K writes:
Hello Dr. Sue, I hope you are doing well. I have asked questions in the past and you were so helpful in replying. I have almost all the answers to the questions I and my Amazing partner have. All, except for one. She does not understand why am I into creampie cleanup. Neither do I. I am a firm believer in your idea of common Sense cuckolding. But, creampie cleanup is the only extreme practice I am obsessed by and would love to try. You have an article called cleanup duty, it addresses whether it’s okay to do it or not. What I wanna understand is WHY do I wanna do it? It is the most insane thing ever!! Stay Safe Dr. Sue!!
Thank you for writing in K!
So why oh why, do you like cream pie? Obviously it’s different for everyone and as with everything in BDSM and actually sexuality in general, every person who is indulging in it will have their own unique nuance that they enjoy but as I’ve stated before, along with submission comes that delicious thread of humiliation.
There are some men who enjoy overt humiliation. Those are the boys who want you to call them losers and tell them they’re worthless. Then there are gentlemen who want a more subtle form of humiliation. They don’t need nor want the name calling but they enjoy such things as their wife fondling the key to their chastity device that hangs around her neck as they enjoy dinner with friends. She needn’t say a thing but he feels that sting of being owned in that moment and combined with everyone else in the room not knowing the inside joke, it makes it even hotter.
Your desire to eat the cum of another man out of your wife’s pussy is a subtle form of humiliation, in my opinion. I mean what real man lets his wife fuck another male let alone then goes and dives in and eats it? You get that yummy humiliation feeling as you’re going down on your wife. Your mind keeps reminding you that you’re a weak man for doing what you’re doing, as you’re doing it. You don’t need to hear it, your mind is filling in the blanks.
Now you can combine that with overt humiliation and while you’re eating your wife out she can be telling you what a little bitch you are. There’s a million ways to do it, but the end result is that sting, that power play that fucks with your head that you’re craving. It’s your weak little ass eating the cum of a more powerful male out of YOUR wife. That’s pretty humiliating and your wee dick thinks that humiliation feels soooo good.
So eat away K but try to remember to be in the moment. Really get in to how you feel as you’re doing it. Let your mind run and remind you of your position in life, beneath your wife.
How does cream pie eating make YOU feel?
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Women of today should be required to take a course on “loving” humiliation and cream pie cleanup would be one of the first techniques to be mastered. After all men need to be occasionally humiliated to remain humble, obedient and have a meaningful purpose. It should be noted that the words humiliation, humility and humble all come from the same latin root word. Thank you Dr Sue for your insight and wisdom.
And men should be required to stfu and stop giving opinions on what women need or don’t need to do.
I have only cleaned up my wife twice. My wife is not in to extra marital participants , I cleaned my own mess. Surprisingly, it didn’t taste as bad as I expected. Out of both times, the first was best because my wife forced me too. She was on top and road me to a big finish, then without a word, she lifted off and cupped her pussy . She then shimmied forward and put her knees on my arms and shoulders and lowered her pussy on my mouth. All she said was ” instead of cake you get cream pie for your birthday! Happy birthday. Now eat the pie!” I was so turned on by what she said, and by being made to do something naughty my cock that had been wilting, began to rise to full attention again.
The second time I did it I had just finished inside her, and decided to go down on my own. The arousal was not the same as the first time. Don’t get me wrong, I still got hard again, and achieved my goal which was to go for a second round. But the first time was way more amazing.
First time I tried it I was even shocked at myself to g down on my wife’s pussy after its been used and deposited by her bull. My wife found it a huge turn on for me to undertake the cleaning of her used pussy by a guy that’s has enjoyed her for hrs on end. She climaxed a few times as I did so . On the other hand I was shocked that I tasted another mans cum . But I do admit I thoroughly enjoyed his taste that I now do it for her with her special bulls
I do it to please the wife and help her clean up while she rests from the workout. Love seeing her have an orgasm as it’s very physical with her down to the toe curl and the hip quivering while she pulls the cock in deeper.
So Hot to watch.