but still it is no the same …
not enough stamina – more in fantasy than in realty … now I cum only on porn –
Viagra is a great help – I have diabetes for the past 20 years – but I feel nothing when inside another woman …during the act I just have these thoughts to perform ok as a man and I hate condoms… I remember the intense feeling inside my wife – so many years ago natural and impregnating her… that was heaven … now I want it back but we slowy getting back emotionally – step by step – I asked her of being dissatisfied with my performances back then – don’t you want to be handled by a real alpha potent male, but she says no – we can use toys to compensate when necessary… I had done weird things 3years- taking overseas vaction with an internet date – all paid for by me – I guess that was pay back for New York from decades before … I have spent a lot of money on this and other adventures …
that was hell for her ! but we still are together and want to make it work after all.
That’s why I watch black bulls – am fascinated with their big dicks and vigor – the way they satisfy white married wife pussy – omg ! the look on these wifes faces afterwards … I love it and I hate it …
My wife and I discussed this openly , even watched this porn where the wife with her husband’s consent flies off to Florida to meet her black bull. “Cheerleader Denise” (in her forties) is her name in the 52 min movie … they are recording for the husband to watch after her return home. I watched my wifes reaction and she said that animalistic sex is not for her without some kind of emotion … I tested the waters, I know my ego won’t let me turn this into reality …. She didn’t watch to the end but I insisted … she said – I know you – these kind of husbands are masocists, you could never be like them – you are not a hubby like them – never !
(We are retired and mostly are at home, and she hardly leaves home for hair dresser – shrink session once a week or manicure .. I always check and think – anything goind on behind my back ? Maybe ? I still think of either make or break – it’s weird and not healthy ! )
I watch this movie over and over again and similiar like them ! To me this movie is reinacting her New York trip in 1972 …
I am sure but she denies this ! Pictures taken afterwards in LA when with her girlfriend show her radiant in a way I never have seen her before … like a model – so pretty and the facial expression seem to confirm what I think of this … She always acts so inncocently but I don’t believe her, want a lie detector session but she won’t agree … maybe I am the fool who wasted his life away … now I am too old – women want younger men – it hurts but I have but myself to blame !
This helped me a lot. I’ve been trying to convince my wife to act out this lifestyle for several years. I’ve only recently realized I was being an ass about it. She says she could never do that and that our sex loge is great. I now know that the only hope I have is to be patient and make her feel loved. Maybe it will happen maybe it won’t. I’m at least at peace now.
I think its relevant to point out: if your estimates are close to correct, (ie cuckolding results in a 60% failure rate in relationships) it is about the same failure rate as monogamous relationships, who never try cuckolding. Therefore it makes no difference. Lets drill down. Monogamous couples have about 50% divorce rate, and theres probably 15-20% who are cheating among the survivors. And we have to include as “failure” about 10-20% who are in a relationship but are clinically sexless. (ie less than 10 times with one another per year. So, actually, when all things are considered, the success results for cuckolding couples is probably actually better than monogamous couples. Am I wrong in this analysis? Cuckolding couples do have challeneges and struggles with managing it, that monogamous people dont, so it seems “worse”. But, the assumption that “if they hadnt played with fire, theyd still be together” is flawed – because it assumes that they had no other issues that would have blown the thing up. Truth is, with- or without- swinging, with- or without cuckolding, with- or without having kids together, with- or without sharing a bank account, with- or without religion..relationships fail. At about the same rate. People are hung on monogamy as the only way to survive in relationships, but the evidence is clearly against them. Proudly they proclaim, “YES I’m monogamous!! in all 4 of my marrriages!!!”
Good points made Dave!
Thanks for this. I’m so lost on this topic. I have spent hours and hours, (probably weeks) scouting the internet trying to figure out what to do. I have role played my husbands fantasy for years. YEARS! Like 5 years already. He just admitted that it’s been since we first moved in together he has had this fantasy. But he’s more a voyeur than a cuckold because of your description. THANK YOU! I have been telling him this.He is my Dominant. He doesn’t want me to enjoy myself officially. (He says otherwise) He wants control. He says he wants me to love it but his actions speak differently. We have participated in almost all BDSM has to offer and I actually was his 24/7 submissive for awhile. So I agreed to make the fantasy reality last year. I met a man that I liked. The vetting process was slow, I took time as he was the first we considered. He eventually became my pet and our voyeur. Which took time and energy. I taught him about us and Bdsm. My pet would watch us and was fantasizing with us about a threesome but we never took the leap, we never actually slept together. I was still apprehensive and not fully into it. Well finally it took me over, I was in disbelief that I wanted to sleep with another guy! I have never cheated and the feeling was overwhelming. My husbands reaction told me everything. As soon as I wanted it and basically went into a frenzy at my new self discovery, the willingness to bust our monogamy down my husband was turned off. I came to him expressing my new desire and He cut off communication between the guy and I. He stopped the role playing even. It caused a huge fight. I lost someone dear to me. Then mad that my husband has been pushing us into this just to rip it away when I was enjoying myself. It made me lose so much trust and it made me feel like he’s just a sadist who wants to torment me. (He is a sadist but he’s very good to me I was just describing how it felt at the time) I am a masochist but that’s definitely a limit! This hurt in a way I cannot describe. If I cuckold him with an acquaintance I would be miserable and I would hate myself. It would feel disgusting. I feel disgusting. That was the exact reaction I had! Thank you.. We have not even done it but we have had other guys who wanted it and I just can’t sleep with someone I don’t have a connection with. I enjoy intimacy more than anything and it took a long time for me to climax with my husband. I never got off with casual sex. EVER! I have a hard time with lust. I have to have some type of connection to even begin to enjoy this fantasy. I am so lost sometimes this is affecting my mental health. I’m so happy my husband and I (7 years) can be this open with each other sexually but it feels so one sided. He’s an amazing lover but I’m more into bondage and discipline. We focus so much energy into this. Also my needs for occasionally having simple love making have been shoved way to the side. It’s just been years of role playing this cuckold scene but it’s like he can’t be honest with himself. Yet he keeps pushing and we have no one to talk to about it. I don’t know how to separate sex and intimacy. It doesn’t matter how many times I explain this he just doesn’t hear me. I feel guilty because he’s unfulfilled and I don’t believe I will ever be able to do this. I feel unfulfilled. I don’t understand why when after disaster has already struck he thinks we can do it. I’m going to have him read this. I have learned a lot from our mistakes. I have read countless articles about this cuckold lifestyle. I will not engage in anything to please anyone. Role playing I do for my husband when I don’t want to because it’s innocent. I meant actually having sex with someone else. We have kids. I’m at the point that I hate role playing it sometimes. I’m exhausted by it. I am not a judgmental person I love consensual non consent ! I’m as freaky as they come! Do you have any advice? I love him dearly and I want him satisfied but I also have to be true to myself. I’m desperate for help. We found a therapist that advertises that she’s bdsm friendly but I cannot go in and pay $200 an hour to have some lady tell me everything I already know. While having on paper things child services could use against us. I’m so sorry I ranted like this. The cuckold you described in this post sounds like it could be a lot of fun. Can a dominant voyeur change and allow me to take control? How do I get around the need for a deep connection with the bull? Please tell me if we are fucked and shouldn’t do it at all! Haha! I’m just really frustrated. Thanks for listening. If you see this and want to reach out I’m ____ on fetlife.
The dynamic that you guys are balancing is very complex and to be honest I would not recommend you continue with this beyond fantasy. Your husband has lost your trust because of his ‘push me – pull you’ behavior of pulling the rug out. You cannot do this type of lifestyle if this behavior is anywhere in the mix. You have to know yourself to do this and from what you’ve said, your husband needs to do some soul searching. Not everything needs to be physically explored and it’s okay for some things to remain a fantasy and to know you can’t handle your spouse having sex with someone else. It’s not an easy thing to do as you’ve found out. The trust level has to be off the chart and yours has been compromised. If you need a deep connection to sleep with someone, that is another red flag because you run the risk of becoming emotionally involved with the bull and this isn’t about you replacing your husband despite what all the porn and websites are telling you. THAT’S WRONG! All the extreme stuff is primarily fantasy and if it is being played out, chances are the couple is no longer a couple. You see, if you’re not having sex with your husband, you’re no longer in a relationship with which to cuckold from despite what they may tell you. That’s just logic. You need the relationship otherwise it’s just D&s. You are not going crazy, what your husband did, although I’m sure it wasn’t to be sadistic, fucked with your trust and essentially sent you way behind the starting line. It sounds to me like you have a great kink friendly relationship and they you guys have fun in all other areas. LET THIS GO! It’s not worth this much stress. It’s just sex.
cuckolding is the worst that can happen to a man ! I am a normal man with a normal sex appetite and a normal – average dick but I know my shortcomings and I cud never compete with an alpha male ….
I do watch this videos and I excites and disgust me at the same time …
We are married for 50 years and have not have sex in 30 years and appart from whores and massage parlors no other relationship.
I believe maybe swapping to be ok but the husband needs to be an active part not a jerk in the corner or excluded like in Brett – Agness and Donald cuck !
Robert Kraft is that you? Touched a nerve did we? LOL You sound like you have a fantastic marriage and can clearly offer an opinion on successful relationships. Keep up the good work. I’m sure your wife is thrilled to have been in a sexless marriage for 30 years. I certainly hope she’s been out there getting some decent cock because clearly she isn’t impressed with yours. I hope you tip well when you force someone to jerk it for you. Thank you so much for such a helpful commment.
Let’s accept not everyone is into this. How can you tell his wife is unhappy ? Because you like to be shared / to share you love one like a cheap whore doesn’t mean everybody does. You should pay more respect for them, they are better people than you are.
Well no shit Sherlock. But clearly you’re interested or you wouldn’t be reading up on the subject. If you don’t like cuckolding WTF are you reading up on it for? LOL unreal.