Dear Dr. Sue, I have just read your article on penis size and would like to know your thoughts on a recent study which found that the global average to be 5.2″ long using precise methodology rather than self reporting. The same study also found that women’s preferred average size for both one-night stands and long-term was approx. 6.3″ long / 4.8″ thick. Some observers have considered that those who come forward for tests are confident about their size as well, meaning that the real average amongst the general population could be lower. The reason I ask is that I have come across quite a few submissive cuckoldresses’ adult dating profiles who often request well-hung, VWE, 7″+ etc – so is this the size in reality they are looking for? When you look at further studies, men in excess of 7″+ are perhaps 1 in every 20, again based on data that might be generally skewed because of the subjects’ confidence in coming forward. Many thanks,
First of all Rick, the words ‘submissive cuckoldress’ to me are an oxymoron. The entire basis of cuckolding is that it is a female led relationship. But the more this catches on in the mainstream the more it’s becoming bastardized. I know that’s not your fault but just know that if you have it in your head that women take a backseat to the bull in the relationship then you have it backwards.
As for the issue with penis size. It has been my observation that most women want larger penises. They want to feel deeply penetrated. The problem is when you ask a woman what they want, they lie. They instinctively say, “Oh it’s not a problem. I don’t care how big he is.” That’s a knee jerk programmed reaction. When you press these women to choose between a 4″ and 8″ penis they always take the 8″. I showed this during my show on penis size. [Posted Below] You’ll hear when I push them past that automatic, “It’s not the size, it’s what you do with it,” reaction, that they want the bigger size.
But to be fair it does depend on the woman. Some women are frightened of big cocks. I find most ladies who are afraid of them have never had them or if they did the guy was too rough and didn’t know how to use the damn thing.
So will we ever find out what women really want? Not until we can get everyone to stop playing games and answer honestly.