As time goes on more and more males are fucking with what was supposed to be a lifestyle that allows women to be empowered by their sexuality and to have what men have had for thousands of years, options.
Cuckolding was meant to be a female led relationship; one where women take control of their lives, their relationships and their sexuality. Now because of men, cuckolding has spun into a glorified rape fantasy. Men wanting to see “their women” DRILLED by a HUGE COCK while they pump their peanut watching like some drooling letch in a back alley porn theater, aka the Hot Wife fantasy. (The term Hot Wife coming from the old Yahoo chatrooms in days of yor, where men would trade photos of their wives without their knowledge and circle jerk with each one saying what they’d to the other’s hot wife. smh) And as a fantasy that’s great (not that you shared pics without your wife’s knowledge, that’s never cool), the problem is these terms have become interchangeable with cuckolding.
And as if the term Hot Wife wasn’t bad enough now we’ve progressed my friends, now there’s Slut Wife. So now we’re slut shaming women for deciding who they want to fuck, despite the fact that cuckolding is, when practiced right, done with the complete approval of her husband. Hmmmm, not seeing slut in there anywhere myself.
Let’s breakdown the word SLUT, it’s a horrible word when you’re referring to a woman. And it’s usually hurled by men who those same women have turned down for sex. So tell me, why is it that when a man fucks a pile of women, he’s considered virile, a STUD, but the minute women choose what to do with their bodies and who to do it with they’re sluts? Let me ask you this question; at what number of lovers is a woman considered a slut? Because I mean if you’re going to throw the word around shouldn’t we get the memo on the parameters?
The stupid thing is neither of these terms refers to cuckolding in the first place, as I said before. These are fantasy situations where men love the idea of their wives being desired by other men. Why we have to use derogatory terms for the women when in fact, it’s the men who have fetishized them having sex with other men, is beyond me. It’s absurd.
And I’ve seen this in cuckolding. I’ve heard from women whose partners begged them to have sex with other men and then when they did, they get a slew of the usual nasty terms; slut, whore, and bitch, thrown in their face when all they were trying to do was to fulfill YOUR fantasy and when they do they get clobbered.
Cuckold relationships are not about your wife being annihilated by some GODZILLA COCK. It’s about watching a woman take control of her sexuality and her own pleasure whether that pleasure is with you, her husband, or another male and then being supported by you, her husband, for doing so because you, her husband, find the power in her pleasure and control intoxicating.
Cuckolding is not about your wife fucking a new guy every night, nor is cuckolding about you being replaced by some moronic male with a big dick. When cuckolding is done right it brings a couple closer together not farther apart. That’s why when I hear this crap about women not having sex with their husbands anymore I have to point out that at that point you are no longer cuckolding your husband, you’re now in a full-time, lifestyle D&s relationship and I give it a very short amount of time before your relationship goes up in flames.
Bulls should never be more than fuck toys for women. Not boyfriends, not buddies, not someone you see several times a week or hang out having a beer with at your backyard BBQ. If this is truly to be about women taking what they want, when they want it while protecting, quite fiercely, their relationship, then seeing bulls as anything more than a dick is counterproductive because this isn’t about your wife living in a Harlequin Romance. It’s about sex, end of. It’s about a woman choosing who she wants to share her body with based on her desires in the moment. Not about some idiot with long, billowing, hair in a poet’s shirt and leather pants waiting to whisk her away. That’s YOUR job. The romance and the intimacy are for YOU. And that intimacy gets even stronger when you play the right way.
This type of relationship is meant to level the playing field. But men don’t like that. They have to insert their dicks into anything that women try to make their own. So now you have “professional bulls” who try to take over and destroy marriages, men beating their meat to the idea of another man taking over his home and life so much so that in many cases they actually let it happen. Then the husband can’t understand how he’s now living alone, no longer cuckolded and no longer married. And the wife can’t understand why Mr. Stud dumped her the minute she tossed her husband and the only one coming out on top is THE BULL! He’s laughing all the way to the bank in some cases. Husbands paying for these men to take their wives on tropical vacations, expensive dinners out without the husband and even alleged bulls getting paid a regular salary to keep fucking with the couple. And I’m not even touching the idea of women being bred by these guys, that’s a whole other topic and kink in itself and not necessarily a good one.
You boys forget that porn is ENTERTAINMENT, not reality, even if you’re watching what you think of as ‘real porn’ done by amateurs. It’s all done to get you to buy. But too many of you base your sex lives on the fantasy you’re watching. And much of what you see falls under the category of, just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.
Cuckolding is about a couple who choose for their own personal reasons to have a female led relationship (and not always an FLR, but usually) whereby she controls everything, including the money along with having sex with other men. Now that sounds dry but when you have a submissive husband it’s heaven for them. Not because they’re wimps, quite the contrary. Cuckold husbands are some of the strongest males out there despite their sexual submissiveness. It takes balls of steel to watch your wife being pleasured by another man. So much so, that most men can’t handle even the thought of it and because they aren’t strong enough to handle it, they degrade the male who can handle it by referring to him as weak and any woman who engages in this, as a slut.
It’s not about women being hot enough to pass around like a fucking hot potato, or slutty enough to fuck a ton of guys. It’s about empowering women. And if you are a woman and you find yourself reading this I implore you to never refer to yourself using these terms, even if you’re in the adult business. It’s unnecessary and perpetuates a stereotype that makes women only something to be used.
And if you’re a man whose reading this you need to do some soul searching because if you can refer to your wife as a slut, then you certainly don’t care about her much. If you think of her as a hot wife, well, aren’t all wives hot? I mean you married her so I’m assuming you think she’s hot. It’s a bit redundant if you think about it. And they certainly don’t share pictures of their wives getting plowed by some guy without either of their knowledge with strangers on the internet, as many of you do.
Real men who are in to real cuckolding do so because they love watching their partners express their sexual confidence. They get off on seeing that confidence and passion in ways they can’t create themselves. They do it because they are proud of their wives for expressing their power and they find it exhilarating. And they never, ever refer to their wife as a slut or a whore because they are doing it for the right reason. They’re doing it because they love their wives. So what’s your reason? If it’s for anything other than what I just listed, you’re not a good candidate for cuckolding. You’re more likely a misogynist who cares only about his own satisfaction and not uplifting women, the way real men do.
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