I’ve been asked a few times to write an article explaining my thoughts on female supremacy as well as just what the hell the concept is.
Female supremacy causes some very serious reactions from people so first off don’t kick the messenger. However that said I would consider myself a female supremacist. 😉
Female supremacy is simply the belief that women as a gender are far superior to men. Simple concept but you’ll find many people take great offense to that statement because of the way our society is structured.
I don’t want this to turn in to a pissing match so I will qualify everything I’m saying from this point on by saying that this is all MY OPINION. The fantastic part of life is that we all have differing opinions and differing tastes. If we all liked the same thing life would be boring and very slow. Nothing new would be developed, nothing would change so I have no problem with anyone who has a different view, all I ask is to open your mind just a wee tiny bit.
There are numerous studies which begin to expose the theory that women are genetically superior to males and if you want to read about that further I suggest you read Adam’s Curse: A Future without Men for starters. I’m not going to get in to all of the medical aspects of this theory because it’s insanely technical and boring and I will assume that you will look in to it further if you want to delve deeper in to male genetic fallibility.
What I will go in to are the signs all around you of the fact that men are inferior to women.
Almost all religions are male controlled. Most if not all wars have been religious based. More people have killed each other in the name of religion/war than anything else. In 2002 alone 172 thousand people died from wars. Gotta love that testosterone fueled ‘my way or the highway’ attitude.
Catholic priests are held to sexual standards that cannot be maintained, imposed by another male. I shouldn’t have to remind you how well that’s been working.
Men have been in control of most of corporate America including the banking system. Again, look around you, greed and aggression rule supreme with men.
The entire porn/stripper/escort/hooker industry is fueled by the male’s inability to control their sexual desires. So what have women done? Learned to feed that need and make money off of men’s weaknesses.
I’m not even going to go down the government road, again, that should be blatantly obvious.
I could go on but this should end somewhere and I’ll let you guys bark it out in the comments. Suffice it to say if it were up to me I would teach male children from a very young age that women are to be respected, obeyed, cherished, and put first in every aspect their lives. All men should be placed in chastity to control their sexual urges. All men should consider their lives to be only in service of women.
However, that said, I will also say that women need to put women first more as well. Remember a true female supremacist respects her fellow female. She doesn’t lower her, she doesn’t disparage her choices she uplifts. To put down another female for any reason just puts you in the realm of men. (But that’s another article)
UPDATE 1-20-2013
Pat wrote this email to me and I think it makes better sense than what I was saying. I do believe women are superior to males but do I think males should be eradicated or that they are worthless? NO not at all. I don’t believe in any system that will hold anyone back from anything. Quite the contrary. My point is that this world does not work under male rule as has been proven in history. I still think chastity and discipline in young males is important as well. So I guess to answer your question Pat, I would have to say I view it the same as you. Yes there is a difference between the two.
I’ve been thinking a lot about female superiority and female supremacy. This may surprise you but I actually do believe in female superiority, when defined in a certain way (I’ll get to that later). It’s female supremacy that I have a problem with, meaning a political construct which gives favor to females just because they’re female. Regarding female superiority, sure, there are many indicators we could point to that show women are better at certain things. In that respect,women would be superior in that area. For instance, I do believe that women possess more of the natural skills and personality traits to be successful in the modern economy than men do, and therefore, we will live in a female dominated world one day. Female supremacy would be a system which arbitrarily forbids men from advancing or holding positions of power. Big difference. Superiority vs supremacy is the subtext behind most of my comments regarding female supremacy that I don’t think I’ve articulated very well. Do you distinguish between the two?
Dr. Sue,
First off, thank You so much for what You do to educate people and open a dialogue to express different opinions (hopefully) without judgement.
i have read some of Your most recent work regarding why You no longer agree with Female Supremacy and i absolutely understand Your point. Some people (like with any group of people with a firmly-held belief system) have gone off the deep end. But i feel that at its core, Female Supremacy is above all about love. Love for Women above all and love for men too. Just because there’s a belief that one group is superior over the other does not mean that the group viewed as inferior needs to be abused or oppressed. In fact, many feel that this is a large reason for why Women should be leaders. So that they will not abuse their power like men have. Naturally, that’s not to say all Women wouldn’t abuse their power but maybe They should be given the chance first.
i believe with all my heart that Women are superior to men. From a genetic level with Women having two full chromosomes (XX) and males having only one and a partial chromosome (xy). This may be why Women are so much better than men in many aspects (higher social and emotional intelligence, less violent and less aggressive, higher pain tolerance, etc). *Are some men smarter than some Women or better at some tasks than Women? Of course. But i feel that Women have a higher ceiling than men.
There are also the physical characteristics such as the fragile and exposed male genitals vs the Female reproductive organs within Women’s bodies. Also, Women are not controlled by their sexual needs anywhere nearly as much as men.
In the end, i feel Women are also better leaders while males can still be useful for menial tasks and physical labor so Women can be freed up for more important responsibilities. i have held the believe of intelligent design of Women as the sacred sex with males created to serve and accommodate Women. Why else were Women given the ability to have real orgasms much more powerful than that of the male and yet the Female orgasm is not necessary for reproduction? So Women can have more pleasure and access to it when wanted (ie multiple orgasms). Meanwhile the male has only the ability to have a very mild and brief orgasm which is needed for reproduction.
i have always felt inferior to the Female sex and since becoming an adult, it seems more and more information comes out all the time to reinforce my belief that Women are indeed superior and that all of us (especially men) would be better off embracing this while keeping in mind that acknowledging superiority of Women doesn’t necessarily mean full blown suppression and subjugation of men. Though it can be a fun fantasy.
Aaaaaaaaall this being said, i know none of this is likely to change anyone’s minds but hopefully will show people where i feel most of us are coming from. After all, You have done so much to open eyes and create a dialogue on many hot button topics.
In closing, i just want to thank You again for all You do, for giving us a forum to ramble, and for Your ability to listen and create a conversation/debate without judgement.
Thank YOU kyle. I’m so happy you’ve enjoyed some of my articles and shows, seriously. When you do what I do you don’t hear if you’re having an effect on anyone so I appreciate your gratitude. Although I’m sure there are many who would argue that I’m pretty judgemental on certain things I try to fence sit on most subjects and as you said, just allow the debate.
I dont agree. Believing that one Group is Superior to another is and was in the core of every fasicst Movment. Of course it starts with we are supirior but we respect the others. Over Time it chances to the worse. It might end in concentration camps.
In fact that is the great benefit of human rights: No one is Superior.
So be carfull.
You’re absolutely right.
This is true female is the superior gender in every way
I agree with Dr. Sue’s opinion, but with a few qualifications. As alan pointed out, just because Our gender is superior does not mean that all Women should be in control all the time. Not all Women make good Dommes, and some make GREAT subs. I LOVE My female submissives as they are generally more caring and have a more genuine desire to see Me happy instead of just wanting to get off like most males who serve Me.
Also, where does Female Supremacy start and end? I am currently working on an article of My own which goes into these points more in depth, but two of the big issues I have with the blind belief in Female Superiority are tans people and outliers. Not all Females are superior, but not all males are inferior as well. It’s common knowledge that I am polyamorous and pansexual and that I currently have 2 cis male partners and one trans fluid partner. I ask you this – why would I ever want to date somene inferior? Let’s be honest, inferior partners, regardless of gender, couldn’t handle Me. I need an equal.
As for trans people, does an assigned-male-at-birth Female trans person not get to say that She is superior because of the science and studies talking about how male-genetalia make you less competent? What about a trans man who was assigned female at birth. Is he suddenly inferior because he embraces who he is and decides to transition?
I guess My feelings are that yes, MANY things would be improved by Females being in charge. But that doesn’t necessarily mean that ALL females are meant to lead and DEFINITELY not all Females are meant to Dominate sexually. Also, there are more gray areas that I think should be discussed. Perhaps that would make a follow up to your Female Supremecy podcast?
I really need to create a new post on female supremacy cause no one reads my caveat at the end that I changed my mind.
I would be interested in reading that post, Dr Sue. I have changed my views as well. I vaguely recall writing that email you quoted but it kind of surprised me because that’s not actually what I believe at this point.
I think what needs to be done Pat, is a whole new article Female Supremacy 2018 to clarify the new views. This one is out of date.
As a gender, women are superior in every way except general physical strength. Not all women are good dominants however, nor do most women truly understand they could and SHOULD control men sexually. That’s a shame.
I also am in agreement that Women are superior to males
If you saw me or knew me I would be the last person that would think this way.
But its true and its time they hold the power at home and the workplace.
Really males should become assistants and chastity for males , tough but yes it works.
The time has come ,males have had their run its time to let the other team run things . It would be a good world run by WOMEN.
Women will rule most of the world, but not the whole world because of different cultures. So bickering over words complicates the progress!!!
males must be shut out of all superior Female groups, because males can not be trusted and this is a fact, if the Superior Female does not revisits the past She is doomed to repeat it!!! I will comment more in the Superior Female progress to rule over the male!!!!
Very interesting article. I’m a man who considers himself a Female Supremacist. That doesn’t mean I think that all women are better than all men, but I do think that women have innately superior potential to men, and the world would be much better run by women.
So I would like to see a world where women have all of the authority — both at home and in public leadership roles — and men are at most trusted advisers, with women making all of the final decisions.
Awesome! Matriarchy will go more mainstream when we encourage ( demand ) matriarchal marriage ceremonies.
Resurrecting this.
Ever thought of doing another radio podcast about this subject?
Happy to. Based on what angle? Has to be something I haven’t discussed.
I guess that’s a no.
I KNEW I answered your question. I just found my own comments in spam. :/ As you can now see I said if you can come up with a fresh angle on it I’m happy to do another one.
No problem, shit happens. I commented this subject on your other page http://inbedwithdrsue.com/female-supremacy/ as Incorrect Name. I would as Sardonic but it used a nickname that I used on another website before.
So tell me what you think about them either there or here, we might be able to think a few more.