I spoke with Matt last week who is presently trying to find the right Dominant woman to serve in real time, not on the phone or in a Pro Domme capacity. His quest brings up a very important point that I want to get across to you submissive guys out there. First of all I [...]
Fetish – What is Normal?
March 4, 2011 By Leave a Comment
If you read my article about Fetish and Society you’ll probably notice the same theme running here. I would say 80% of the people who call me want to know that they aren’t going crazy and that what they’re doing is okay. When I’m asked, ‘what is normal?’ I reply, ‘who cares?’ What’s normal to [...]
Fetish and Society
February 28, 2011 By 1 Comment
Why are we all so quick to condemn things we don’t understand? Unfortunately tolerance isn’t a human strong point. I’d like to say that all of this will change but I doubt it will in our lifetime. The problem with society and fetish is clearly ignorance and that can even take place within the fetish [...]
What is a Ruined Orgasm and Why Would I Want One?
February 23, 2011 By 5 Comments
You probably don’t. LOL. Ruined orgasms are used in cuckolding and male control. It’s a way of draining the submissive without the pleasure of the orgasm. We’ve all had one at some time or other usually unintentionally. You build up and pull back to that orgasm tip over point so many times that if you’re [...]
Is it Wise to Have Sex with Your Submissive?
January 18, 2011 By Leave a Comment
Camilla asked this question in an email to me and I think it bears discussing. There is a lot of contradictory information out there regarding the subject of sex with submissives, and in this case I’m talking submissive males of course. The first thing I want to point out is that there are no hard [...]
