In a word, for most women, YES! Okay, I understand that some women say they really don’t care but they are few and far between and if you really nailed them down and got them to confess they’d tell you that yes the size of a man’s penis matters.
Now let me qualify that. I’m sure that if you’re a five foot tall woman and some guy came at you with a 10” cock my guess would be you’d be a little apprehensive but even that’s not always the case.
First off we need to establish what the average white male’s penis size really is and that would be anywhere between 5.5” and 6.5”. If you fall below the 5.5” you’re getting in to territory that would be considered small. Remember of course that all of this is also relative to the size of your body. Obviously there are many variations on that average but we’re talking generalities again. (Yeah I know I say that a lot but I’m trying to reiterate that I speak in generalities. There will be exceptions to all the rules of course.) Generally speaking though, the stereotypes you hear about are true and there are a lot of women out there who would consider 6.5” to be small.
For the female who likes larger men and in my own opinion, a woman wants to feel penetrated and unless she is of a very tiny stature 3” or 4” just isn’t going to cut it. Most women when faced with a man of this size who has just dropped his pants will smile and use the time during sex to figure out what she’s going to take to work for lunch the next day and you’ll never hear about it, but you’ll also never hear from her again either. So don’t go thinking that because she didn’t say anything it makes you a stud.
We also have to factor in thickness or girth here too. Many women will forego length for girth because it can be just as satisfying but again not in the 3” or 4” range. When you get in to sizes that small and lower it’s not likely you’ll have a huge amount of girth anyway and if you did it would look very weird. Think about it.
Most women learn to ‘settle.’ They figure if he’s not cheating and he has a job and teeth they’ll deal with the lack of size. Those are the women who say it doesn’t matter to them but I will guarantee you that if you gave them the chance to have something much bigger, they’d take it. And once again, in my opinion, this is why cuckolding is becoming more popular. A woman deserves that sexual satisfaction and as men have been saying for many, many years, ‘it’s just sex.’
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Hi Dr. Sue,
OK, so let’s take it as a fact that “size matters.” Of course it matters, but it’s not the only thing that matters. I guess that’s what you mean when you say most women settle. Don’t we all settle for our partner in some way? I mean, nobody’s perfect. Does that mean we should have a separate partner for each of the traits our partner lacks? I would say no.
Cuckolding, as presented here, seems like it’s for women who want the benefits of monogamy but not have to be monogamous and not have to sneak around. I’m sorry to say but that just sounds selfish and immature. It also shows a great deal of insecurity on the part of the woman to need her old stand-by waiting at home, while she has her flings with men who can’t provide anything but a big dick.
Make up your mind, lady. What do you want? Life’s all about making choices and yes, sometimes you have to “settle” in some respect in order to get most of what you want. It’s a matter of setting priorities. If she wants to be free to cruise the meat market then by all means, stay single. After all, a woman’s entitled to sexual satisfaction, right? But she’s not entitled to step out on her monogamous partner whenever she needs a fix.
If penis size is really a deal maker or breaker for you, if seven inches is the minimum MUST-HAVE, then keep searching until you find it. Don’t shack up with a four or five inch man who devotes all of himself to you and then go prowl the bars every night looking for your stud.