First of all let me preface this article by saying that I will be stating the obvious which in turn will piss some people, mostly guys, off. There seems to be some sort of misconception in the world of BDSM that you can serve an online Domme by just ‘being there,’ and that just doesn’t…
If you’ve ever had the words fake, flakey or just plain not submissive used by a Dominant to describe your behavior then you probably want to read this. I’ll address this to men because I honestly don’t see this happening in the Femme-sub world. I see a lot of behavior both in my job as…
This has been the weekend of faux subs and if you don’t know what faux means, Google it. It never ceases to amaze me the number of men out there who think they’re submissive or pretend to be submissive. It’s like submission by convenience. I know I’m not the only one who gets approached by…
For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first. Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard for the female. Many men when you bring this subject up freak out. Again it’s mostly due to preconceived notions…
Jamie writes: Hi i am a married guy who about 10 years ago lost everything to a Wonderful Mistress. i swore i would never do this again but there’s always this burning desire deep inside me to do it all over again.?? Let me say that this is a common question or inquiry that I…
Pat wrote in and brought up another really good point, he writes… …I thought of this while I read one of your posts on financial domination. You said if a guy has been ruined in a divorce, then he has been financially dominated. You then explained that for some it’s painful while for others it’s…